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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: lou19 on 28 May 2011, 02:01:46 am
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Hey, ive been escorting for over a year now and it seems like most of my outcall clients request that i wear short tight dresses, stockings high heels / knee high boots, or some roleplay outfit but no way am i wearing those in public lol. Obviously wear the stocking bands hidden under the dress hem.
The thing is, i get all sorts of looks from people and its not like i look cheap/trashy.
I used to arrive at the hotels dressed casually then going to the ladies room in the lobby to change outfit, problem then is sometimes the receptionist will notice the change, and i still have to walk past people when finding the room number. Some clients dont mind if i get changed when i arrive at their room, but ive given up on asking the same questions over and over, so lately its dress up at my home allowing my neighbours to see me as if im going out clubbing on the pull - during midday!
Also, those clients who ask me to arrive with no undies on underneath - during cold days! At least i can take them off right before i knock on his door.
Anyone have advice on the matter?
Thanks
Lou xx
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I personally wear a nice dress, dark stockings, and a long-ish coat to cover all so it looks like i have tights on.
I have walked into many a hotel in ugg boots and changed in the lift or in the stairway near the room after getting out of the lift it works great as they dont expect an escirt to swan in wearing uggs :-) i wouldnt worry about getting changed qfter all people do get changed in their hotels and go out, also people probably arent staring at you its probably paranoia. I thought everyone was looking at me and realised they werent it was my imagination!
Always wear a long coat to cover up and in nicer weather i have asked clients if they dont mind me turning up in jeans through the day and have never been told no infact alot find tight jeans a turn on ;)
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i agree its a tough one, and i have often thought about going to a strippers shop and buying pants (to conceal my hot stuff outfit underneath) that i can with one movement rip them off when i arrive at client's door....but normally i inform the client that i will be dressing discreetly and will change once inside. Most are fine with that. Some guys do ask me to wear outlandish slutty outfits and i say: no way am i doing that in public sorry. i will wear it under my discreet clothes and change inside.
I have a funny story about how i totally messed up one night. I got a call for a hotel visit, and didnt at all click about the name of it (cant remember name now, but a middle eastern hotel)...so i thought to myself, what the hell this time i will not be discreet i will wear stockings and suspenders,but with a below the knee hot pink skirt. So, i arrive, and first thing I see a guy who is all decked out in full army get out, with guns and everything, looking bored sitting in a chair, obv waiting for someone important. He pretended not to look at me, while i totally looked him up and down (meow), so i walked past him, and looked behind me, i saw him checking me out. hee hee....so anyway i go up to the floor, and this young guy starts following me, he TOTALLY KNOWS that i'm an escort (cuz of the s&suspenders)...he's following me and asking will i have fun with him and his friends, i am trying to get rid of him and finally he leaves and i see client. I tell him the amusing story. I finish with client, and wait for the cab i called on a chair near the hotel's front door. My skirt is hanging on my knee area, and a waitress comes and asks me to pull down my skirt!! So i wait outside. I go into the cab and when i get out of the cab, the cabby says: i love your stockings and suspenders!!
aaaahhhh! never again!!
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I wouldn't ask if they mind me getting changed. If they want you to wear something you're not totally comfortable walking through the hotel in, just wear something normal and change in the bathroom once you've got the money. If someone specifies "arrive wearing something outlandlishly slutty" then I'll say nope, not an option. If it's just wearing no knickers then I guess I'd humour them by taking them off while freshening up in the bathroom when I arrive. Any other requests and I assume it's fine to change when I get there.
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I get this and I say no, & that I will change when I get to the room. Most guys dOnt mind but you get the occasional one who will try to convince you/doesn't understand the word no x
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I'm with Anika - I am always in disguise as a demure young career gal when going to outcalls and would not walk along the street or through a hotel lobby in slutwear for any client. I even only put heels on once I'm safely in a private area cos they're a giveaway and I can barely walk in them, let alone run. If a client was fussy, I'd ask why he wants everyone to know he's booking an escort, and if he still doesn't see it then I'll tell him I can't be so indiscreet and will decline the booking.
You also need to watch out because timewasters will sometimes request an absurd outfit for an outcall and then will obviously not answer the door; they can just peek out at you from somewhere and get some jollies knowing that they got you to walk around naked under your coat.
I've only once agreed to a client's outfit request to be worn on arrival at the hotel, and he turned out to be a right creep (he saw me waiting outside the lifts on the first floor, so a quiet area, and walked up without saying a word to me to shove his hand up my dress and try to fondle my crotch. Yeah, it was both terrifying and gross. That probably did put me off blindly agreeing to outfits etc, but I've never had a genuine and lovely client who's minded my caution in the least.
