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lou19

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What to wear to an outcall?
« on: 28 May 2011, 02:01:46 am »
Hey, ive been escorting for over a year now and it seems like most of my outcall clients request that i wear short tight dresses, stockings high heels / knee high boots, or some roleplay outfit but no way am i wearing those in public lol. Obviously wear the stocking bands hidden under the dress hem.

The thing is, i get all sorts of looks from people and its not like i look cheap/trashy.

I used to arrive at the hotels dressed casually then going to the ladies room in the lobby to change outfit, problem then is sometimes the receptionist will notice the change, and i still have to walk past people when finding the room number. Some clients dont mind if i get changed when i arrive at their room, but ive given up on asking the same questions over and over,  so lately its dress up at my home allowing my neighbours to see me as if im going out clubbing on the pull - during midday!

Also, those clients who ask me to arrive with no undies on underneath - during cold days! At least i can take them off right before i knock on his door.

Anyone have advice on the matter?

Thanks
Lou xx

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #1 on: 28 May 2011, 02:13:48 am »
I personally wear a nice dress, dark stockings, and a long-ish coat to cover all so it looks like i have tights on.

I have walked into many a hotel in ugg boots and changed in the lift or in the stairway near the room after getting out of the lift it works great as they dont expect an escirt to swan in wearing uggs :-) i wouldnt worry about getting changed qfter all people do get changed in their hotels and go out, also people probably arent staring at you its probably paranoia. I thought everyone was looking at me and realised they werent it was my imagination!

Always wear a long coat to cover up and in nicer weather i have asked clients if they dont mind me turning up in jeans through the day and have never been told no infact alot find tight jeans a turn on ;)

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #2 on: 28 May 2011, 04:21:11 am »
i agree its  a tough one, and i have often thought about going to a strippers shop and buying pants (to conceal my hot stuff outfit underneath) that i can with one movement rip them off when i arrive at client's door....but normally i inform the client that i will be dressing discreetly and will change once inside.  Most are fine with that.  Some guys do ask me to wear outlandish slutty outfits and i say: no way am i doing that in public sorry. i will wear it under my discreet clothes and change inside.

I have a funny story about how i totally messed up one night.  I got a call for a hotel visit, and didnt at all click about the name of it (cant remember name now, but a middle eastern hotel)...so i thought to myself, what the hell this time i will not be discreet i will wear stockings and suspenders,but with a below the knee hot pink skirt.  So, i arrive, and first thing I see a guy who is all decked out in full army get out, with guns and everything, looking bored sitting in a chair, obv waiting for someone important. He pretended not to look at me, while i totally looked him up and down (meow), so i walked past him, and looked behind me, i saw him checking me out. hee hee....so anyway i go up to the floor, and this young guy starts following me, he TOTALLY KNOWS that i'm an escort (cuz of the s&suspenders)...he's following me and asking will i have fun with him and his friends, i am trying to get rid of him and finally he leaves and i see client.  I tell him the amusing story.  I finish with client, and wait for the cab i called on a chair near  the hotel's front door.  My skirt is hanging on my knee area, and a waitress comes and asks me to pull down my skirt!! So i wait outside.  I go into the cab and when i get out of the cab, the cabby says: i love your stockings and suspenders!!

aaaahhhh! never again!!

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #3 on: 28 May 2011, 11:21:42 am »
I wouldn't ask if they mind me getting changed. If they want you to wear something you're not totally comfortable walking through the hotel in, just wear something normal and change in the bathroom once you've got the money. If someone specifies "arrive wearing something outlandlishly slutty" then I'll say nope, not an option. If it's just wearing no knickers then I guess I'd humour them by taking them off while freshening up in the bathroom when I arrive. Any other requests and I assume it's fine to change when I get there.

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #4 on: 28 May 2011, 11:26:13 am »
I get this and I say no, & that I will change when I get to the room. Most guys dOnt mind but you get the occasional one who will try to convince you/doesn't understand the word no x

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #5 on: 28 May 2011, 02:21:03 pm »
I'm with Anika - I am always in disguise as a demure young career gal when going to outcalls and would not walk along the street or through a hotel lobby in slutwear for any client. I even only put heels on once I'm safely in a private area cos they're a giveaway and I can barely walk in them, let alone run. If a client was fussy, I'd ask why he wants everyone to know he's booking an escort, and if he still doesn't see it then I'll tell him I can't be so indiscreet and will decline the booking.

You also need to watch out because timewasters will sometimes request an absurd outfit for an outcall and then will obviously not answer the door; they can just peek out at you from somewhere and get some jollies knowing that they got you to walk around naked under your coat.

