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Fifi

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Condom split with client
« on: 12 November 2024, 09:07:42 pm »
I've seen a client three times and on two of those meets, the condom has split (twice in one session, on one occasion).

This is rare for me. He isn't big (more like average) and feel I'm using the right size condom but it is pissing me off.

He doesn't annoy me enough to ban him just now but I've a good mind to say next time that if it splits I won't replace it.

Is this reasonable? What would you do?

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Re: Condom split with client
« Reply #1 on: 12 November 2024, 10:44:50 pm »
It's good if he's telling you before he comes, but it's not sounding like a coincidence, is it?

Is he touching it in any way once it's on? Is there oil on him that you're getting on your fingers before you put it on?

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Re: Condom split with client
« Reply #2 on: 13 November 2024, 05:27:05 am »
Is he pulling it tight over his glans, is he exiting then re-entering on each stroke?

Does he do anything different to any other client? I have a client who likes to wank/edgeing between bouts of intercourse. I've had several splits with him luckily only on entry and he jumped back immediately, I have to use extra safe and change the condom at least once in the one hour booking.
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Fifi

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Re: Condom split with client
« Reply #3 on: 13 November 2024, 10:49:08 am »
He does thrust rather hard and it does look tight at the end.

Maybe I should add some lube. I'll keep a closer eye on him in case he's tightening it when it's on.

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Re: Condom split with client
« Reply #4 on: 13 November 2024, 01:12:14 pm »
He does thrust rather hard and it does look tight at the end.

Maybe I should add some lube. I'll keep a closer eye on him in case he's tightening it when it's on.

I would speak to him about this, tell him you'd rather be safe and feel relaxed. So you need him to  understand the teat needs to be slack and use a little lube.

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Re: Condom split with client
« Reply #5 on: 13 November 2024, 01:50:26 pm »
Don't let clients put on their own condom.

You put it on, holding the teet so you know it's on properly.

Do not let the man handle his penis at all when the condom is on. 

No matter how awkward it is trying to reach you should have your hand on his cock frequently in any position just to make sure condom is still on. You guide the cock inside, not him.

Then broken condoms can happen, but will be VERY rare.

Use a bit of lube and apply it to the end of his dick once the condom is on - something like liquid silk - NO OIL.

There are some bastards who deliberately break condoms and they are very practised at it.





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Re: Condom split with client
« Reply #6 on: 13 November 2024, 02:45:30 pm »
Ok thanks folks.

I'll make sure the teat is slack (it tends not to be with him).

I'll also keep control of the condom in future and plenty of lube.


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Re: Condom split with client
« Reply #7 on: 13 November 2024, 09:52:03 pm »
I never let clients apply the condom themselves and always lube the condom before commencing penetration even if I don't feel that I'm particularly dry.
If he likes to go hard then you need to check the tip frequently and I always check with my hand by guiding them in that the tip is still intact before they enter if they want to change to doggy.

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Re: Condom split with client
« Reply #8 on: 13 November 2024, 11:02:58 pm »
I'll make sure the teat is slack (it tends not to be with him).

You have to squeeze it between two fingers when you start to roll the condom on!

If there's air in there it will get pressured every time he thrusts as well potentially breaking when he ejaculates as the air gets squeezed once again.
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