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escorthazel

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very worried about photos help!!
« on: 19 July 2010, 09:28:20 am »
hi guys,

well i had a photo shoot done at my house last morning,the man who done them i remember from years ago so i was very happy for him to do them,paid a small deposit and we agreed that when the photos were sent to me i would pay the full amount when i got them,
He said it would be a few days before i heard from him and i was fine with this but its now been a week and i havent got the photos yet and only got 1 e-mail back from him,
he sent the e-mail on friday said he is having family problems etc and was going to look at them that afternoon,since then i have heard nothing??
i dont have a number for him to call onylt the e-mail and im getting very worried about what happeneing?
should i be worried?
i understand about his family etc but just getting very worried as to why i have not heard how long they are going to take?
no sure what to do any advice would be great as i am starting to worry as to where they are?
hazel xxx

Lucy Chambers

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Re: very worried about photos help!!
« Reply #1 on: 19 July 2010, 10:00:58 am »
If you know him from years ago and he was fine I shouldn't worry, he may really have family problems. Bit strange about the contact number, and I request my pictures to be downloaded onto my laptop directly on the day, but they do normally retouch a few and send them later.

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Re: very worried about photos help!!
« Reply #2 on: 19 July 2010, 10:46:17 am »
I think you're worrying too much. Things really do come up (and sometimes people get flakey and make excuses), but I doubt he has any better use for your pictures than giving them to you and getting paid.

Are you worried because he has pictures with your identifying features?

Harlow

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Re: very worried about photos help!!
« Reply #3 on: 19 July 2010, 07:18:18 pm »
Hi

I can understand your worry, but I think it will turn out ok. Like Anika said things happen, so unless your photos were graphic sex ones, I wouldn't worry too much!

Let us know how it turns out, H xx

escorthazel

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Re: very worried about photos help!!
« Reply #4 on: 23 July 2010, 05:56:58 pm »
hi guys,

well i have had 1 e-mail from him last week saying he was having family problems etc and nothing since!!
he did take one pic of me showing my face so thats why im worried,
havent heard anything back from him since so not sure what i can do?
hazel xx

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Re: very worried about photos help!!
« Reply #5 on: 23 July 2010, 06:02:59 pm »
I have to disagree.... I would be concerned!

I am actually having this issue now. I did a photoshoot with a guy 2 weeks ago, and he sent me 1 email with 4 edited photos and said he'd send the rest in a week. I have called and emailed him to no avail.

Last year, when I was in Boston...I had a photographer who never emailed me the CD, just some very crappy edited photos, and then disappeared. Another photographer took something like 2-3 months to get the CD to me, making 1 excuse after the next until I threatened him.

Im about to do what Lucy does, and request they either be downloaded on my laptop or be made the CD that day. Trusting them to do it at another date is just taking chances.

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« Reply #6 on: 24 July 2010, 12:41:42 pm »
Arrg Joey. The fact that people run into problems sometimes, which we're all aware of, doesn't make it incorrect to say that you shouldn't panic after a week.

Hazel, I think all you can do is keep asking. You could say that you understand if he doesn't have the time or energy to edit the photos at the moment and ask that he sends you the unedited versions. Then you or someone else would have to touch them up.

The thing is, I asked if you're worried about him having face photos because I think you've got the wrong idea about how digital photos work. Sorry to have to tell you, but blurring out your face and sending you the pictures doesn't stop him from having your face photo on his computer. He'd have to deliberately save over or delete the original. If you're worried about people having these photos you can't let them put them on their computer in the first place. This means either using your own camera, or downloading the pictures at the end of the photoshoot and watching him wipe them from his camera.