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Kelseyxxx

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Advice needed
« on: 10 October 2010, 02:46:19 pm »
Hi there,

I have a few questions.

Privacy is really important to me but i find it restrictive especially on AW as i cant use real details (name etc) so thats the verification bit over, cant show my face as pretty as it is as id be recognised so i find it bit hard, i always send clients face shot etc.
thinking of going to an agency, does anyone have any recommendations for the UK Midlands Agencies?

Only prob i find here is being a mother plus paying for childcare means i need minimum 2 hr notice and min 2 hours bookings the evening i work thats why independant is great but no way am i sharing my passport etc online ...mainly because fear of family or ex crazy bf 

but AW gone really dead on me. Im a model by day .. i have the figure and i have the looks, no complaints in entertaining clients infact i get extended or repeat biz but im obviously not doing something right as see all these girls very busy, doing tours, making lots and im like how they do that, peraps im just not a biz minded person, trouble is after having a taste of it its hard to look at normal things as far as work as work a full 36 hrs for same  as 2 hrs escorting!!! its a killer thought really plus i get to spend more precious time with my lil girl

thanks for listening, all advice welcome

Kelsey xx
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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #1 on: 10 October 2010, 04:59:03 pm »
 i read /hear this a lot from escorts  especially those that are relying soley on AW  to generate business
 AW is just  (imo) another form of advertising to use  there are a hell of lot more out there that are just as effective if not more the reason that so many escort use adult work is cos its free to set up a profile and there is no outlay some girls work fine on aw but most probably struggle i think overall  i tend to use it for  when im touring and as anotehr form of advertising

 
 however  if you want to be busier have more clients then you have to market yourself effectively  just in the same way that  tescos mark and spark and Mcdonalds do  ( not that im suggesting you  put a golden arch above your head and dress up as a clown  ;D ) everyone know who they are but do they just wack out the same adverts month after month year after year  no they dont they change it  all the time to keep in the public eye  even though we all know who they are
being an escort and working it as a business is no different in my opinion 


 you say that you are getting repeat business and extending appointments so thats great the guys that you see like you  so that a major plus     now all you have to to do is to get more guys to like you
to do this you have to be FOUND  by these guys  if they cant find you they cant call you they cant book you 

To be found you have to advertise  whether this is in the paper or on the internet  its no good if people cant find you to call you  and while  AW is a big site not every single guy uses it  and there are a lot of escort on there as well and a lot of competition   


so what i would suggest is that you get your own website and start marketing it spend time on it think of it as your baby and nuture it   sound crazy but im being honest here  its  a shop window and a website after any inital cost is the most cost effective form of advertisng for an escort unless she works in a parlour   
 
 add your website to sites like punternet punterlink uk belles escort list ect look at other escorts links and get yourself added to those as well its an ongoing process and wont happen overnight but as AW is dead it wont really matter   anyway

you have to like any business speculate to accumulate  you wont get nothing for nothing 
join the forums like punternet punterlink  advertise on these sites  join  the forums and post and get yourself known by potential punters  join in the threads that relate to anything in your area  i always post on the welsh post cos wales is not far from me and i tour there 

i  have  had a website years but i still spend around several hours a week  working on it even though i dont have to  i  send out  messages on my yahoo group where i have over  900 members  i let them all know what im up to when i back my availibility where im touring to next ect  that 900 potential clients that all get  twice weekly updates on what im up to 

i post on punternet escort ireland and punterlink  even when im not in the uk /ireland 
i make my a w profile as detailed as possible


working for an agency i cant comment but  i would imagine that one minute you will be busy and then quite  a good one that i do know of is elite courtesans they are all around the west country and birmingham and charge higher prices  ect so might be worth looking there   

   
 


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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #2 on: 10 October 2010, 06:03:19 pm »
Privacy is really important to me ... i always send clients face shot etc.

If privacy is that important, why are you sending face shots to people just because they ask for them? It is too late to do anything about the ones you've sent, but you need to think why you're sending them. Has everyone actually booked and turned up?

What do you expect to get from getting an agency to market you that you can't do for yourself? Being available on a (very?) limited number of evenings will limit your appeal to some agencies.
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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #3 on: 10 October 2010, 07:57:19 pm »
Privacy is really important to me, i always send clients face shot etc.

Hi Kelsey,  I had a quick look over your profile and in your FAQs you say you will send more images ......... NO NO NO NO NO! That is what your Gallery and Private Gallery is for .............. and for you to make a few pennies to cover costs of displaying your phone number if you choose to do this later.  You may also decide to do what many  other escorts do and get yourself an extra mobile for escorting only.  You can then turn it off if you choose when not working or turn it to silent. The monies accumulated can also be used to make  yourself available on any day you find you have a bit  extra spare time.

I would also do a spell check on your profile as there is quite  a few typing and spelling errors - sorry to go on but if you want to make top bucks you must have a well laid out and smart looking profile.  I had a laugh one time when one of the girls said she was very 'intelugint' - perhaps not the exact spelling but similar and definitely not the correct spelling.  It just looked so shoddy.

I would also get some more photographs taken ...... you know what men are like with pictures.

If you pick one of the girls on the site and google their name then you may find new and free websites to log on to.  If you even google my name you will find  at least three pages of listings  of different sites I am listed on.  I am one of the more mature escorts but I am kept busy most days of the week.  You just got to get yourself out there girlie. Rofl.

So go get them.  Good luck with your future plans.
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Re: Advice needed
« Reply #4 on: 11 October 2010, 01:49:42 am »
The bit about the face shots worries me when you say you want to protect your privacy, once you have sent them to someone they can do with them what they want.

Maybe a silly question, but do you regularly update your AW profile to move it to the front page or pay for to be featured?

I still think as indie you need to have your own website and spread yourself over the free directories.

If you are in the east midlands I know a good agency there, so Pm me if you want to take that idea further.

Good luck XX
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