Carla - I did apologize.  She wasn't on the pill as she said, so there. Lets leave it at that. 

I am afraid I have to whole heartily agree with Carla on this one.  Your initial and subsequent comments were really rather rude and ignorant.  I had to sit on my fingers not to give you a far sharper response then the other ladies.  You are way out of line and your ongoing attitude prompted me to add to the thread. 

The pill is not the be all for everyone and not every lady can actually take it whether it be due to high blood pressure or other medical constraints.  Certain supplements and medication also renders the pill ineffective, in some cases that is rarely made obvious.  Even supplements, like St John?s Wort and a few herbal pills are counter-productive.  Also some ladies in our industry who have a partner may choose to get pregnant and like in all walks of life then circumstances change.  Besides it is still none of your business!  We really do not need a Daily Mail kind of blaming culture on here or anywhere for that matter.  This is what pro-choice and the right to decide for our own bodies is all about.  Don?t jump on other ladies and try and shut them up when they point out how tactless you were!