I can understnad how the breast implant situation will come across to people, but he never wanted the money back from me and i dont think he sees this proposal as a way of me repaying him.  Maybe im wrong with that?

Apologies, that's how I read your first post. It came across like "he bought me implants, now he wants exclusivity" (as repayment)

Sorry if that's not how you meant it.

No man would ever pay for implants and expect nothing in return. Heck, most men wouldnt even buy you a ?1 bottle of water without expecting something in return...

Who is this man? When did you meet him? What do you know about him as far as his personal life goes? Has he ever said anything about being in love with you? Do you love him? Do you love your husband?

And whats the point of a 'contract'? Are you seriously going to sue him if/when he breaches the terms? No! The lady in question cant do a damn thing other than walk away and start from scratch. He's the one flashing the cash and setting the rules which makes him in control. It certainly seems that he's the one calling all the shots so far...

No man would ever pay for implants and expect nothing in return. Heck, most men wouldnt even buy you a ?1 bottle of water without expecting something in return...

Who is this man? When did you meet him? What do you know about him as far as his personal life goes? Has he ever said anything about being in love with you? Do you love him? Do you love your husband?

He's 42, got his own business and doesnt work from an office anymore.  I met him through a client, he told him about me and he asked for my details and it went from there.  The initial meetings were in a nice hotel and a few weeks later i started to meet him at an appartment he owns, and ive gone there ever since.  He is married and has one child, but the sex life between them is non existant and they are not close anymore.

He has never said anything about being in love with me, the sex between us is great and he has certainly been one of my better clients in the bedroom.  He was keen for me to get breast implants, and as they were something i'd always wanted i figured it was a win win situation, and since having them done the bookings with him increased.

I don't love him, no, and i certainly have never suggested i do either.  And yes, i love my husband.  I don't see him as much as we would like because of his job, including him being away at weekends occasionally, but i love him.

... she can always walk out if things get sour. But in my opinion it would certainly would give her some control of the situation

But the point i'm trying to make is the fact that if Electra agrees to his terms and she becomes exclusive to him and cuts off her other clients, when things do go sour, she's got to start from the beginning. You cant call up all your previous regulars and beg them to take you back. Thats just rude! Also, by that point they've moved on elsewhere anyway. And its hard these days trying to build up a decent set of regulars or otherwise.
But the situation you discuss still gives her no control. It doesnt matter how you look at it. He is the king and Electra is his footstool! I want to kick his arse...!

But the point i'm trying to make is the fact that if Electra agrees to his terms and she becomes exclusive to him and cuts off her other clients, when things do go sour, she's got to start from the beginning

True. But that's the risk you're taking for getting into these type of sugar daddy scenarios and it's only you who can decide what the right thing to do...:-)

It doesnt matter how you look at it. He is the king and Electra is his footstool! !

True :-) But we all know that sugar daddy secenarios sometime work and sometimes don't. Will this one work out? maybe it will maybe it won't. I  have no clue   

Quote from: electra on 24 August 2011, 01:27:56 pm

He has never said anything about being in love with me, the sex between us is great and he has certainly been one of my better clients in the bedroom.  He was keen for me to get breast implants, and as they were something i'd always wanted i figured it was a win win situation, and since having them done the bookings with him increased.

I don't love him, no, and i certainly have never suggested i do either.  And yes, i love my husband.  I don't see him as much as we would like because of his job, including him being away at weekends occasionally, but i love him.

Would you leave your husband for him? I can see it heading very fast in that direction...

I wouldnt leave my husband for him, it's never entered my head and i have never considered it.

Well thats great but you're clearly making your husband unhappy... So what if your husband gives you the ultimatum?

Well my husband is away until sunday night now so it gives me time to consider everything, in between seeing the client tonight and tommorow night. 

That's a good question you ask, i dont know to be honest.  By that i mean i know him well enough to know he will be o.k with me giving it a try for a month or so.  If i liked it and wanted it to continue and then the client wanted too much of time, was making me choose between him or my husband, and my husband wanted me to stop seeing him and go back to escorting i would do.