Hey I haven't read the the whole thread just your post. So my apology for not replying to the OP.
I just wanted to say I have been through what you are going through. I work full time and did uni part time until last year as a "mature" student too lol. Although I wasn't escorting at the time, but I sugared (sugar baby) in my spare time for the last one and half year of uni. It was busy but I enjoyed sugaring and didn't have a secret life so I was lucky in that sense.
If you do want to talk, whether about uni, work or rant about life generally, feel free to PM. Same for the OP. 🙂