Lucymay
Be aware also that depending on which club you go to, most of them do not allow single men in, or only on specific dates, hence the guys wanting an escort to be a 'couple'. I was a swinger for a long while and most genuine swinging couples seek genuine couples, and would be none too happy to meet a man and an escort saying they were a couple. Some may not care so long as they get a shag!!
I dont know how much you know about the swinging scene so apologies if Im teaching you to suck eggs, just wanted to warn you if you didnt know xx If you travel seperatly and meet the guy there, once inside you could put money in yr locker then when he goes to loo or something then quickly run it out to the car and hide it (assuming parking is right outside!) ?
Suzy x