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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: mySecret on 16 May 2018, 08:36:45 am
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so i met a client from Us and we saw each other 3 times in total.
i do not think that he is a regular...3 times is not enough!
he sent to me some gift...
the first 2 meeting he paid full amount..
i know i need to count money always...last time he came to mine for 2hrs..he paid and i didn t count :FF
After he gone i count the money and i missed £30
so today i sent him an email...saying that he made a mistake about my fees and i know it was his intention...LOL
so if he can send an amazon voucher to correct his mistake! i saw that lack of respect...honestly £30 are not a huge amount..
but i do not care that he sent me gifts...i need cash no gift...
For you i acted in a good and polite way, just shame on him! if it was his intention...which i suspect! i just say the opposite to his email because i want that he is ashamed about it!
i do offer discount to my regular but i propose it...not the opposite! i hate that..
i prefer to loose a client like this..for his attitude more than others things!
always count money first! lesson learnt ... i trust too much people! i am a bit naive!
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Remember if you worked in a shop then you would always check the cash before you put it in the till and this is even if it’s a regular customer so sex work is no different, never ever trust a client to just give you the cash, he meant to give you £30 less imo
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Remember if you worked in a shop then you would always check the cash before you put it in the till and this is even if it’s a regular customer so sex work is no different, never ever trust a client to just give you the cash, he meant to give you £30 less imo
i know ...LOL...i m feeling not respected at all by him! honesty do not change so much £30 for me..is more the principle that i hate...
anyway since i will be more aware!
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i will put a warning if he doesn t send the rest! i think that is great to do so...
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I really loathe when clients try to decide how much they should give you, pfft cheeky buggers, I would def stick up a warning if he doesn’t pay you the £30.
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Many of these men don't respect us anyway so look out for yourself .check money in front of them at the start and out it away quick somewhere else .
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Many of these men don't respect us anyway so look out for yourself .check money in front of them at the start and out it away quick somewhere else .
Checking in front eliminates any misunderstanding, if I don't check I have to accept it could be under.
Also had it over, which I admitted to and in one not checked til client left held for future booking. Pity the client who under paid didn't do the same.
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You'll get some tight arses who'll try it on & deduct the cost of a gift off your fee. It's a grooming tactic, he'll be the type to push to stay longer & get a discount etc.
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I would always count the cash in front of them at the start of the booking and this is for both our benefits, once a guy had given me £80 more than he should have but I actually thought he was testing to see if I would declare it OR I thought he wanted bareback but instead of asking then he just slipped me a few extra quid and probably hoped I would know what he meant! I obviously gave him it back and he didn’t say anything about it! ::)
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You'll get some tight arses who'll try it on & deduct the cost of a gift off your fee. It's a grooming tactic, he'll be the type to push to stay longer & get a discount etc.
Yep your right! I HATE the groomers :FF
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I never had a problem asking for the money upfront,I found it not so awkward if you greet them as usual,kiss/hug etc and then I used to offer them a drink and say 'and while I'm at it I'll just put my fee away if that's alright?'Most didn't need prompting,the odd one sometimes looked a bit put out but tough shit but the majority almost appreciated the cue as I think sometimes for them they aren't totally sure when to offer it.I used to quickly count the money on my way out so if there was a discrepancy it was easily sorted and they knew I hadn't disappeared off and made it up it was short.It actually never was short when I did this,had a couple of overpayers in fact which I told them about but they always let me keep the money.
My problem used to be forgetting to take the money at the start or when I was new not thinking to do it. I got ripped off twice like this,one bloke had completely underpaid me by £30 and the other tosser paid me at the end for a quickie but paid me £10 less.Neither repaid me or came again.On 3 occasions where I forgot the money the client came back twice unprompted and the third came back prompted and was very apologetic.
Think of it this way if you struggle to get and count the money,you would not expect to see the show at a cinema if you hadn't already bought your tickets,well same goes for us.No money,no honey!
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When they know you do not count the money they will try this trick seen it with a couple of friends that made mistake of not wanting to count it as felt embarassed and each time 1 client first of all left off 20 then left off 40 then left off 60 3rd time she counted it and did something about it finally and then finally got it that she always needed to count.
Some punters resent paying us so doing this type of thing gives them pleasure that they got 1 up on us. I always count as i do not trust them.
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In the sauna then the clients get to pay after which none of us girls like but if it’s a new client or someone that hasn’t been in for years then we’re allowed to take payment upfront, you should see their face when you ask for it, they actually have the cheek to question why you want the money first!! Grrr :FF
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Can you believe some of these guys.?!
They don't want to pay or haggle with us.
Hate the ones who want discount for service :FF
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i found him just a joke anyway! i am waiting till tomorrow morning! then feedback only on aw and warning here
i got his real name, his mobile number, where is based as hotel, where he is coming from...
honestly for £30 is just a stupid man!
ridiculous! i was very nice with him! and he sounded genuine....i am ridiculous too! trust this man, ... at least i do not have bad heart...
he does....
i know it is doesn t matter..but he destroy all for £30...how he could be proud of himself! stealing someone £30! ahahah
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:) he sent them! i am going to be naive forever! sometimes they are surprising... :D :D
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Great news, some people will do the right thing.