Say no. Your prices are for time,not acts x

I don't get why we are expected to charge less for "just a blow job" BJ is harder work than sex in my opinion.

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It's entirely up to you. If you need that ?20 then you should. I don't know your situation, but I do know that for some people ?20 makes the difference between their child eating and not or having enough to pay the electric bill so you have to go by what you really need and not worry about what other women choose to do.  Not everyone is in the fortunate position as the others who have replied to this thread.

However, I would warn that if you do it once with him he may well expect it again so you need to either make it clear it's a one off and decide if you'll take his call next time.  Maybe he'll be in and out in 5 minutes and you come and see you once week which might make it worthwhile.

I'd also be very clear how long he has for his ?20- that it is for x amount of time, not until he comes or that it only includes a BJ and nothing else or that he can't do anything sexual with you- whatever feels right and fair for you.

You also need to make sure your screening is up to the same standard as it always is. If he sounds nice and polite about it and sounds alright and your instinct says it'll be fine then go for it.

Remember we are working for ourselves so we can do whatever we feel like and whilst there is great merit in setting yourself rules such as not seeing those who ask for a discount, and indeed many women do you have to do what is best for your personal financial situation whilst always keeping yourself safe.

As for comparing escorting to shopping, true you can't go into Tesco and ask for a discount, but you can negotiate discounts in many other situations such as buying cars, on the market or when you renew your things like insurance.