As ever, people get access to the PM system when they've made some useful posts. The forum is free to join and post on, and there are no barriers to stop anyone doing this provided they're a sex worker (or a prospective one).

The alternative is to just have anybody sign up and start contacting members privately without us having a clue who they are or what they want, and whilst we still can't vouch for anybody as such, past experience shows that this is better