I've only once agreed to a client's outfit request to be worn on arrival at the hotel, and he turned out to be a right creep (he saw me waiting outside the lifts on the first floor, so a quiet area, and walked up without saying a word to me to shove his hand up my dress and try to fondle my crotch. Yeah, it was both terrifying and gross. That probably did put me off blindly agreeing to outfits etc, but I've never had a genuine and lovely client who's minded my caution in the least.
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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #6 on: 28 May 2011, 02:53:24 pm »
I only wear smart, un-tarty stuff going to outcalls, normally a knee length dress or pencil skirt/blouse, 'officewear', as I feel this attracts the least attention. I don't wear jeans/casual stuff going to the outcall either. I always ask for a few minutes in the bathroom (after money is sorted out) to freshen up, and emerge in sexy undies, or whichever outfit we have agreed on beforehand.

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #7 on: 28 May 2011, 04:40:31 pm »
I *never* want to look out of place in a hotel and try to blend in with the rest of the guests.  I guess my look for outcalls is 'office sexy'.  In the winter, I invested in a high-quality long wool coat, so all you could see was my handbag (structured black leather mulberry), shoes (heels but never stripper heels) and ankles.  I also don't trowel on the make up either or wear any crazy jewellery.  I don't like to wear fishnets either - nothing says 'whore!' like 4" patent stilettos and seamed fishnet stockings.

Now it's summer I wear dress that's well fitted, quite sexy but always at least knee length (usually something from Karen Millen), with a black fitted blazer on top.  If they want something else I'll change in their bathroom - I'm not sitting on the tube or looking for a cab late at night with my stocking tops on show, or with no underwear on.

I did once go to an outcall in a corset but still wore my coat over the top.

95% of the guys I see want me to look discreet anyway, and even request as such.  I've only had the one request for a short skirt

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #8 on: 28 May 2011, 05:27:14 pm »
The way I dress depends on the time of day, the time of year and the type of hotel. If I was going to a budget chain in the daytime I would be dressed smart casual - maybe even jeans with a nice top. If it was a lovely posh hotel I would be wearing a fitted dress with a jacket or trench over the top. In the winter I will wear a long coat and boots. I always wear heels though. The only time I don't wear heels is in the gym  ;D

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #9 on: 29 May 2011, 04:11:32 am »
I always refuse and say I'll get changed in their bathroom. I live with adult sons and although they've a good idea what I do, I don't want to rub their noses in it and certainly don't want neighbours seeing me leave in high heels and seamed stockings!
Most clients are ok with it...and usually by the time you get there they say don't bother getting changed!
I've had a couple who have insisted I walk into them in the hotel bar with short skirt, high heels and stockings after I've already said NO......so they just get ignored once they don't take no for an answer.

Coty xxx

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #10 on: 19 March 2015, 12:56:13 pm »
Hey guys,

Today I'm doing my first indie outcall to a hotel and I have absolutely no idea what to wear?!

I'm used to parlours where the girls just lounge around in underwear, but obviously I can't wear that to a hotel!

Any advice would be appreciated guys,

much love :)


SelenaLondon

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #12 on: 19 March 2015, 01:05:00 pm »
Hi Penny 😊

It depends.

I divide my outcall uniform into:

Daytime/discreet: these are daytime outfits or when clients ask me to be discreet. Usually a boring skirt and blouse and smart coat (looking like someone off to work). Sometimes even jeans and a top and flats(tell them first though).

Night time/date; this is for more date booking when they ask you to wear a dress and heels (which I do)

Good luck! 😊

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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #13 on: 19 March 2015, 01:30:54 pm »
Selena covered pretty much everything.

Wear something 'normal' but smart and something you are very comfortable in. I am a total jeans freak and own gazillions of pairs lol. I normally wear jeans and some smart top/jacket and heels. (Even to evening dates :(, unless specifically requested I wear a dress).

I want to look normal and not escort-like at all when I do outcalls (although some guys ask to dress like an obvious hooker (in their understanding), but I still do my thing.

I just bring my sexy outfits with me and change in the bathroom, or just have a pretty lingerie set underneath...

I think to myself I should glam it up a bit more and wear more skirts and dresses, but I just cant be arsed and I cant say anyone complained lol.

Have fun tonight babe! X
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Re: What to wear to an outcall?
« Reply #14 on: 08 July 2015, 11:48:30 am »
Hi guys,

So after a lot of time wasting emails, I've managed to get my first client through AW at a hotel, I'm just a bit stuck on what to wear.. does it matter if its all going to be taken off anyway?