Anyone been asked to sign a NDA (none disclosure agreement)

[Croissant]

Okay so after a lot of digging i found the girl who he went away with previously and apparently he had contacted her online but they hadn't met.

For me, this is really scary as in the previous 2 times i had met him i received almost 2000 pounds (i even checked if thw notes were fakes and they werent). It wasn't a scam as he never asked me to pay for anything.. So if he did spend 2k on gaining my trust then what on earth must he have been planning.....?

Is this worthy of a warning? Think i massively dodged a bullet and if he had stuck to the original plan of staying in the uk and going to a spa etc then I would have certainly gone..

[SheilaStar]

Amber, we'll never know. Everything is possible.

There is a possibility that your client had ulterior motives and there is also a possibility that he was genuine and perhaps the other girl had signed an NDA, or didn't want to admit anything for discretion or not to expose herself. Or maybe he lied about her to either make you jealous or to convince you that he has done that before. He spent quite a bit of money on you but I assume he got his money worth in sex so it is not like he lost even if he has dodgy incentives that didn't come to fruition.

You did everything right. You sought advice, you probed your client and took a decision with your mind and gut feeling. The way I see it is like any business, you had to invest something important (your time and safety), you evaluated the risk and came to the decision that this was unacceptably high for whatever the reward was. And you have even met your client a couple of times, whereas we had very limited information here.

I am not perfectly sure whether this is worthy of a warning, but it looks like he did lie to you about the other girl and seemed too good to be true with everything else so best safe than sorry imo! It might be good to post something for caution if others agree.

[brownsugar]

No offence babe, but how do you know he is not a drug dealer on the low??

[Croissant]

No offence babe, but how do you know he is not a drug dealer on the low??

Hahahahahahahhahah what? 

Thats random?

If you read the post I decided he could be anything on the low.. Including a murderer. If he was a drug dealer i think i would be getting off lightly.

I mean how do i know any of my other clients aren't a dealer on the low? How do you know that yours aren't?   

Infact i do have one that is a drug dealer (not on the low) although it wouldn't fly with him just incase...