considering your post said mainly massage it would suggest you do something else also? Bearing in mind this site is support and advice for escorts NortherStars assumption that you are whoring wasn’t misplaced.

I know it's not really what you were asking from the thread, and sadly too late now, but if you set your AW profile to Seeking Services instead of Offering Services it hides it from view and from searches. It's a good option if you want to look like you've deleted your profile but haven't; you can just set it back after any length of time (I think) and all your feedback etc will still be there.

Maybe you are projecting your feelings about us whores onto the word 'whoring'. I think this guy took advantage of your mixed feelings about sex work by manipulating you with the 'you're too good for this' line all whilst getting a full service for cash from you.
He's a serious mind fucker!

what word do you prefer, high class courtesan, lady of the night lol?
we are whores no matter how you try to dress it up.

I prefer sex worker or escort. Prostitute or whore just have bad associations and are often used as an insult. Like most gay people don't like the word faggot it's similar.

Thanks Nelly for the advice x

Do not ever get involved with a client in my opinion. This isn’t Pretty Woman and I’ve seen this play out many a time.

Many clients who want relationships with girls often always do for the same reason. They think that WG’s are desperate for help or want to get out of the industry. This man is a vulture. Because of those thoughts they feel you are easy to manipulate because they feel once you are in their arms they can control you financially as they feel you don’t want to be an escort. It sounds in this case like you don’t and you have some shame associated with being one. Hence why he manipulated you so easily.

Another thing, this is going to be an unpopular opinion among some WG’s here who cod themselves about how attractive their clients are. I however don’t care as I’m making money. 95% of my clients come to see me as they’re repulsive and no woman in their right mind besides those paid to do so would want to be with them. The 5% that are decent or attractive are probably the worst. They usually have a chip on their shoulder or bad attitude and hence no woman wants guys like that either.

The fact that this man bad mouthed his ex to you tells me a lot about the person this guy is. Toxic people will do anything to keep placing fault on past partners and will bad mouth them to the ground. The innocent party would be trying to forget them as soon as possible. I know because this guy sounds exactly like my abusive ex who bad mouthed me to all my friends after we broke up. This should of been a red flag to you. Bad mouthing an ex is toxic behaviour. He’s toxic. Don’t contact again.

On a side note, when I started I used to be offended by the word “prostitute” and “whore”.
Preferred to call it “escort” and “courtesan” which in my opinion doesn’t really fit what we do. Most of the time were paid for fucking and not for conversation and nice dinners.

I’m way more comfortable now with “prostitute”. Especially given it has negative connotations.