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Bessie

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Am I being paranoid
« on: 05 August 2016, 06:17:39 pm »
Today I had a client book me he tried to book a few weeks ago but had to cancel.  He arrived on time paid used the loo and then went to put his phone on silent.   When he opened his phone took the call in the hall.  He said his boss needed him to return to work.   He then said it didn't matter about the money and went.

I have had a couple of walkouts before using various excuses but they have never paid or left without the money.

I have been using my in call place for 6 months now and met the neighbours for the first time a few weeks ago.  He said he didn't realise anyone was living here. 
 I have done in calls all week seeing no more than 3 men per day.  Am I just being paranoid thinking that maybe someone is trying to catch mE out.  This has totally thrown me.

Fabulassie

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Re: Am I being paranoid
« Reply #1 on: 05 August 2016, 06:56:28 pm »
I wouldn't connect the two. I've had a guy pay then walk out. Whatever the reason for walking, the guy feels he should pay. Perhaps out of embarrassment.

If someone's motivation is to catch you out, they can do so without paying ("I left my wallet in the car. ")

Walkouts happen. They're almost always not dodgy. They just change their mind.

Jill

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Re: Am I being paranoid
« Reply #2 on: 05 August 2016, 07:20:12 pm »
He could have paid as he was not sure if there was anyone else around to give him trouble if he walked without handing over the fee. 
Things like that can unnerve you but just remind yourself of the men who wangle more time without paying or those who mess you around, treat it as a kind of compensation.

barbie88

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Re: Am I being paranoid
« Reply #3 on: 05 August 2016, 07:33:54 pm »
I have had a guy book before and then had to go after a few minutes because his wife called and said keep the money . I wouldn't worry Hun xx

LadyOfTheNight

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Re: Am I being paranoid
« Reply #4 on: 05 August 2016, 07:53:13 pm »
Remember the saying 'just because you think you are being paranoid doesn't mean....you aren't being paranoid' ..

We all get things happening like this, try not to worry

Bessie

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Re: Am I being paranoid
« Reply #5 on: 05 August 2016, 07:57:47 pm »
Thanks everyone I feel a bit better if he hadn't have left the money I wouldn't have thought anything of it!

Emi787

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Re: Am I being paranoid
« Reply #6 on: 06 August 2016, 10:05:21 am »
Its something about this job that really amazes me: some men treat cash (easily over ?100/hour?) exactly as if it was pennies.

Some men do not want any sexual interaction, some just want a chat, some will pay my full overnight amount just for a bit of social time and cuddle in bed. Honesty could not wish for a better job.

I know some girls hate this job, but really its not that bad at all. Anyone who disagrees have just had an easy life, rich daddies, boyfriends, sugardaddies whatever. I've had an office job where I had to wear a formal bodycon suit including mini skirt/dress, hold up stockings barely hidden under the hem, high heels, being paid ?200 per client to win a contract that could win the company up to around a million pounds while they would get back-handers of up to ?100k. When I asked for any form of bonus I was snubbed off. If I'm not good enough try another girl to win your so-called "hard work".
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