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ladysuzy

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1st timer nerves...
« on: 06 July 2014, 12:08:56 pm »
 :) Hi I am completely new to this and would really like some advice on how to get started.  What to do and NOT. I do feel extremely nervous but I know its what I want to do its just overcoming them.
Any advice xx

Siorse

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Re: 1st timer nerves...
« Reply #1 on: 06 July 2014, 12:29:20 pm »
Hi hun,
I've been doing this job on and off for years and I still get nerves, especially with new clients I've never met before!
It really depends on the client, how things go, what I do is, I let them in , say hi how are you ,talk some shite about the weather or whatever, guide them into the bedroom, take their money, all the while making small-talk (always take the money first!!! rue no1!!),
Then I kinda ask them what I can do for them (if they haven't already told me in advance), and just sort of go with the flow..
I know this all sounds a bit vague, and other escorts might do things completely different, but once they're in the door my nerves
usually go and things are quite natural ,as if you're talking to someone sitting in a busstop or something lol.

You'll be fine once they're in the door, it's the unknown and not knowing what to expect that makes me nervous, I presume
that's your biggest worry too..
Good luck hun, let us know how you got on!
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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: 1st timer nerves...
« Reply #2 on: 06 July 2014, 12:36:02 pm »
Hi Suzy and welcome to SAAFE.

There is no great cure for first time nerves,  most people suffer them.

It's just a case of "getting on with it" and this is when your "acting skills as a prossie" come in handy.

We just have to pretend this is NOT our first booking but be extra vigilant for it is so easy to make a mistake in the beginning.  Just don't allow yourself to be pushed to beyond what you are comfortable with.

I've just re read your post and realised you may mean you haven't done any sourcing or investigating.  If this is the case then click on the button above the message that says "main site" and get yourself reading and read it three or four times so that you take it in.

Good luck.  Maybe you could let us know which help it is you are looking for so that everyone knows exactly what you are meaning.
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meetingdiversity

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Re: 1st timer nerves...
« Reply #3 on: 06 July 2014, 01:15:07 pm »
I some times get nervous but then find there was nothing wrong as the booking went well. So now just try and shift those thoughts to one side. As long as they pass my checks things will more than likely be grand. But some get through passing then switching mid way through the booking like talking being rude tone of voice. That only happened once that was it I was horny making noises he said to shut up in a nasty way so thought right being safe. I gave him a standard bj not put any effort in being safe is the most important. Then never saw him again.