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Elena Lee

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Newbie asking for help
« on: 29 February 2012, 08:49:38 pm »
Hello everyone!!
I am new here and i admire all of you , i think it is great to be so independent and also see that it take so much nerves to get into this business.
After days of thinking and browsing internet i finally decided to try to become escort.
I was thinking about stripping but didnt have a good experience as i am not so tough and competitive and affraid of traveling to some stripclubs in other countries by myself.

I am suprised that i am even think about it as was always strict with my sex life but that didnt bring me anything,all my life was choosing the bad guys with weekend relationships and ended up with broken heart.

I didnt have sex about 2 years now :-[ - newbie - virgin on this site haha but it is just bec didn let anybody to break my heart again

but i just turned 29 years and after 4 years of trying to get good job , with no success , ended up with no job , no money , no boyfriend and unsecure future for me and my parents

Well so that is why i wanna give it go ??? ??? but the only thing which is scaring me is to not get some sickness

Could you pls. recommend me what kind of condom i should use and if i should get some birth control pills?
I will do everything with condom and no anal sex but still is here posibility that i could get something or the condom would failed?

I think my problem is that i am browsing net so much and see all these risks but on the other side i figured out
that today no sex is the best way to stay safe or sex with your long term boyfriend , which is so hard to find lol...

Whatever stay safe and healthy and wish me luck , i hope i am not the only crazy scared newbie in here  ???
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Re: Newbie asking for help
« Reply #1 on: 29 February 2012, 10:03:28 pm »
Hi and good luck.

Using another birth control method will help your peace of mind if condom problems happen.

Yes, there are things you can catch even if you use condoms. Condoms help reduce the risks a lot and whether it's worth the remaining risk is up to you. Many things are curable, like crabs, and you may also find yourself getting thrush more often. Like many people who have lots of partners, most escorts have check-ups several times a year. (And lots of people catch things from their long-term boyfriend, either because he already had something or he wasn't just having sex with them!)

The types of condom are up to you. Different people like different sorts and whether they fail depends more on how they are used rather than on which quality brand they are. It helps to have smaller ones and larger ones when needed.
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Elena Lee

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Re: Newbie asking for help
« Reply #2 on: 29 February 2012, 10:16:34 pm »
Hi ,  :)

Thank you so much ! really helpful reply ,
i didnt know that thing with the long term relationships - interesting



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Re: Newbie asking for help
« Reply #3 on: 01 March 2012, 04:40:25 am »
I would pretty much agree with everything that has been said. Also, stds are a risk for everyone, I just read that 80% of sexually active adults get an std at some point  in their life but most don't have any adverse effects from them, most people never even know about it.
As long as you are careful with the condoms (make sure they're not on inside out and watch out for assholes who think they can sneak it off without you realizing) you should be okay. Also get tested every few months just in case. A lot of (most?) diseases/ infections can actually be cured but can also cause damage long term if they aren't treated.
The bottom line is be careful and use your common sense.
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Re: Newbie asking for help
« Reply #4 on: 02 March 2012, 12:30:51 pm »
I've never been on the pill, instead I rely on safe sex and it works.

It also gives me an excuse to get angry if men try to dick around with the condom.  Trust me, no man's going to risk the condom falling off when they know you're not taking the pill :P
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Re: Newbie asking for help
« Reply #5 on: 02 March 2012, 01:16:02 pm »
If they think you cannot trace them, then there are men who would love to get you pregnant.
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EvaBeeva

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Re: Newbie asking for help
« Reply #6 on: 02 March 2012, 04:14:58 pm »
Quote from: Richard on 02 March 2012, 01:16:02 pm
If they think you cannot trace them, then there are men who would love to get you pregnant.

Not the clients I see.  A few of my regs have looked utterly horrified at the discovery, but then all of my clients are married men.
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