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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: MissKRose on 29 October 2015, 09:01:50 am
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Hi,
My names Kelly I'm New to escorting and before I start I would like to get as much information as possible.
What I would like to know is how many clients should i aim to see in a day? I will need to pay hotel costs and public transport too.
What is your usual structure and routine? Would like as much advice as possible please :)
Kelly x x
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Well everyone is different really, some girl only see 1-2 clients a day. I guess it depends your target how much do you want to make and minus the cost and there you go.
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You need to read the main site for a start. And how long is a piece of string? Some of us want to see as many clients as possible, others only a handful a week, if that. Plus we can't summon them up at will!
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I'm new like you and I still haven't started yet, but the best thing I ever did was find this forum. If you browse the threads in detail, all your questions will be answered and you'll find out loads more than you ever thought possible.
Welcome to Saafe 8)
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The thing is everybodys structure and routine will be different.We all work differently,some ladies work in Parlours,some as indies,some as agency ladies.Some of us have apartments,some work from home,some from hotels and some do outcall only.Some of us only see a couple a week some 5 a day.You need to decide how you want to work and how many clients you want to see (and that also depends on how many bookings you get).Routine is something you discover for yourself as you go along.Have a really good read of the main page then work your way through the forum and use the search thing for specific subjects then if you have more specific questions about taking the plunge etc we can all probably offer more specfic answers.
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How much is enough? when you fall asleep on a client .......which I almost did.
For me it depends on whether I do in-calls/out-calls.
I mostly do out calls and the amount of travel involved can be really really exhausting especially if I work my arse off the night before. I do find in-calls 99% easier and faster and more financially rewarding than out-calls. It's actually surprising how many clients you can bed just by staying in one place.
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Hi Hun
New to this forum however my routine is normally two hard core days between 5-8 all regulars
Then the rest of the week just a few here and there if I feel like. Only see regulars now which makes life a whole lot easier .
as u get more into it u will fall into ur own routine and find what works for u as every body is different
:-)
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It depends how much you can handle and what type of clients you've seen in the day. For example, if you see 2 - 4 clients who want you to be on top and doing every position under the sun for long periods of time, you might not be able to withstand it as much as 4 - 6 clients who are easy to please.
Also, starting off, depending on your current sex life, seeing too many guys might make you a bit sore.
But, as others have said, you'll learn pretty quickly what works for you. Some people see one a day and call it quits, others will try to squeeze in as many as possible in one day. And, again, as others have said, it really depends on how many clients want to book you.
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Hi,
My names Kelly I'm New to escorting and before I start I would like to get as much information as possible.
What I would like to know is how many clients should i aim to see in a day? I will need to pay hotel costs and public transport too.
What is your usual structure and routine? Would like as much advice as possible please :)
Kelly x x
Hi Kelly
Welcome. As others have said, definitely have a read over the main saafe site before you go any further.
How many clients you aim to see depends on how much you want to make....some girls want to see 1 or 2, others want to see 5, others want to see as many as they can. Obviously you need to cover your advertising, hotel and travel costs and make a profit, so you need to sit and work out how much all that comes to and how much above that you want to make. Remember though, just because you might want to see 5 clients doesn't mean you necessarily will get that many...we all have good days and bad days. And it can take a while to get established when you're new.
Also, you won't know how you feel about the job (mentally and physically) until you actually start - even now, over a year in I don't like to see too many, I get very sore, tired and snappy if I push it too hard. So I would get yourself started first before you start worrying about targets.
Targets are a good thing but they can be a bad thing - if you get too hung up on wanting to see x amount of clients, because you can end up seeing clients you wouldn't normally agree to see, your screening can start to get lax and so on.
With routine, again, everyone is different. Some ladies work during the day and finnish at 6pm, others work in the afternoons and evenings, others do outcalls at night. Some of us cam. Some of us have day jobs too and some of us are full time prossies.
The good thing about being indie is that all of this stuff is up to you, you don't have anyone telling you what to do. So get your ad up, get yourself started, then decide how you want to organize yourself is my advice.
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Hi MissK and welcome to saafe. As was advised above go to www.saafe.info and read it three or four times so that you can be a little prepared when starting.
It is all a learning curve and you will still be learning with years under your belt. We can't know everything and things change all the time. Even the name for things like Russian is a titfuck in my head etc.
