I'm with Curvy gal and a lot of others that said it; I tell them straight!
You shouldn't have to put up with anything you're not comfortable with, and certainly not with being hurt!
It's usually the younger ones (of course not all of them, I get some really nice ones too), but if they're getting too rough I'll tell them to take it easy coz they're hurting me and so far it's always done the trick.
Be firm, set your boundaries and don't be afraid to speak your mind and put them in their place.
I prefer older clients and won't take bookings from disrespectful/rude/crude clients, young or old.
I'll tell them I don't take bookings like that, and if they want to learn some manners and try again they're welcome to..
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