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I only wear smart, un-tarty stuff going to outcalls, normally a knee length dress or pencil skirt/blouse, 'officewear', as I feel this attracts the least attention. I don't wear jeans/casual stuff going to the outcall either. I always ask for a few minutes in the bathroom (after money is sorted out) to freshen up, and emerge in sexy undies, or whichever outfit we have agreed on beforehand.
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I *never* want to look out of place in a hotel and try to blend in with the rest of the guests. I guess my look for outcalls is 'office sexy'. In the winter, I invested in a high-quality long wool coat, so all you could see was my handbag (structured black leather mulberry), shoes (heels but never stripper heels) and ankles. I also don't trowel on the make up either or wear any crazy jewellery. I don't like to wear fishnets either - nothing says 'whore!' like 4" patent stilettos and seamed fishnet stockings.
Now it's summer I wear dress that's well fitted, quite sexy but always at least knee length (usually something from Karen Millen), with a black fitted blazer on top. If they want something else I'll change in their bathroom - I'm not sitting on the tube or looking for a cab late at night with my stocking tops on show, or with no underwear on.
I did once go to an outcall in a corset but still wore my coat over the top.
95% of the guys I see want me to look discreet anyway, and even request as such. I've only had the one request for a short skirt
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The way I dress depends on the time of day, the time of year and the type of hotel. If I was going to a budget chain in the daytime I would be dressed smart casual - maybe even jeans with a nice top. If it was a lovely posh hotel I would be wearing a fitted dress with a jacket or trench over the top. In the winter I will wear a long coat and boots. I always wear heels though. The only time I don't wear heels is in the gym ;D
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I always refuse and say I'll get changed in their bathroom. I live with adult sons and although they've a good idea what I do, I don't want to rub their noses in it and certainly don't want neighbours seeing me leave in high heels and seamed stockings!
Most clients are ok with it...and usually by the time you get there they say don't bother getting changed!
I've had a couple who have insisted I walk into them in the hotel bar with short skirt, high heels and stockings after I've already said NO......so they just get ignored once they don't take no for an answer.
Coty xxx
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Hey guys,
Today I'm doing my first indie outcall to a hotel and I have absolutely no idea what to wear?!
I'm used to parlours where the girls just lounge around in underwear, but obviously I can't wear that to a hotel!
Any advice would be appreciated guys,
much love :)
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Have a look on these:
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=23761.msg169870#msg169870 (http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=23761.msg169870#msg169870)
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=5556.msg45535#msg45535 (http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=5556.msg45535#msg45535)
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=24264.msg173501#msg173501 (http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=24264.msg173501#msg173501)
Also these 2 topics might be usefull :)
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=76.msg450#msg450 (http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=76.msg450#msg450)
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=9058.msg72411#msg72411 (http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=9058.msg72411#msg72411)
Good luck and have fun xx
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Hi Penny 😊
It depends.
I divide my outcall uniform into:
Daytime/discreet: these are daytime outfits or when clients ask me to be discreet. Usually a boring skirt and blouse and smart coat (looking like someone off to work). Sometimes even jeans and a top and flats(tell them first though).
Night time/date; this is for more date booking when they ask you to wear a dress and heels (which I do)
Good luck! 😊
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Selena covered pretty much everything.
Wear something 'normal' but smart and something you are very comfortable in. I am a total jeans freak and own gazillions of pairs lol. I normally wear jeans and some smart top/jacket and heels. (Even to evening dates :(, unless specifically requested I wear a dress).
I want to look normal and not escort-like at all when I do outcalls (although some guys ask to dress like an obvious hooker (in their understanding), but I still do my thing.
I just bring my sexy outfits with me and change in the bathroom, or just have a pretty lingerie set underneath...
I think to myself I should glam it up a bit more and wear more skirts and dresses, but I just cant be arsed and I cant say anyone complained lol.
Have fun tonight babe! X
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Hi guys,
So after a lot of time wasting emails, I've managed to get my first client through AW at a hotel, I'm just a bit stuck on what to wear.. does it matter if its all going to be taken off anyway?
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Wear some lingerie under a nice dress.Don't wear anything too revealing you need to be subtle getting into the hotel.So smart or smart casual rather than anything like a mini skirt or what have you.You can always take an outfit with you to get changed into if needs be.
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Wear some lingerie under a nice dress.Don't wear anything too revealing you need to be subtle getting into the hotel.So smart or smart casual rather than anything like a mini skirt or what have you.You can always take an outfit with you to get changed into if needs be.
And "lingerie" can just mean "pretty matching bra and knickers" - you don't have to wear something elaborate. Although some guys like when there's also stockings and suspenders, but I hate 'em and will wear hold-ups instead of suspenders.
I always wear flats to outcalls and change into heels in the lift!
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Wear some lingerie under a nice dress.Don't wear anything too revealing you need to be subtle getting into the hotel.So smart or smart casual rather than anything like a mini skirt or what have you.You can always take an outfit with you to get changed into if needs be.
