Today I had a guy who came to appointment and the moment he got in the bedroom was looking around and asked if I alone, said he had no cash he'd nip to cash machine and be straight back. So I just assumed he was a look and go or I wasn't his type. He then sent quite a few texts saying his card been swallowed blah blah and how beautiful I am etc. I just ignored. But spider senses raging thinking he just come to scope out for a robbery later.
Tonight, very late he just turns up at my apartment so I ignore the door, he then starts knocking on my living room window.
Not sure if he just a thoughtless nob or he was intending me harm. I get so paranoid with these type of situations.
What do you think ladies? Am I paranoid?
Fuck 😱
This is crazy behaviour. His actions at first were creepy if nothing else, I would have totally been creeped out at him asking if I was alone and things and would have been glad that I wasn't his type.
Showing up unannounced later is completely out of order and knocking on the window and stuff would have scared the shit out of me too.
From what you've told us, it is difficult to say whether he's dodgy as hell and is looking to pull something on you or whether he's just a complete ignorant arsehole with no social skills, no skills with people what so ever, no sense of boundaries and other people's feelings.
I would try to avoid him at all costs and then if he doesn't take the hint or shows up again under another number or something, phone the police.