i agree its a tough one, and i have often thought about going to a strippers shop and buying pants (to conceal my hot stuff outfit underneath) that i can with one movement rip them off when i arrive at client's door....but normally i inform the client that i will be dressing discreetly and will change once inside. Most are fine with that. Some guys do ask me to wear outlandish slutty outfits and i say: no way am i doing that in public sorry. i will wear it under my discreet clothes and change inside.
I have a funny story about how i totally messed up one night. I got a call for a hotel visit, and didnt at all click about the name of it (cant remember name now, but a middle eastern hotel)...so i thought to myself, what the hell this time i will not be discreet i will wear stockings and suspenders,but with a below the knee hot pink skirt. So, i arrive, and first thing I see a guy who is all decked out in full army get out, with guns and everything, looking bored sitting in a chair, obv waiting for someone important. He pretended not to look at me, while i totally looked him up and down (meow), so i walked past him, and looked behind me, i saw him checking me out. hee hee....so anyway i go up to the floor, and this young guy starts following me, he TOTALLY KNOWS that i'm an escort (cuz of the s&suspenders)...he's following me and asking will i have fun with him and his friends, i am trying to get rid of him and finally he leaves and i see client. I tell him the amusing story. I finish with client, and wait for the cab i called on a chair near the hotel's front door. My skirt is hanging on my knee area, and a waitress comes and asks me to pull down my skirt!! So i wait outside. I go into the cab and when i get out of the cab, the cabby says: i love your stockings and suspenders!!
aaaahhhh! never again!!