And "lingerie" can just mean "pretty matching bra and knickers" - you don't have to wear something elaborate. Although some guys like when there's also stockings and suspenders, but I hate 'em and will wear hold-ups instead of suspenders.
I always wear flats to outcalls and change into heels in the lift!
Ha!Snap to all of that!
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Nice underwear under a dress now that the weather is too hot for a jacket.
If I know it is a hotel with many business type men I wear office dress
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this is a good reminder as ive just started advertising outcalls now thanks
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In winter I wear a long coat with zips up the front. Inside a skimpy dress :P I always carry a change of clothing, e.g jeans or casual sweater when I finish the booking in my bag. I don't like hotels staff to stare at me and wonder why I'm dressed up so glam during the day.
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I wear wrap-style dresses. You can slip so easily out of them and getting dressed again takes seconds. You can get them cheap online ( mine are from Boho )
Usually black for daytime and hotels and red for an evening home visit.
I also have a stunning green one but have decided to keep it for my 'real' life - it's far too special for work ;)
I always wear a smart jacket, whatever the weather. :)
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need an advice from you...as i am not sure about my outfit choice!
i was asked to wear casual so jeans...it is ok! not doubt about it..
now i would like to wear black jean and top, a classic black elegant coat with my white leather converse...i will bring my heels in my bag in case and of course i ll wear sexy lingerie! usually i wear always heels but...i noticed that i complicate a bit my life often!
my girlfriend for example she doesn t bother to wear like dating for outcall! she wear normal clothes and flat shoes and then she brings with her lingerie and heels and she changes outfit after met the client in the hotel room.
Do you use same procedure?
i would like to wear my converse so avoid uber fees and i ll take tube...
i could be anyway attractive with this look, so i ll try my best!
never used converse for a meeting...but ahah he asked for casual so....
more they are in leather!
ps:there is already a thread similar..old more of 365 days, so i started another one as was suggested..
i hope that it is ok Amy! :)
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Yes that?s fine if he asked for casual. Just take lingerie to change into x
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Yes that?s fine if he asked for casual. Just take lingerie to change into x
Thank you GG! :-*
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I think the only reason they ask for casual is so you don't come walking down their street dressed like Julia Roberts at the start of Pretty Woman...because all escorts dress like that! I really think some men genuinely think we dress like that as a rule and we need to be told to tone it down.
I always go in jeans, the only reason I'd change what I arrived in is if he asked for a business suit and I might if he really wanted that. But I wear sexy lingerie under the jeans and always take stockings and heels in my bag, perhaps even wear the stockings too but never the heels until I get there. Wear what you feel comfortable in and take the sexy gear with you to change into.
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I always wear smart casual for outcalls for discretion; I generally wear the lingerie under this and take a sexy dress/heels with me.
I tend to ask the client, because some just want you to wear casual clothes, period, with no changes.
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I very rarely do outcalls now but I used to wear a "date" type dress with all my lingerie underneath, and then wear a big trenchcoat on top that completely covered the dress. I wore flats to get there and had my heels in my enormous outcall handbag ready to change into on arriving on the client's floor!
In this case I think your outfit sounds fine but I would say to the client beforehand "This is what I'll be wearing, is that okay?" Different people have very different ideas of what constitutes "casual" clothing!
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Why not wear lingerie under your casual stuff? That's what I do.
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Thank you for all reply! this time i ll risk to wear my converse without asking! it is like a casual smart outfit! without asking to him!
take easy! ahah 8) i think that i ll still pretty and even is casual still classy and elegant...my coat and my bag will do a good job!
even my converse finally they are in leather and classic. need to be more confident about my taste! somedays i am struggle with it!
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need to stop to be perfectionist! ;D :D
Julia Roberts of modern times! ahah i do not have same fees as her! LOL so not same budget! ;D ;D
maybe i should ...for example i never get a LV bag or lauboutin shoes! i am a low budget escort! ;D ;D
need some improvement!
::) ::)
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For outcalls to hotels I wear plain black trousers with boots (that I can walk in!) with a nice lowish top that doesn't look slutty but shows a bit of cleavage so I don't look totally frumpy when I arrive. I have my stockings and suspenders underneath and take a skirt and heels I offer to change into. Sometimes they want me to and sometimes they aren't fussed and are happy with how I am or just want to take everything off straight away!
Personally I like to look like a guest when I go to a hotel- as if meeting a business associate, but equally something I can run for the bus in! I too avoid cabs when I can get perfectly good buses to bookings!
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I very rarely do outcalls now but I used to wear a "date" type dress with all my lingerie underneath, and then wear a big trenchcoat on top that completely covered the dress. I wore flats to get there and had my heels in my enormous outcall handbag ready to change into on arriving on the client's floor!
