Thank you so much for all the advice! I hate when it gets awkward and they say something like, 'Oh but we're having such a good time'. And it feels AWFUL as I get so embarrassed. I offer a proper gfe, so it's all chatting, cuddling, drinking tea, snuggling on sofa etc and a bit of sex. So it just makes it sound so businessy if I say something like 'Ok would you like to extend the booking for an extra ____' espesh as I'm sure they don't have that extra money on them!

I'm too nice to my clients, that's for sure...

I have one guy and he constantly rings me just to chat about how things are, what he's been up to, what he's bought at the shops, and he's always texting and emailing me too. How can I say nicely that I can't keep chatting to him all day every day without losing him? He's a really nice guy!

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Have you tried setting an alarm for when the time is up. I know its not the best of solutions but just say that you set your alarm on your phone because you have an urgent appointment straight after.

Or get a somebody to send you a text message or phone you when your time is up. Clients can't argue with that. Imagine if you were working with an agency then you would be on tight schedule and the client would know that as well!!

I had 3 bookings today, and it was great. I tried a few different things, the first one I said "Oh look at the time! I really need to get a move on to get ready for lunch". The second I just got up and put my dressing gown on and suggested him showering, and the 3rd I said, "Oh is that the time already?! Would you like to extend the booking?" and he actually did and left on time. Thanks everyone

I'm too nice to my clients, that's for sure...

I have one guy and he constantly rings me just to chat about how things are, what he's been up to, what he's bought at the shops, and he's always texting and emailing me too. How can I say nicely that I can't keep chatting to him all day every day without losing him? He's a really nice guy!

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Lol...you could always make up a new management system.

And send out an email to all of your clients: "We are pleased to announce that the service provider previously referred to as "Elle" (Henceforth, Latisha Lovely); in the interest of stream-lining services for all clients and maintaining the standard of service you have grown to appreciate, several features which you have become accustomed to will no longer be available: particularly, text/call-a-friend on demand and uncompensated time extension.

Best regards,

Anna "Big Pimp-ette" Darling.

And henceforth, get a look of genuine concern when time starts to go over and say "oh, dear me, I must call my manager" or hand over the phone to an especially gruff female friend when said client calls...

(Er, sorry, I was bitching about this to a friend in social work school and she jokingly suggested this.)

Otherwise, perhaps tell calling client that
a) you are quite busy with personal life/trying to earn enough income, and that if you are unable to answer the phone/an email, he shouldn't take it personally; or hint at some kind of financial arrangement which would give you the flexibility to do this?

Re. clients who overstay booking times, maybe something like

Elle: (still screwing, hour up) - oh dear me, we're almost out of time; would you like to wrap things up or extend this by another half-hour or hour?
Client: But we're having so much fun!
Elle: Oh I know--I love my job...too much! If I kept going as long as I was enjoying myself, I'm pretty sure all one-hour bookings would become four-hours and overnights; in which case, I'd never get longer bookings and I would end up homeless, hungry and with no life outside of escorting [laugh] So one does have to draw the line somewhere!

Oh Meg that really cracked me up! Hahahahaha. I think I'm going to tell him that university has started back so I'm back to being busy.

And to get rid of clients I'm using a few of these tips, and also a new one I've come up with. My housemate Charlotte also escorts so I'm just going to say, "Oh dear Charlottes client is going to be arriving in the next 10minutes!"

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Haha I use that one too. If they have already been getting sexual services for the last hour then they are not going to be officers about to raid so I just say that my housemate "Sarah" who also escorts has a client due soon and she'll need the room (in reality there are no other escorts but they don't know that). It means they don't get to 'blame' me for being production-line and a clock-watcher. There's a look of rabbit-in-headlights before they scurry off in fear of running into another punter!