I'm 28 and have been an escort for 2 years, i've also been married for four years.

I got into escorting by meeting a guy on a night out 3 years ago who was an agent and he asked me to consider doing modelling.  After having a portfolio done i got little work and it was then that he suggested trying escorting out for him.  My husband was against it but i told him i would like to give it a try and it wouldnt lead to sex (how naive of me), which it did after the first booking and i was hooked to the work and have done it since.

I was introduced to a man who became a client, he told me he was wealthy which i was sceptical about obviously but over time i have seen his wealth and he has become a very regular client of mine.  In March he suggested paying for me to get breast implants, which is something i had thought about in the past.  I gave it some thought and agreed to it, with my husband telling me he would 'own' a part of me, but it was too good of an offer to turn down.

Well now my client has asked me to become exclusive to him.  He wants me to stop seeing the other clients i have and he will pay me the money i would earn.  He is deadly serious.

I have asked him to give me some time to think, but the truth is i would be happy to do it if the money can be set up regularily.  My husband believes that if i accept his offer it will make me his lover / mistress and mean i am no longer a standard escort to him.

Please can i have your thoughts on my situation?  I would greatly appreciate the views of the ladies on here x x

He hasn't said that, no.  The hours i do each week, which can vary obviously depending on the number of clients etc, would be spent with him effectively.

But you cant be 'exclusive' to him without leaving your husband. Me personally, i wouldnt accept that. He knows you're only with him for the money and thats how he's so easily able to control you.  Of course, we all do this for the money but we are in control. What happens if he suddenly gets bored of you and finds somebody else? Your husband is right. You are not a standard escort to this dude. Mr Wealth is dangling a handful of notes infront of you and telling you what to do as if you were his to control... The line has been crossed already i think.
Unless this dude puts a wedding ring on your finger then be prepared to suddenly get dropped.

Kitana, great point about not being 'exclusive' without leaving hubby, guess he means 'exclusive' to her escorting life and not seeing other clients?  I mean't to add to my previous post, not sure if it's of concern or relevant, but clients who have suggested an exclusive arrangement in the past to me, have  also made it clear (either early on or later in the discussion)  that it would involve unprotected sex.

Christ! You're right! The unprotected sex issue is very relevant here! Theres no doubt he'd be expecting that...

I actually had one of these deals with a client for about two years (search through my other posts, you'll find I've mentioned it on here before).

But - and this is a BIG but - I am not/was not married or in a relationship.  How does your husband feel about it?  Do you think it'll lead to arguments or, even worse, a separation?  Are you prepared to risk your marriage in that way?

Plus my guy was not a bullshitter, nor was he possessive (not saying yours is), nor did he expect me to drop everything to be with him.  It was a mutually convenient arrangement in which neither of us called the shots.  Will he expect you to be at his beck and call?  And no way did we ever have unprotected sex, nor did either of us suggest it (he's married, for one thing).

The main thing to consider is: do you trust him?  I trusted my guy to keep his word, to keep putting the agreed amount of money in my bank account on the agreed date, and to not 'cut me loose' i.e. not to end the arrangement without notice/severance pay.  But I only trusted him because I already knew him well.  And he was true to his word and even set me back up in business when our arrangement ended by giving me a few bob/deposit for a flat etc.  And I was never under any illusion that it would lead to anything more - are you?

Angelamanchester - you have a lot of experience in the situation, thanks.

I have spent considerable time with the client over the 18 months or so, and i do trust him.  He's promised he will never miss a payment to me and will provide a financial package if it was to end earlier than the agreed renewal date once the initial trial period had been successful.

My husband has always been the jealous type, even when we were dating.  He's come to terms with the escorting over the past 2 years, but obviously has reservations about this potential new arrangement because he sees it as me becoming the clients lover / mistress.

Morning,

I was with the client last night and i had a chance to discuss his proposal with him in greater detail at the end of the booking.  I asked him about being at his 'beck and call', such as calling me at short notice outside of our agreed hours, and he said if he was to phone me to meet him and i was busy doing something he would respect that and if i was free to be with him then he would pay me for the additional time spent with him.

I have bookings this week but he is suggesting starting the trial period next week or the week after, and if i was to accept and give it a go i said i would be happy to try it for his suggested three month period initially.

A couple of the replies mentioned unprotected sex, and i asked him his thoughts on this.  He told me it would be up to me but he would be happy to pay me 50% on top of the regular amount if i wanted to on the basis that we both had regular health check ups.