Hi Lolita - I have moved your post to the Buddy Section and clarified the title for those reading so you will hopefully have more luck.
There is an article on the main site
here with information on places to advertise, or an near-inexhaustible number of threads on the forum itself if you use the Search box up on the top right.
If you are looking for a lady to work/share with it you really need to give members some idea of where you are? We don't even know you're in the UK unless you tell us
.