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Alana

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Adultfriendfinder
« on: 20 June 2009, 08:59:01 pm »

  Hi, I just wanted to ask has anyone used adultfriend finder and what do you think of it. :)

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Re: Adultfriendfinder
« Reply #1 on: 21 June 2009, 07:38:02 am »
From what it looks like to me its not really for escorts and more about incounters. If you were to advertise on there you would prob get a load of timewasters and chancers.

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Re: Adultfriendfinder
« Reply #2 on: 21 June 2009, 10:57:09 am »
Plus, although you can have a free profile you need to pay before you can make contact with people. I doubt it would be worth the bother or the money.

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Re: Adultfriendfinder
« Reply #3 on: 21 June 2009, 11:29:25 am »
I tried AFF, but for my personal life only - i.e. not business.

I found perhaps 2 decent guys out of probably 50 odd responses, most of whom were married and just wanted a quick shag.

I have heard the dating sites are a way some WGs operate, however I wouldn't use it because it simply isn't professional.

For all the hassle you would get, I also don't think it's worth it. Most were guys sending me photos of their cocks, with one line "I'm in town tomorrow can we meet for sex". I'd actually stated in my profile I was looking for a potential relationship, and needed to get on with a guy before going any further.

When I said I needed more info, time they just would say I was being unreasonable. Wouldn't like to think how they would have reacted if I'd told them how much it would be - then again they might have gone for it!

By the way, a guy who wasted my time with emails, msn messages etc when I first started was also on MSN and he started messing around in exactly the same way - makes you wonder doesn't it.

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Re: Adultfriendfinder
« Reply #4 on: 21 June 2009, 08:55:45 pm »
Mmm, yes, if I were a woman looking for unpaid casual sex with a man - and was prepared to get emails from lots of men I wouldn't want to be in the same city as to find the few who'd make the short-list - I'd consider AFF.

For everyone else, not really. If you troll there, be prepared for some nasty emails: they've paid to reply and will not appreciate the idea of you wanting to charge them for meeting up.

Some of AFF's business activities are also widely considered not particularly ethical. A search will doubtless come up with some examples.
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Re: Adultfriendfinder
« Reply #5 on: 27 June 2009, 01:45:13 pm »
I used to be on AFF for personal use and there were a large number of timewasters that contacted me, but I have also had some very nice encounters and have made some friends with whom I am still in contact with now, we don't have sex anymore by the way, we are mates.

I wouldn't use it to try to attract business, as men on there expect it for free and in that respect the only contact you will get is from TWs. When I started professional in Chester I still had 3 or 4 months paid up membership so rather than waste money by cancelling the menbership I set up an autoreply stating that I had gone professional and only to contact me if the were prepared to pay and replied to emails I recieved in the same vein, but it wasn't worth it.

Also AFF do monitor email traffic and if they suspect you are a WG they soon put stop to it, oh and you have to exchange at least 3 emails with the other party before they allow you to include contact details and the get really arsey about webaddys.

What Anika said about replying to messages is true, unless the person contacting you has paid extra to recieve messages from free members.

All in all if you want some no strings fun and like me are sad enough to get a confidence boost from arbitrary male attention (I got about 300 messages by the second day of posting my ad without pics) go for it.

If you want to use it for work, your efforts and money are better spent else where.
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