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latrice

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Abortion Recovery
« on: 29 April 2016, 11:26:09 am »
So I just found out I'm pregnant :FF

Mentally I'm ok and 100% sure about not going through with it, already booked to see my GP on tuesday, but I'm concerned about how much time I'll have to take off work while I recover. I've been reading anywhere from 2 to 4 weeks. I don't have much saved, I was super broke and crashing with friends when I started escorting a few months ago and all the money I managed to save I just spent moving to a new place and out of my friend's house. I'm very worried about money.

Could any of you that been through a termination share how long it took you to be able to have sex again and what was the procedure? Thank you.

 

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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #1 on: 29 April 2016, 11:40:23 am »
I went back 4 weeks after...bad idea! I ended up in hospital after hemorrhaging,my body was nowhere near recovered - I was between 8-9 weeks gone when I had the procedure.

Just take it steady!

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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #2 on: 29 April 2016, 12:33:24 pm »
I would say at least six weeks.


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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #3 on: 29 April 2016, 01:27:22 pm »
You can go back to work the day after if you want to/need to

Just dont do sex simple....you can just do hand jobs or oral only bookings ( you can price accordingly if you wish ) and when you think you are ready bring the sex back into it

everyones body is different after a termination just follow their guidleines

good luck x
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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #4 on: 29 April 2016, 04:01:07 pm »
Everybody has a different rate of healing.  What may take 2 weeks for some may take 8 weeks for others. What ever you do don't push yourself or you could end up taking more time off. 

I've been offering massages with h/r due to a major op, just to keep me ticking over until I'm able to offer sex again.  That might be something worth offering until you know you are fully recovered.
Some girls may suggest cam work, but I'm not sure how much work you'd get from that if playing with yourself is off the menu. 

Good luck
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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #5 on: 29 April 2016, 05:28:13 pm »
It all depends if it's a medical or a surgical abortion. The method recommended for you will depend on how many weeks pregnant you are. A medical abortion is carried out using medication and a surgical one involves a minor operation. Medical abortions carry less risk and are easier but you can't get one if you are more than 4 weeks pregnant, then you have to go for a surgical one.

Surgical ones take much more time to recover. I had one years ago, (was  6 weeks pregnant) and It took me 3 months to recover (both physically and mentally).  It does take a toll on your body, messes up with your brain and totally fucks messes up your hormones. You become a basket case for a month.

I'm not sure what's your situation but be ready to take at least 2 months off. Taking less time than that is crazy and putting your body's health at risk. Do not do it.
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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #6 on: 29 April 2016, 05:40:01 pm »
I had a medical abortion (the kind where you take tablets and have an induced miscarriage at home) at 7 weeks pregnant.

On the day of the abortion I couldn't move, let alone have worked. The next day I felt physically 100% fine again, although I had very heavy bleeding for the next two weeks and lighter bleeding for two weeks after that. I was advised not to have sex (which I presumed included oral sex on me and fingering etc) for the whole of those four weeks due to risk of infection.

I personally didn't feel any mental trauma from having the procedure, but that's just my unique experience - a lot of women do so I would say be prepared to need more time off than just the days it takes you to stop bleeding.

I hope it all goes well for you and good luck xx
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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #7 on: 29 April 2016, 05:41:10 pm »
It took me about 6 weeks to stop bleeding after my surgical abortion. It was like having a medium flow period for that length of time. My periods were then crazy for about 6 months after and I'd get them at random times. They'd last for ages each time. I had to use all my savings to be able to survive during that period.
If you're getting a medical abortion (where you take a couple of pills) then the recovery time is slightly quicker I think. You'd probably be able to have sex again after 4 weeks all being well. It can be common to get infections and things after abortions which can lead to things like BV though.

If you feel mentally ok after the procedure then maybe you could offer a naked massage with hand relief/blow Job for a reduced rate. It's better to have less money coming in then no money at all. You could also think about doing webcam shows maybe? You can earn pretty decent money if you put in the time.

Good luck and hope you're ok. Xxxx

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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #8 on: 29 April 2016, 05:54:34 pm »
Oh! Another thing I forgot to say was that after my medical abortion I was told not to use tampons for 4 weeks either due to the infection risk, only towels. Just mentioning it as it might affect the services you are able to offer, should you wish to go straight back to work x
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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #9 on: 29 April 2016, 06:20:40 pm »
Also can I suggest you do not see your doctor but go to the family planning clinic they are much faster with getting you booked in at the MArie Stopes Clinic whereby with a doctor they will want to send you to councelling etc first.

latrice

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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #10 on: 29 April 2016, 07:32:13 pm »
Also can I suggest you do not see your doctor but go to the family planning clinic they are much faster with getting you booked in at the MArie Stopes Clinic whereby with a doctor they will want to send you to councelling etc first.

I contacted Marie Stopes and BPAS directly but because of the area where I'm registered they all redirected me to the same hospital and to go there I need to stop by my GP first :/

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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #11 on: 30 April 2016, 08:34:30 am »
I had a medical abortion at 7 weeks 2 months ago. Like you couldn't afford not to work and went back to work 6 days after it full service. I was fine my cervix had closed back up they say 1 week before to have sex again after the procesdure from Bpas

The actual day wasn't bad at all just cramps and back pain then just light bleeding for 3/4 weeks after and I just used sponges like a normal period

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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #12 on: 30 April 2016, 08:36:50 am »
Are you 100% sure you don't want the baby. Am not judging whatever you decide. But you could regret for the rest of your life.
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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #13 on: 30 April 2016, 10:45:50 am »
So I just found out I'm pregnant :FF

Mentally I'm ok and 100% sure about not going through with it, already booked to see my GP on tuesday, but I'm concerned about how much time I'll have to take off work while I recover. I've been reading anywhere from 2 to 4 weeks. I don't have much saved, I was super broke and crashing with friends when I started escorting a few months ago and all the money I managed to save I just spent moving to a new place and out of my friend's house. I'm very worried about money.

Could any of you that been through a termination share how long it took you to be able to have sex again and what was the procedure? Thank you.

 

I'd say that's a yes on being sure.

latrice

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Re: Abortion Recovery
« Reply #14 on: 30 April 2016, 11:13:19 am »
Are you 100% sure you don't want the baby. Am not judging whatever you decide. But you could regret for the rest of your life.

Thank you for your concern, but honestly, not wanting children is the only thing I'm absolutely sure of in life. I respect and admire those who do because it's a real tough job, but it's really not for me.