I turn my hands into fists and rest on the knuckles, or bend arm and use elbow(to lean on not to wank).

If its a blower, get him to lie on his back and kneel or lie between his legs, if you have to lean, lean on his legs....as for doggy i lie on my tummy and stick my arse in the air, that way you dont have to lean on your arms.


Or just chuck him on the bed and jump on top - works for me every time !

thanks all. also gonna look into some herbal supplements etc too.

my knees are already a bit dodgy so dont wanna have to give bjs on my knees. gonna practice lying down

Due to my illness I struggle to rest on any joints or muscles so for Bjs I tend to lay on  my side over their hip so that I don't need to rest on my knees or arms, For doggy I hold the headboard and rest on my chest on the bed to take the weight from my knees