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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: DiscreetLady on 26 April 2017, 12:06:25 am
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if someone calls and asks how much is it to come for a quick 5 min blowjob no sex and asks how much, you say 50 and he bargains to 20, would you do it? I did not accept it although I'm not sure maybe it's ok?? I hadn't had a quiet day either (I had 4*30 min bookings today)
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personally no. When clients ask for this I give them this scenario
"you walk into an off license and want to buy some water. A bottle of water costs 50p in the shop and you then ask the shop owner if you can get half the bottle of water for 25p. How would the shop owner react."
I refuse such offers. I find them disrespectful. The person saw the prices I list. They are clear in all my ads. But somehow this person assumed I was desperate enough to reduce my prices for them.
Then again I do have a friend who would accept this offer. Her logic is if you have a goal to reach earning of lets say 200 for that day, you could just view it as easy money that brings you that much closer towards your goal so why not do it. It all adds up in the end. I appreciate that view of things. Its just not how I feel.
I guess it depends on circumstances. On a really bad day or month, I may change my mind. But given that I work with an agency and give a significant amount of my earning, it makes the offer that much more unacceptable
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I would hang up or quote my half hour price we are not a charity shop.
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Not only that but he will tell his friends about getting a ?20 service and so on.
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if someone calls and asks how much is it to come for a quick 5 min blowjob no sex and asks how much, you say 50 and he bargains to 20, would you do it? I did not accept it although I'm not sure maybe it's ok?? I hadn't had a quiet day either (I had 4*30 min bookings today)
NO don't do it hun even on a quiet day if you do it once for one you will be inundated with calls and emails from his mates asing for deals for every service you list and he will want that deal again to x
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Some girls do them for that price though which is fine but never lower your prices for anyone first rule of escorting lol
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No, I see new clients for half-hour minimum, then I'll do 15m quickies if I've seen them before. It's just worth me taking the time out to get ready for 20 quid, plus I don't like BJ-only meets either, but I can see it working for others.
Something worth bearing in mind is that OWO is probably the riskiest thing health-wise many of us do - another factor when weighing up if it's worth it for 20 quid.
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20 quid, I think not! what an insult, I would probably just block him.
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Entirely up to you, me no.
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I wouldn't do anything for 20. If it had been a quiet day and I wanted to reach target, I would consider dropping to 40 (my quickie is normally 50 outside London, 60 inside.) I do like quickies though. If I was working from home and would have to get ready then nah, fuck that!
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Who sets the prices ? the customer or the service provider ? If you start succumbing to these requests you can guarantee that price drops will happen everywhere, you have bills to pay, rent, elec, gas, advertising.... yet someone is requesting a BJ at street prices ? Let him go on the streets and get what he is willing to pay for
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Sounds like 1 of 2 idiots that have contacted me recently, 1 by text and then 1 by email. The 1 by text got arsey when I laughed and said no, told me he was going to write bad reviews about me.....yawn
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Probably the same one as me, oh and he called me a slag, oh well ;D
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Any haggling, I won't tolerate it at all lately. They can actually pay (they got enough funds/money), but they are testing you to see how low you would stoop down to prove you were a verified slug, sucking a cock for ?20. I bet this guy goes to his nice pub, holidays, pay for his gym, nice takeouts and he won't start asking them to throw in freebies. Get it? This is not an attack on people who does this type of service, but my own personal take on haggling. It seems that they want you to take less money so that they can fund their other normal pleasures in life. Why do you subsidise him unless you're a charity?
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I have a Golden rule which I stick to through thick and thin and thats NO Hagglers!
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Say no. Your prices are for time,not acts x
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I don't get why we are expected to charge less for "just a blow job" BJ is harder work than sex in my opinion.
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I don't get why we are expected to charge less for "just a blow job" BJ is harder work than sex in my opinion.
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No way I would accept this. It is taking the piss in my view. On average a bj takes ten to fifteen mins and sometimes longer with some men.
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It's entirely up to you. If you need that ?20 then you should. I don't know your situation, but I do know that for some people ?20 makes the difference between their child eating and not or having enough to pay the electric bill so you have to go by what you really need and not worry about what other women choose to do. Not everyone is in the fortunate position as the others who have replied to this thread.
However, I would warn that if you do it once with him he may well expect it again so you need to either make it clear it's a one off and decide if you'll take his call next time. Maybe he'll be in and out in 5 minutes and you come and see you once week which might make it worthwhile.
I'd also be very clear how long he has for his ?20- that it is for x amount of time, not until he comes or that it only includes a BJ and nothing else or that he can't do anything sexual with you- whatever feels right and fair for you.
You also need to make sure your screening is up to the same standard as it always is. If he sounds nice and polite about it and sounds alright and your instinct says it'll be fine then go for it.
Remember we are working for ourselves so we can do whatever we feel like and whilst there is great merit in setting yourself rules such as not seeing those who ask for a discount, and indeed many women do you have to do what is best for your personal financial situation whilst always keeping yourself safe.
As for comparing escorting to shopping, true you can't go into Tesco and ask for a discount, but you can negotiate discounts in many other situations such as buying cars, on the market or when you renew your things like insurance.
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I have a Golden rule which I stick to through thick and thin and thats NO Hagglers!
Haggling is bad form for punters. DON'T PUT UP WITH IT. Sorry for caps. ;D