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kate_x

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Abrupt in my response?
« on: 26 May 2018, 12:02:52 am »
Am wondering if all the timewasters are getting on top of me (they wish lol) as received this message this evening from someone with no feedback which then made me question my response!

Hi

You look amazing and amazing from all feedback.

Your breasts look amazing and 100% natural is fantastic.

I am in (*place name*) tomorrow and would love to experience your services for an hour, what times are you available.

Jon xx


My availability is plastered all over my profile including right at the top so no-one should have any trouble seeing it - but we all know a lot don't bother to read any of it!

So my reply was;

Hi

As it says on my profile I will be available from 10am till 6pm tomorrow.

Please give me a call tomorrow after 9.30am when you know a definite time you can visit.

Kate



I did think afterwards he may have been thinking I have some pre-booked appointments which would therefore reduce my availability from what was stated, but if that's what he meant wouldn't someone normally have phrased it as "are you available at x time"


Anyway I then got this response

Sorry I missed that :-)

But didn't appreciate the aggressive response.

JON !!!



Even if I did get it wrong I wouldn't say I was aggressive!

devilhorn holdshalo

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #1 on: 26 May 2018, 12:54:14 am »
Omg this question is so annoying, not only as info is there but the availability isn't based on what you can do, it's his appointment. When I call to get a hair appointment ill give a time and day and if it's not available then work something out. I don't get why men do this to escorts. I just say that my availability can change at any time so if he can give me the times when he can meet then we can go from there as he's making the booking :) sometimes add on I'm flexible mostly but it's best to get an idea of what he's looking for unless he's free all day which he didn't state x

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #2 on: 26 May 2018, 01:16:57 am »
I usually always start my replies with "Hi hun" just to avoid not sounding friendly cos things can get misconstrued over text, but He's a dick..ignore him.

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #3 on: 26 May 2018, 01:46:38 am »
Nothing aggressive about your response at all, he's just fragile. If he can't handle a very gentle reminder then he's too sensitive to be visiting escorts.

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #4 on: 26 May 2018, 02:07:35 am »
No your reply wasn't aggressive.It was polite and invited him to make an appointment.
I have had similar once or twice and I think it is because they are hoping for some sort of sappy,fawning reply and probably have no intention of booking,he was also probably looking for some sort of argument as well.
« Last Edit: 26 May 2018, 02:09:08 am by BibiofLeeds »

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #5 on: 26 May 2018, 07:26:55 am »
And did he actually not even use ( insert? ) your name? That would have pissed me off immediately.

If I can be bothered replying to anyone who does that - apart from advising them of my name in my opening sentence - my reply would have been exactly the same as yours.

 They are almost always proven to be Dicks anyway.
« Last Edit: 26 May 2018, 07:29:20 am by Phoenix »

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #6 on: 26 May 2018, 07:30:52 am »
What was aggressive about that?!  ::) I answer like that all the time. Never had anyone tell me I'm aggressive lol  :angel:
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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #7 on: 26 May 2018, 07:46:38 am »
I wouldn’t even give this guy the headspace! My responses are exactly the same and if anyone ever pulls me up on “my attitude” I just tell them I have a very low tolerance for idiots and if people cannot make a booking correctly because they haven’t bothered to read my full tab on how to book and my other full tab on availability then I can’t be bothered answering ridiculous questions.

Simple as that! I’m not missing out on business because I would very likely hate the booking and I’m not going to put myself through that it’s already bad enough stroking their enormous egos as it is without dealing with idiots!

In my book if they were to try to book their car in for a service they would receive the same response you sent! Do they then cry on the phone that the garage was aggressive and mean! Boo fucking who the simpering morons!

Read a profile fully, make a booking correctly, turn up, pay then get the hell out. Just because our business is intimate doesn’t mean we run it like a simpering waif!

Well that’s my annoyance out for the day, coffee and sunshine now until my hopefully non stupid client turns up!

Don’t let it get you down, you’re better than that

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #8 on: 26 May 2018, 07:54:20 am »
I'd use his name (or username if he's not given one), no problem different people will interpret differently.

Sometimes I'm abrupt because I'm travelling, busy, about to go into a booking, limited signal etc and being as quick as I can.

I once replied to a text message on a day off, it had been a long day (at uni followed by something else). The person thought I was rude because I simply said "No I'm not available today" or "No not possible".

I did explain I was sorry I was on a day off, tired, thought a quick response would help him.

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #9 on: 26 May 2018, 08:30:35 am »
Anyone who has ever sent me this kind of thing has never booked. I don't think he had any intention of seeing you.

I don't even open emails from zero feedbacks. They get an autoresponse which invites them to call. His response is validation in my opinion, that he was yet another timewasting twat!


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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #10 on: 26 May 2018, 10:29:17 am »
I don't like when they ask for my availability for a whole day, its probably not intentional but it feels like they are trying to work out how busy I am or not. Whenever I get asked "what's your availability for today/this week?" I always respond with "what's yours? Give me a rough time/set of times and I'll let you know if it works". I never want to give clients potential or otherwise any indication of how free I am or not over the course of a day, and you do get guys trying to work it out (or asking outright).

And yea, you wouldn't call up a restaurant and be like "How many tables do you have free tonight/how much space do you have?" You'd be, "Have you got a table for two at 8?" etc etc Some guys just don't seem to realize that basic rules of social etiquette don't just fly out the window when booking an escort.

P.S New to forum, hello everyone, such a brilliant resource  :D

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #11 on: 26 May 2018, 11:06:50 am »
Hahahaha "aggressive" clearly he's never messaged me 😂
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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #12 on: 26 May 2018, 11:46:25 am »
I think he wanted you to thank him for liking you, your profile and your tits so he could go on and on and have sex chat for free. At a later stage he might make up his mind to meet and able to provide a time after you convinced him you are the right choice.
Might be genuine but too much hard work for most of us. Acting sensitive and undecided, calling you aggresive with a smile is wicked IMO. You remained perfectly professional and did the right thing.

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #13 on: 26 May 2018, 12:01:35 pm »
Don't give it another second of your thought. You weren't rude, and even if you were, so what? Overly flowery and complimentary messages, IMO, never turn into anything other than them getting a wank for free. And they are usually copy & paste anyway!

kate_x

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Re: Abrupt in my response?
« Reply #14 on: 26 May 2018, 03:34:12 pm »
Thanks!

Made me question myself for a moment but that's reassured me I did nothing wrong and will continue as I am....