In this case I think your outfit sounds fine but I would say to the client beforehand "This is what I'll be wearing, is that okay?" Different people have very different ideas of what constitutes "casual" clothing!
VC I would wear similar on a hotel out call :)
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I always wear smart casual for outcalls for discretion; I generally wear the lingerie under this and take a sexy dress/heels with me.
I tend to ask the client, because some just want you to wear casual clothes, period, with no changes.
Same here. A knee length coat with either lingerie and a skirt I can remove easily or a dress underneath and walkable shoes after which I change into platforms as I enter the room. I never wear sports shoes unless I go running as I prefer to always be elegant. Most of the times I have a weekend bag with more sexy lingerie or whatever the client 'ordered'. If he is happy, I am happy.
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Ok so I’ve been escorting for the past 3 months and have been offering outcalls only. Luckily with the weather I have been able to dress in day/tea dresses to my bookings and they have gone down a treat! But now we are entering winter, it’s going to be too cold to go to bookings in my usual atire. What do you wear to outcalls in hotels that doesn’t scream “I’m an escort!!” But at the same time looking desirable for the clients. I tend to only work during the day if I can help it so I am after some smart day time clothing suggestions! What do you guys wear?? Do you dress smart casual like a nice pair of skinny jeans, heels, and maybe a nice coat/jacket? Help!
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Check out the rest of the thread? I always wear smart casual or casual depending on the situation. I always ask the client if they’d like me to bring something sexy with me.
If they ask why I explain its for reasons of discretion, if they try and insist I wear something slutty in public they can go take a long walk frankly.
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Ok so I’ve been escorting for the past 3 months and have been offering outcalls only. Luckily with the weather I have been able to dress in day/tea dresses to my bookings and they have gone down a treat! But now we are entering winter, it’s going to be too cold to go to bookings in my usual atire. What do you wear to outcalls in hotels that doesn’t scream “I’m an escort!!” But at the same time looking desirable for the clients. I tend to only work during the day if I can help it so I am after some smart day time clothing suggestions! What do you guys wear?? Do you dress smart casual like a nice pair of skinny jeans, heels, and maybe a nice coat/jacket? Help!
I have lined and long sleeved dresses which I wear with jacket, cardigan, scarf and opaque stockings. I also have some winter boots - both knee length and ankle boots which are really versatile, especially if you wear a pair of socks in them. Gloves, scarf, wool over coat to knees or longer.
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I would never wear jeans to a booking as it takes way too long to take them off and then put them back on. I want a dress I can literally pull over my head and if necessary run out into the corridor screaming "help" in.
I generally look for a dress that hits me around knee high, and a wrap with plunge neckline suits me best without screaming "whore!"
I need orthotics so depending on the situation I'll either wear my old civvy work shoes (smart black, half inch heel) or my current most comfortable heels (2 inch max.)
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I would never wear jeans to a booking as it takes way too long to take them off and then put them back on. I want a dress I can literally pull over my head and if necessary run out into the corridor screaming "help" in.
I generally look for a dress that hits me around knee high, and a wrap with plunge neckline suits me best without screaming "whore!"
I need orthotics so depending on the situation I'll either wear my old civvy work shoes (smart black, half inch heel) or my current most comfortable heels (2 inch max.)
Wrap or zip down back are great both sexy and easy to put back on.
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I can't do back zips, I've got arms like a T-rex 😂
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I wear baggy jeans, t-shirt and flat pumps for both incalls and outcalls. I also often wear mix-match undies as I’m yet to buy some more matching fancy ones since I came back to escorting. My experience has been the punters like my laid back approach, I can easily stroll through hotels without an issue, the few look & go’s don’t get an eyeful for free and I’m comfy all day long.
I’ll be keeping my booking attire I reckon. Oh and I don’t take outfit requests either, they can take me as I am or not at all.
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I dont want to turn up in jeans.. clients probably see their wives in jeans all the time.. with escorts its almost a fantasy they fullfiling of having a beautifl woman they couldnt otherwise have. I have a 'outcall dress' simple black wrap dress just below the knees, with holdups and nice stilletos. Not to look obvious a wear a long coat on top so i look very business like. I always see how the clients eyes light up when the coat comes off
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I wear a dress I would wear out for a nice meal or cocktails, teamed with tights, court shoes and then a smart black coat and scarf to keep my nice and toasty.
For me the most important factors are blending in with other hotels guests, look smart and presentable and to feel comfortable and warm. I quite often pack a pair of flats so that I can throw them on at the end of the booking.
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Most outcalls I’ve had have been in the evening so I usually would wear a dress with a long coat over and flat shoes but bring heels when I get to the hotel/flat. What do you wear during the day? What would be discrete to wear during the day whilst it’s warm? I struggle to find things to wear for day bookings to hotels as I don’t want to look like a WG.
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