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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #15 on: 06 November 2017, 07:17:53 pm »
A lot of men that say this dont usually book longer its a way to get you to perform better although i have had some that have or ones that say i moght go for longer when i see ypu which means pf your attractive enough they could do..lol
Or it's a way of them thinking they are reminding you of who is in control as in 'if you are a good girl and do exactly what I tell you and put up with my boundary pushing/bad hygiene/weird requests, I'll dangle the carrot of more money at you'.
It does nothing for me as I can't often be arsed with bookings over an hour anyway,they generally bore the tits off me and any bloke who asks how long they should book for gets told 45 mins which is a happy medium.
Just like the twats that tell me they will book me for 3 hours or an overnight in that smug,smarmy,timewaster voice.They are on to a loser because I don't do those kinds of bookings.They always sound surprised at how underwhelmed I am at their generous offer! ;D

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #16 on: 06 November 2017, 07:19:48 pm »
To this I always say
"I'll book you in for an hour - if I don't have any other bookings after your appointment then I can give you the opportunity to extend the booking, but if you want to be sure of having 90 mins/2hrs then you need to book and pay for that time."
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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #17 on: 06 November 2017, 07:41:01 pm »
If they say this to me I just say it will be for one hour maximum as I don't do longer than an hour with new clients.This normally takes the wind out of their sails.I find it a vaguely rude way of hinting that they may wish to extend and it is almost like they think I will make extra effort to secure an extension from them which won't be happening,they get the same service as anyone else.From a business point of view then obviously you need to know how long they are booking for so you know what time to book other clients in afterwards.
I generally find guys that use this phrase are often dicks or timewasters or when it comes to it they pop in 2 mins and can't go again and for sure can't extend anyway.
Genuine guys usually just book for a set time and if they happen to want to extend they will ask if this is possible during the actual booking.


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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #18 on: 06 November 2017, 08:20:44 pm »
There's not a lot of difference between my half hour fee and an hour but a guy turned out a while ago and I said how long are you stopping ( forgot before and at work flat) he said all cocky
"Half hour I may extend to an hour"
I just said " oh ok it doesn't work like that I'm afraid because that equates to two separate half hours , so half hour it is "  ;D

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #19 on: 06 November 2017, 08:47:12 pm »
They do say this sometimes it just shows many don't think and realise we are trying to run a business here and don't have all day on the offchance for their whims and preferences.  Time is money.  It just doesn't dawn on plenty of clients does it!!

Amen to this!! We have different reasons for doing this but I am sure most are doing it to pay the bills and cover living costs and sadly cant pay the bills with TW or reduced rates  :FF
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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #20 on: 06 November 2017, 11:57:52 pm »
I usually can't extend as I have another booking or I'm going out that changes their mind lol

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #21 on: 07 November 2017, 07:17:44 am »
I say I'll accept it as a one hour booking, that's it.

If when I arrive they ask for an extension I may do it, I may not, it all depends on how I'm feeling, the remainder of my day and the situation (them, premises, attitude).

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #22 on: 07 November 2017, 08:47:56 am »
"1 hr or maybe longer" does seem to be a "buzz word" amongst amateurish and often selfish punters with a tight spending behaviour (they earn a lot and they spend for himself or for the family but not wanting to pay more for prostitutes).

Realistically speaking, I doubt if anybody, who genuinely wanted a longer booking than an hour will be saying that AT ALL.  They pay for longer or they insist on paying more without this particular "vague" statement.  "I might pay you more" etc.  Someone said, "this is a way to make you perform better like a carrot dangling".  BINGO! I'd say.

These comments may also mean (in a wishy-washy fashion), "well, you might be attractive enough for me to keep me going"  or "let's see if I would manage much longer with you if you are GOOD or sexy" or whatever.   Read between the line, it may also mean "well, I DON'T WANNA PAY" (I put it in caps as that's quite obvious in these people who use this phrase) "I pay you for the hour but if blah blah blah, can I extend if I wanted to?" BUT THEY NEVER WILL?   Sometimes, action speaks loudest.  Personally, they don't wanna pay you more, so they are just saying.... when they do, they are not using that phrase and they are far more capable in bed and they do need a much longer time, IMPORTANTLY, THEY KNOW.   Those who use this wishy-washy phrase, they are not quite there yet.

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #23 on: 07 November 2017, 09:36:26 am »
Just realised it?s probably their way of jumping ahead of your que and a more likely way to get to see you. If I?m busy I can?t always take hour bookings but I recon they think I?m more likely to see them if there is a possibility of more money.
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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #24 on: 07 November 2017, 10:07:51 am »
Its not so much the length of time they ask for but the attitude.

I've had guys ask for 30 minutes /1 hour or longer and most often 1-2 hours or 2-3 hours. The second bunch are always TWs, when I say I only see,new,guys for an hour they usually give themselves away with some other TW shit and never show.

On the other hand some of the first bunch do extend, its just they are not sure how they'll click. However I always factor in only the shorter request, if it suits me I will extend. If I get another firm appointment then tough luck on them!

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #25 on: 07 November 2017, 11:02:25 am »
I've been known to throw it back at them and say 'Ok if I enjoy I may let you extend'.
They don't seem to get that it is a 2 way street and if I think they are dicks then they will be getting the shorter booking anyway.

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #26 on: 07 November 2017, 11:08:41 am »
I once had a client who would book a particular length, then always ask for a longer time when he arrived. Combined with other difficult behaviour it felt like part of some sort of controlling puppet game, he wasn't prepared to change his behaviours when asked so I told him I wouldn't accept another booking from him.

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #27 on: 07 November 2017, 01:15:40 pm »
i always extend if a client ask to me when we are together.
what i didn t like was ...if i enjoy...
yes, i am a service provider but i am a human being with a heart.
i can not see me as a product even maybe i am, anyway when you book a massage or a treatment you should book a fix time so i try to be cool in my conditions but i felt not respect when he said ...if i enjoy...
of couse he think only his way...he is a client.

i am a sweat lady and i do not think that was the best way to book a human being.
he has 4 good feedback from young service provider, to me was more..he want just the best service ever....which i do for all my booking even he ll be not a regular, i do for my self more that for clients.
he sounds young, without delicatesse.

he should not be sweat or gentlemen, he can be what he likes...but i do not consider my self a product but a GFE escort, so i think there are better manner to communicate.
anyway my inner voice say to me do not accept his booking, she is my boss! ;D



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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #28 on: 07 November 2017, 01:43:20 pm »
If a client asks if he can potentially extend, I tell him to bring the cash for the full extended time. Cash goes on the side and then we crack on. When he's done, I check the time, and remove the correct fee returning any excess.

I started that after a couple of clients shorted me the excess time by suddenly realising they'd forgotten their extra fee.

I get quite a few first timers and bdsm clients, the first group aren't sure how long they can go for. The second group aren't sure how long I can go for. I don't see a lot of clients so I don't mind extending, but I always insist on seeing the full potential fee upfront. I'm not stopping every 30 minutes to ask the client to top up the pay.

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Re: 1hr or maybe longer if i enjoy
« Reply #29 on: 07 November 2017, 02:42:38 pm »
Once I told a punter if he wanted to "extend", he would have to pay first.  Because he was so obese, I assume he didn't want to get up and get some cash out of his purse.  But he didn't explain, he said, "I will pay you at the end".  I did not think he would over-run, to be honest, so I was ok.

He chatted about some rubbish afterwards and did overstay (but nothing sexual), almost as if he was using me as a therapist. When he offered cash at the end, I didn't accept it.    I decided to cut him off.  My rules in my house, he shouldn't decide what's okay for me.