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loverboy1977

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Advertising, and incalls vs outcalls
« on: 15 April 2025, 11:57:54 am »
Hi,
I'm new to this industry and I was wondering is it possible to make more money by doing in calls or out calls?

The problem I have with doing in calls is that  I live in a studio apartment that is part of a share house ie a converted semi detached where all the rooms have been converted into studio apartments, and If I have clients come to my place there's a good chance the landlord will find out and evict me.

Also I was wondering if you guys know of any good escort sites that offer cheap advertising, I'm currently on gentlemen 4 hire. Com

And the last thing I wanted to ask is do you know how I can bring large amounts of money back to the UK without anything going through my bank if I go on a holiday with a client, I don't want to gift cards as I don't know how to convert them into cash or how to sell them on afterwards.

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Re: Advertising, and incalls vs outcalls
« Reply #1 on: 15 April 2025, 02:11:34 pm »
Did you read either of the links you were given in your other thread (or any of the other replies)? Here's another one.

Gentlemen for Hire is a scam site and whilst it's not one of the more obvious (or expensive) ones, it's unlikely that you'll ever get a booking, much less a free holiday. Cancel the Direct Debit and hang on to a shred of dignity while you still have any.

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Re: Advertising, and incalls vs outcalls
« Reply #2 on: 15 April 2025, 03:42:12 pm »
I used to rent a very similar type of studio (rooms in a house converted into studio flats) and can say it was virtually impossible to do incalls from such premises. I think I did it maybe 4 times in a space of a year and was super paranoid and not worth the stress. Not to mention sound proofing does not exist in converted houses.
You will be ok doing just outcalls to start with and build some savings.
Be careful with any holiday/travelling abroad offers from clients you have never met, especially when you are a newbie as this is just a scam. So for that reason you don’t need to worry about bringing a suitcase load of cash back into the Uk 🙂

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Re: Advertising, and incalls vs outcalls
« Reply #3 on: 16 April 2025, 05:25:46 am »

I'm new to this industry and I was wondering is it possible to make more money by doing in calls or out calls?

**** large amounts of money ****

If you need to earn large amounts of money, you need to stop this right now, it is a waste of your time

Trying to make a substantial amount working as a male escort for female clients is just a fantasy. You can't make a living this way. If you are lucky, you might get a few clients over the course of a year. If you are paying to advertise, you will probably not cover your expenses.

If you have all the looks, charm, and body, you could make a living having sex with men.


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Re: Advertising, and incalls vs outcalls
« Reply #4 on: 16 April 2025, 10:45:32 am »
I was under the impression that you have to be ‘gay for pay’ to make a living as a male escort.

Woman do not need to pay for sex; they can get it anytime they want for free.

If you do your research you’ll find that the odds are against you advertising as straight.

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Re: Advertising, and incalls vs outcalls
« Reply #5 on: 16 April 2025, 01:07:31 pm »
The only instances I can think of women possibly paying is if you have a big social media presence that appeals to women (I'm thinking of male only fans creaters etc) you could possibly try catering to couples/cuckhold fetishes.

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Re: Advertising, and incalls vs outcalls
« Reply #6 on: 16 April 2025, 02:13:18 pm »
At least being a straight male escort means there is little chance of getting more than a handful of bookings a year. You're unlikely to get evicted.

Would you consider doing webcam or something? Catering to gay men obviously. I mean I get it, I'm straight and I don't do "gay for pay". But maybe it's not so bad online. There just isn't a big market for straight male escorts. And there seem to be alot of straight men that think they should be getting paid for sex!

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Re: Advertising, and incalls vs outcalls
« Reply #7 on: 19 April 2025, 09:08:36 am »
I know a photographer who makes a very good living catering to gay men on X. He does videos regularly. He doesn't even sleep with them.