Hi girls,

Not sure if this has been already answered in a previous thread but I am having my first booking at the end of this week! Its a two hour booking at a hotel. I'm really nervous because I have no idea how I am going to fill that amount of time?

I guess what I'm asking is advice on how to start and continue with the booking as I have no idea what to expect!

Thanks ladies

Jess

Hello Jess,

That completely depends on what kind of booking it is. What kind of services do you advertise? Are you GFE or..?

Chat and cuddle for a few minutes... kiss a bit. When you're getting down to business, find out what HE thinks is going to happen.  I will literally say something like, "How many times do you think you'd like to cum tonight?" A typical guy will be happy to cum once, chat and cuddle while they rest up, go for round two, and then some wind-down chat and cuddle. He may have the idea that he can cum four times, although even if he does, it's very likely he won't be able to.

A lot of men book two hours because they're looking for something to eat up the time between dinner and sleeping that isn't watching television. They don't necessarily expect a two-hour porno session. I've even had guys realise they'd been overly ambitious and, after cumming once, just want to go to sleep! I make it clear that I'm happy to stay and cuddle, chat, watch telly, whatever. I may even say something like "Well, you've paid for two hours so I'm happy to just relax with you." This makes it clear that you respect their time and the money they've spent BUT that they're not getting a partial refund. (You may feel that you should give a partial refund if you only stay half the time or whatever, but that's your prerogative.)

Quote from: MissKylie on 01 August 2014, 06:10:03 pm

I'd personally suggest to meet in the bar first, have a drink and get to know each other a little.

This would be after Jess has been to the hotel room so she can check all is in order, be paid and make her security call, naturally? I don't think anybody would recommend hanging around a hotel bar waiting for a total stranger when you don't know what they look like, plus even if he's genuine it makes the necessities at the start of the booking (as mentioned above) more difficult.

I don't think a two hour booking is long enough to warrant a stint of non-private time anyway, and I can't see many punters being happy with the idea unless it's been previously agreed. As KB says, it really depends on what sort of service you offer, but most punters will make it fairly clear how the booking's going to go in the first few minutes anyway and it sounds far longer than it is .

Hmmm I would of thought it would be just as simple to hand her a discrete envelope in the bar, then she can go to the toilet quickly, count it and call her security buddy. I should have stated that in my previous post, apologies, safety is always number one.

I'm only talking about a 10/15 mins drink to break the ice outside the bedroom environment. I've done this so many times (I have mostly been the one to suggest it) I've lost count. I always ask what they will be wearing, never waited more than a few mins, and have honestly never has an issue. It always starts the meeting off more like a date, which I like.

The OP needs to know that the hotel room she's been told is definitely the one she'll be going to for her booking, or there's nothing to call her security buddy for. What if the punter has switched to a different one since she called him there to confirm?

She also needs to count her money in front of the punter so everybody knows it's right and nobody can be accused of pulling a fast one - if you want to trust total strangers that's entirely up to you (and as you know we are supportive of other people's choices in the way they work here), but we will not have it recommended as good practice to a newbie. There'll be enough out there waiting to take advantage of her as it is without her giving them an open invitation to do it.

I don't want to sit in a public place when I'm working, and I take my own bottled water on the odd outcall I do, but either way I wouldn't expect to be leaving the room for a booking of less than three hours and I can't remember ever doing so even then. I find that they've normally got whatever drinks they want in the room anyway .

I actually always ring them on their hotel room phone first before I leave, to make sure they are where they say are. I definitely don't trust total strangers, it's just going for a quick drink and I think it's a nice way of doing things. I don't see how that's an open invitation to take advantage of her, but fair enough!

As I said in the other thread I don't actually count the money in front of clients as I find it too impersonal. I've never had a problem, but if I did then I would then think about changing the way I do things.

The best thing to do is to go with the flow meaning what he wants to do providing it is within your safety. Each client is different and there is no such script for bookings,just an idea about things to do. But they all like different things you will experience. Once you see a few it will come a breeze. I remember my nervs gosh for the first time. But then realize it was me over thinking. Many are respectable but time wasters get in the way some times.