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Mamacita.x

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Advice from travelling workers and Sb’s ASAP please x
« on: 14 September 2018, 12:51:30 pm »
Hey have any of you travelled with a POT sugar daddy overseas?
I’ve been invited to Thailand&Dubai with him as he travels there for work regularly.. He will be making the booking in my name of course and I’ve requested a room for myself aswell. We’ve been talking for a little bit and we haven’t actually met up yet due to us both being so busy. I’m going to try to meet him before we go, if I decide to go. Also thinking of maybe escorting there as he will be busy with work so any advice about Dubai and Thailand please.
Any Misstravel or SB’s that have any advice for travelling with a POT? Have you done it before? I do want to go but I am cautious.. Please PM me it’s soon xxxx
Thank you xxxx

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« Reply #1 on: 14 September 2018, 01:38:11 pm »
Given that you haven't actually met this guy via him paying for a booking before, it's extremely likely to be at least one of TWing, a scam, or a complete nightmare in waiting.

So yes, yes, yes, have a booking here first. You can then have some clue as to whether you could stand him for an extended time. Have a search here for more advice should you actually consider it.

There are plenty of other reasons not to work in Dubai - again, have a search - and there's not exactly a shortage of prostitutes in Thailand...


'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #2 on: 14 September 2018, 02:12:32 pm »
What is POT ???

Apart from that, what Ian said :).

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« Reply #3 on: 14 September 2018, 02:15:18 pm »
What is POT ???

Apart from that, what Ian said :).

POT = potential sugar daddy.

OP there is no way on god's green earth I'd agree to travel with someone I'd never met.

But I agree he's probably just a fantasist.
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« Reply #4 on: 14 September 2018, 02:48:27 pm »
POT = potential sugar daddy.

Ah, so 'POT sugar daddy' = 'timewaster' :)

'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

Mamacita.x

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« Reply #5 on: 14 September 2018, 02:50:26 pm »
Yeah potential sugar daddy. We’ve spoken through a sugar arrangement website.
I probably wont escort there If go anyway, I’ve not even been doing it long. Anyway thanks for your help guys. I’m going to find out more from him and meet up ASAP. I have his full name and company he works for and everything.
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« Reply #6 on: 14 September 2018, 02:55:39 pm »
Yup, total scam.
No legit SD (i.e. one with the resources and inclination to support an international trip) is going to do so without having a solid grounding well before even offering - why would they spend money tying themselves to someone they might not even get on with?
On a slightly separate but related note, a genuine SD is also not likely to be best pleased with you escorting yourself out to other guys while you're on his dime - what are you going to do, invite them back to the hotel room that he's booked and paid for? Ping pong around other hotels and hope he doesn't notice / care?
Either way I think you're on to a losing proposition here.
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« Reply #7 on: 14 September 2018, 03:01:25 pm »
Yup, total scam.
No legit SD (i.e. one with the resources and inclination to support an international trip) is going to do so without having a solid grounding well before even offering - why would they spend money tying themselves to someone they might not even get on with?
On a slightly separate but related note, a genuine SD is also not likely to be best pleased with you escorting yourself out to other guys while you're on his dime - what are you going to do, invite them back to the hotel room that he's booked and paid for? Ping pong around other hotels and hope he doesn't notice / care?
Either way I think you're on to a losing proposition here.


That’s what I was thinking, why hasn’t he before inviting me. What kind of scam would happen with this situation? Do you know? He would have my real name and DOB.

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« Reply #8 on: 14 September 2018, 03:11:10 pm »
Don't get me started on the concept of Sugar Daddies. Genuine ones are rarer than unicorns. They are wankers punters in 'disguise' who don't want to admit to paying for sex and in my limited, unfortunate contact with some (before I saw sense and did this) they are the most entitled, full of shit individuals I've ever come across. They play on your greed (not saying you are greedy OP) and dangle carrots of wonderful treats and cash that never ever materialise. It is all bullshit.

And no man, SD, punter or otherwise is going to want to shell out a ton on a holiday with a woman he's never met. Ever. Aside from being entitled pricks, they are super super picky and fussy who they meet. A genuine SD would most likely be too busy for back and forth messages and would surely want a short, paid meet for coffee or lunch before anything else happened. This would be arranged quickly so they knew fast if you were worth pursuing.

In some ways it's very different to the escort - punter relationship. But in some, it's just the same. In reality though, punters exist!

OP, I would cut contact right now and move on. This is a complete waste of your time and energy.

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« Reply #9 on: 14 September 2018, 03:13:54 pm »
OP, I can't believe you're even considering this - give your head a shake.
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« Reply #10 on: 14 September 2018, 03:27:11 pm »
I have travelled twice with punters one was from another country but visits regularly paid for a meeting before we left to make sure we got on then paid for everything upfront and I booked my own flights.

The other guy was from the UK we met before we travelled and I would rather claw my eyes out than go anywhere with him again. He was an entitled prick who thought he had paid for every minute of my time while we were away and I ended up giving him some money back and travelling home on my own I couldn't stand being with him any longer.

The moral is this guy is likely to be a TW'r as even with the entitled prick we met before travelling no one is going to pay to take you away when all they have to go on is electronic communication.

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« Reply #11 on: 14 September 2018, 05:04:07 pm »

That’s what I was thinking, why hasn’t he before inviting me. What kind of scam would happen with this situation? Do you know? He would have my real name and DOB.

Everyone I know who does fly-me-to-you and travel bookings gets the money for the tickets and accomm from the client and books it themselves.  There is no need for him to have that information. This sounds EXTREMELY fishy and potentially extremely dangerous.

The thing with sugaring is a lot of newbie escorts start out that way thinking it's somehow safer but if anything it's worse.  Punters MINE those sites for women they think they will be able to take advantage of because they haven't got the experience in being assertive and reaffirming boundaries. Theres a reason they go on SA and the like (rather than booking escorts and finding someone they get along with before offering an arrangement) and it's because they want to pay less, get more, and take advantage of inexperience and a misplaced sense of 'trust'. Don't fall for it.

I speak from bitter experience, although my experiences were FAR FAR more tame than  many of my friends.

there are genuine SD's out there. but very few of them are on sugar daddy websites.  They have money, they book escorts, and it evolves from there.  That's not to say it doesn't happen any other way but be VERY wary.
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« Reply #12 on: 14 September 2018, 08:54:57 pm »
Yes, there's a reason we have a single, separate thread for this deluded cobblers away from the honest whoring/punting stuff. I'll stick to 'this is what's on offer, this is what it costs and this is how you get it', I think :).

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« Reply #13 on: 14 September 2018, 11:03:16 pm »
I wouldn't even bother meeting him in the first place. Sounds like a scam and potentially dangerous timewaster.
I get many of these offers and just ignore and block.
You are better off staying here, and work as normal.

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« Reply #14 on: 15 September 2018, 11:31:24 am »

That’s what I was thinking, why hasn’t he before inviting me. What kind of scam would happen with this situation? Do you know? He would have my real name and DOB.

This sounds familiar to me.

The scam is, he gets your real details.  Promises payment via bank transfer or cash at the end of booking.  You go there have an ok time with a demanding client. You do not get paid, when you demand your money you are threatened with the police as sex work is illegal there and this cunt has your real name and texts and emails to prove it.   You could end up in jail if accused of prostitution in Dubai.  So he gets a free escort.