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BeccaC

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The "Go ahead"?
« on: 29 February 2012, 03:55:10 am »
Ok, so, here goes...

I haven't really got a clue how all of this first started in my mind, but I'm seriously considering becoming (or trying to be!) an escort.
I hate my job and all it's whingy customers, long hours and rubbish pay. I've always been quite adventurous and a bit of a sexual deviant. Granted, I haven't slept with many people in my 21 years of life, but what I have had, I've loved!
My last relationship ended over a year ago and since then I've felt like a caged animal. Not including feeling deprived while in those 4 years of commitment.

After coming across SAAFE it's reassured all the worries I had and now I'm feeling more confident about my decision. I'm well aware of my own boundries and limits, what I will or won't do, etc. I'm as stubborn as a mule and not easily persuaded to do anything I don't feel confident in doing. And for the first time ever, I don't feel insecure. Ok, so I'm not a skinny minny, blonde, super tall and leggy. I'm a size 20, decent sized chest, smaller waist, long black hair, pale, a few tattoo and 5ft 5. "Gothic" if you will. Not to mention a love for lingerie and corsets! The more the merrier.

I suppose what I'm babbling on for is some sort of "Go ahead" and advice on where on earth do I start! I haven't really got anyone in my life to talk to about something like this, nor would any friends really understand. They'd most likely take the piss and cut off all ties with me or something.

No harm in giving it a go, right?

Any feedback will be -very- much appreciated and always taken into consideration and I'll reply as best I can do any questions thrown my way.

RedLady1991

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Re: The "Go ahead"?
« Reply #1 on: 29 February 2012, 06:01:19 am »
Hello and welcome!  :)

If youre looking to start working independently, then my first piece of advice would be to set up an adultwork profile. Its free and can generate a fair amount of work. The only thing is, newbies get alot of time wasters. Theres threads on here advising how to weed the real customers out from the not so genuine.
Put some decent photos on AW, and the private gallery can earn you some credits to advertise your number.

Make sure you have a separate phone for work. A cheap PAYG one should do.

Buy lube, condoms, some work lingerie - I keep work and private life knickers separate lol!

Decide if youre going to do just outcalls or incalls too.

Last but most importantly have a security buddy. Someone who knows where you are and who youre with at all times.

And have fun! :)

Most likely forgotten something here lol!


EmilyJones

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Re: The "Go ahead"?
« Reply #2 on: 29 February 2012, 09:42:32 am »
Make sure you've read the articles on the main SAAFE site here: http://www.saafe.info/

There's even a "Quick Start Guide". :)

Oh, and get a safety buddy. Working alone - entirely alone, i.e. scared to even call someone if something terrible happened - is a recipe for disaster. There's a section of this forum you can post in to hopefully connect with a few escorts in your area; doing security for each other is generally the fairest and simplest way. Plus, you then have someone to tell about that client who had the most dribbley penis you've ever seen!
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