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Gracious

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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #15 on: 11 September 2019, 01:21:11 pm »
It's not even THAT quiet. It's just that I am very greedy and the prospect of making almost half of my monthly target in a few hours really enticed me.

Well at least you’re honest haha! I totally hear/resonate with you though!

We all have our own strengths and weaknesses and from looking at the most recent replies, I guess you need to weigh up your own. Personally speaking, I’m the type of person that internalises everything. I know myself well enough to know I wouldn’t be able to wing it for that long as I already have underlining mental health that affect me on a daily basis - and slow money for me is better then making loads of money from a bell end  ;D
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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #16 on: 11 September 2019, 03:01:56 pm »
I'd suggest he's a verbal humiliation player a type of domination and it comes in many forms. The sex isn't the main reason your there. I had several clients like this all high value, rude, critical and relish making offensive personal remarks. My main strategy is brick wall, can't argue with a brick wall. I don't respond to negative remarks.

My friend took me on a duo with her regular who was a verbal humiliation player. She charged him double normal rate for each hour. We ignored him throughout the restaurant date and disposed of him quick and efficiently during the sex part. Again ignoring him.This was my first head fuck client and I said to my friend '...wow your really ignoring him' ...she said '`Yes, he can say what he likes, we don't listen, order all the lobster and crab you want! We exploded his credit card which was ticking away behind the bar as punishment. He still had a horrid effect on me mentally as he was so skilled at mind fucking. I had a hideous nighmare that night! All the escort agencies had banned him too.

If you can build that brick wall, play him and take the cash. It's psycological warfare so why not
charge big 'danger money' ?
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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #17 on: 11 September 2019, 08:14:31 pm »
He has a Wife?! This intrigues me.
If it was me, I would calculate how long and how hard I would have to work with decent clients that deserve me and make a little note when I have achieved the target.

It just takes longer, but the end result in your bank would be the same.

I would have the opinion that life is too short and on my deathbed, I wouldn't be regretting turning down a few grand for precious days of it wasted on someone who wasn't worthy of me :-\

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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #18 on: 11 September 2019, 09:36:16 pm »
whilst he sounds like an ass im lost as to why was reported to ugly mugs? as i missing something?

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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #19 on: 11 September 2019, 09:51:03 pm »
I'm in the same boat as "mentally brick wall him" and take his cash.

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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #20 on: 12 September 2019, 01:15:32 am »
I'd want to kill him at the end of the 6 hours !

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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #21 on: 12 September 2019, 05:26:56 am »
whilst he sounds like an ass im lost as to why was reported to ugly mugs? as i missing something?

He unzipped my bag and took a look at the contents. Lucky my passport or money wasn't in there.


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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #22 on: 12 September 2019, 05:41:43 am »
Well at least you’re honest haha! I totally hear/resonate with you though!

We all have our own strengths and weaknesses and from looking at the most recent replies, I guess you need to weigh up your own. Personally speaking, I’m the type of person that internalises everything. I know myself well enough to know I wouldn’t be able to wing it for that long as I already have underlining mental health that affect me on a daily basis - and slow money for me is better then making loads of money from a bell end  ;D

This, I wish I could grey-rock him like what others have said but I am dealing with a lot of personal stuff and usually what they say really gets to me.

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« Reply #23 on: 12 September 2019, 05:46:34 am »
He definitely sounds 'disordered' and takes his jollies from being horrible to you.
If you can make this money with a bit more work with a few normal clients, I would suggest you do.
It sounds like this psycho-twat thrives on being controlling, condescending and putting you down. The mental cost of taking another booking from him is huge - you spend time thinking about it, posting on here, agonising before the booking, being pissed off during the booking and being even more pissed of after the booking and analysing it some more. My guess - not worth it!

I agree that there are a lot of manipulative men in this business (not necessarily narcissistic, but somewhere on the manipulative/ abusive spectrum and definitely psychopathic types are not that difficult to come by).
It really helps to learn how manipulation and brainwashing works - it has helped me to spot the signs and get rid of many clients (and other people!).
Still learning though.

That's funny!  :D But I guess he chose you because he doesn't think you would do something like this.

Yes, you are right he chose me cause he knows I am meek and submissive. A lot of punters have said I am passive, I hate it and I fantasise about being a dominatrix and "accidentally" killing men like him as "Sugarxxx" said.

I blame mommy dearest for never allowing to express anger  :FF

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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #24 on: 12 September 2019, 06:51:37 am »
This, I wish I could grey-rock him like what others have said but I am dealing with a lot of personal stuff and usually what they say really gets to me.

Ditto. Thats why I dont allow any of my clients to call me names like "whore, slapper, bitch etc" in a meeting. Roleplay or not, I naturally internalise everything and it really does affects me. I take my hat off to those who can put up a brick wall!!!

Back to topic, it sounds like you've been able to come to a more informed decision now :)
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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #25 on: 12 September 2019, 08:31:47 am »
I would have killed the Bas**** and had cooked him for breakfast by now  ;D just put him on ignore (Although I could'nt and would give him a few back) and think of the money. Seems like he chose u as he thinks he can bully you.

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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #26 on: 12 September 2019, 09:28:03 am »
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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #27 on: 12 September 2019, 10:55:44 am »
Another thing - you're assuming that it will be 6 hours work out of the whole weekend.
It could well be only 6 hours, but it could be more. Even if he won't stay overnight, he can keep you up texting all night, for example.
Or make a surprise visit. Anything to keep you on your toes.

I only ever did one 'holiday' with a client - I paid off the credit card debt but came back as an absolute wreck.

Things do get better. x

He is the one who said 2 hours max each night of the weekend. I just added an extra hour cause you know, sh*t happens, for a total of 6. He is  definitely not the texting type.

What can I do to become a mean b*tch who gives 0 f*cks? lol, I am such a sensitive people-pleaser  :angel:

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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #28 on: 12 September 2019, 11:12:28 am »
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Re: £3,500 for a few hours with a condescending prick
« Reply #29 on: 12 September 2019, 11:45:29 am »
Shall we move on? I'm sure there are plenty of sites for those keen on armchair psychology out there already, and the twat in the thread starter is (and should be) the focus here :)
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