How much you charge and how many you see is totally up to each individual but as Kay says above, we can't magic them out of a hat. We gotta wait on them contacting us.
In the beginning don't just see anyone because they called, if you get a vibe off some, no matter what it is, just say you are busy and can't see them, better safe than sorry.
There may be days when you make well over your target (expenses) and there may be days when you just break even or don't cover expenses but experience will tell you to cancel hotel if you feel not enough interest has been shown. It is always good to put your profile in the area you are going to prior to your expected date of arrival and gauge the response.
One of the biggest rules IMO is to have at least one prossie phone which you can either turn off when not working or put on silent if with friends who do not know what you do.
Also get a "buddy" and let the buddy know where you are, for safety is paramount for us.
These are just a few suggestions but reading the main site is very important.
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I'm so amazed by ladies who are able to see more than a few clients a day. I just get exhausted if I see more than two, and my preference in terms of staying sane is to see 1-2 a few days a week most weeks. My wallet would certainly be happier with more clients but I burn out so fast. I do try to make myself see 3 if I'm doing an incall though, as the decent hotel rooms here are so expensive.
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Hi,
My names Kelly I'm New to escorting and before I start I would like to get as much information as possible.
What I would like to know is how many clients should i aim to see in a day? I will need to pay hotel costs and public transport too.
What is your usual structure and routine? Would like as much advice as possible please :)
Kelly x x
Depends...like you I get around via public transport. For this reason I only offer incalls. Lol...I don't feel I'm too good for it but I find alot of outcall clients are tw's not to mention people don'tlet just anybody come to their house.
My usual routine: tuesday-saturday 12 hr days unless I have something of importance to do that absolutely cannot be done on sunday or monday. I NEVER work past midnight. I only take breaks for lunch or when the money starts to pile. I use one of my days off to take new pics and try to put said pics on website every 1-2 wks. It is important to have a website especially when first starting out. You will have to post ads and use the websites of those ads/banners to direct traffic onto your site.
Screening: I use their voice. You can tell alot by someone's tone. The main questions you need to ask are name, age, rm # (outcall) how they found you, appt time/length. If anything doesn't check out GOOGLE is your best friend!
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As everyone has mentioned how many clients / preference how they work I thought I would add this
When starting out you might not have the money for good professional photos but please don't use personal selfi type photos of yourself from your own personal social media sites like Twitter /Facebook , Tinder dating sites .
Punters / escorts will and can do a reverse image search on your photos and see where else they are posted and if you have posted the same photos on face book/ Twitter ect then it's only a few steps to your real name , town you live in and address
use a gmail/ hotmail account for email, don't do what several unfortunate escorts have done in the past which was to open up a email account using her real name but a fake email address
Ie putting in her real name so Lucy Smith@Sexyslutjane@hotmail.com
Because when she reply to punters they will have her real name
Preferably use Gmail as I think hotmail syncs Skype with your all your contacts
If you are on facebook lock down your personal settings to as private as possible preferably to only people you know and not friend of friends put a slightly different city in to which you live in if possible or not one at at all
Don't accept random request from people you don't know and if possible don't use a personal face picture of yourself on your face book profile
Don't feel that you have to show your face , do services that you don't want in order to be more popular ,busy
Use a SIM card that you haven't used before ie not one that you used to sell stuff on gumtree , Facebook selling sights viva St as this is another way to get your real Identity , address
As your new you wil attract every asshole under the sun , trying to have one over on you from guys wanting to share content ( read as free fucks ) offering to pick you up from the station , be your driver
Offering you a free photos shoot - every man and his dick is a pro photographer
Get a separate phone/sim purely for work and don't ever use your own personal social media sites on this phone as they will often without you realising it sync your contacts ( work & personal together )
Save some money you never know when you might not be able to work and the unexpected happens and you can't work for several weeks / months
Jan /feb is traditionally quiet so save so money for the quiet period after xmas
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Hi thanks for reply. How do you check if they are suitable clients as I have such a bad taste in boy friends so a bit worried! And do you let the tax man or benefits know every job you have had
Kelly x x
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Hi thanks for reply. How do you check if they are suitable clients as I have such a bad taste in boy friends so a bit worried! And do you let the tax man or benefits know every job you have had
Kelly x x
Screening comes down to common sense and gut instinct - it's not exactly the same as picking boyfriends!
And yes, you need to register as self-employed and declare all your earnings (you can claim against any legitimate business outgoings).