Hi I ve just joined today for some advice although I ve been reading the forum for a wile now and found it very helpful.

I have bid on an AW reverse booking in London (Im in Newcastle) we ve exchanged a few messages and I ve supplied a face pic as its a long booking.

He has offered to pay a deposit of my train fair - what is the best way to take this I was thinking maybe AW credits as I dont want to provide my address/paypal/bank account details.  Is this possible or is there another option?

Also he replied with a pic of him and his young daughter and while I accept many are married/have children I ve never had anyone send a pic with anyone else in it and it surprised me a little! Does anyone have any thoughts on this?

Thanks in advance for your help.  Louise x

Hi and welcome Louise.
I can't comment on Adultwork as I've never used the website. But as far as sending you a picture of himself and his daughter, it might actually show how genuine and unassuming he is, if not a little naive and thoughtless in sending a family photo. Men and women don't think the same when it comes to something as incongruous as that. They see nothing wrong with it, whilst (generally speaking) it's not really something a woman would do.

I've had bookings where a guy has sent pictures of himself and his wife/partner/girlfriend together either on holiday or at some social gathering. I've chastised them and said that it's an inappropriate thing to do, as they have no idea who I am. I could be a really nasty piece of work that does a bit of blackmailing on the side. This never occurs to them.

You say you've had a few exchanges with him, so he obviously felt comfy enough to send you such a picture. Maybe when you see him you can gently tell him that sending family photos isn't really the appropriate thing to do.

Guys really don't think about it in advance. They say they'll send one in exchange. How do we know it's them?and they us anyway!

Thanks for the responses.  The amazon voucher idea is great thanks.  I didn t ask him for the pic - he just sent it but now he s asked for more pics of me so he s heading towards being blocked!

Louise xx

but now he s asked for more pics of me so he s heading towards being blocked!

Louise xx

A sign of doom. Anybody that asks for more pics than is already on your website is more than likely a timewaster. Shame.

louise im green on this site as to refer back to wot u sed sorry

but can u msg me on here as i too have spoke to this guy toooo, i think

just wana see if its the same person

thanks

dee

louise like i se im a bit green

how do i msg u on here

is it email  or off line pm

sorry lol