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General Category => Buddy Link-up => Topic started by: Anika Mae on 07 February 2011, 02:22:52 pm
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This board has got a bit confusing, because there are two (or three) somewhat different things that a "buddy" can be.
In Penny's Buddy Scheme, a buddy is a sort of mentor for new escorts, providing one-to-one support and advice based on their own knowledge and experience.
Alternatively, s/he can be someone who fills a security role. When going on an outcall (and possibly for incalls too) it's advisable to always make sure someone knows where you are, who you're with, and when you should be back in contact. Some escorts use their partners or friends for this, and some have a reciprocal arrangement with someone else in the industry.
The second kind of buddying is what this board was set up to facilitate, and those of us who were willing to act as a security call posted our details. However, since Penny sometimes gets behind with her Buddy Scheme work, people have started posting here in the hope of finding mentors and friends, and the initial threads regarding security have been buried. Since security is often an immediate need, I want to resurrect that function.
So, please post in this thread if you're willing to be a security buddy for someone. Say when you're available, and whether you're looking for a reciprocal arrangement and/or willing to do one-off calls for people who don't have someone else available at the time. If you want someone to help you with security you may want to say how often and what sort of times you work, or you might prefer to save that for private communication once you've got in touch with someone.
When you arrange a security call, make sure you've established a clear procedure. You should know how you're going to attempt to get in touch with your buddy if s/he doesn't call on time, how much leeway to allow, and what action to take if you can't make contact. It's also a good idea to have code words for ok/not ok.
You can edit your post if your circumstances change. If you want to remove it alltogether, please PM a moderator or use the "report post" button. If you think that someone who's posted is no longer available, please also let us know so we can follow up and remove their post if it's no longer relevant.
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I'm willing to help on a one-off basis. I usually get up between 8am and 11am, and go to bed between midnight and 2am. I turn my phone off when I go to bed, so you can try me whenever. Signal is a bit dodgy in Brighton so if you go straight to voicemail it's worth trying again a few minutes later. I also often reach my phone just as it stops ringing, so if you call again straight away I might be ready to pick up, but when I miss calls this way I send a text to say so.
If you can't get in touch with anyone for security but decide to go out anyway, you can leave the information with me by voicemail, text, PM or email. I suggest using two methods to be sure I get it. If you do this, please send a follow-up message when you're safely finished.
I'm based in Brighton and my number is 07910 725427.
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Hi i'm chealsea and new to this site and just realised how brilliant it is
I work in the merseyside area mostly between Liverpool and Southport. I have been an escort for 2 years and independent for about 1 year i alsways have my phone on even when i'm not working i wouldnt mind just having someone to check in with when attending outcalls and vice versa. If any 1 is interested my number is 07425193604 xxx :)
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Tera, it's probably not a good idea to post about your exact whereabouts on public forum - even if you're not bothered about discretion, your client is unlikely to share your view (and naming specific hotels here doesn't help any of us). Please make your arrangements in private.
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Hi all!
I'm happy to help anyone in Newcastle and the NE, permanently or if you're just on tour.
I know the local area well and have a working knowledge of all the city centre hotels.
Feel free to PM me for my number
XxX
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Hi, my names kim. I'm looking for someone to be my security buddy for outcalls.
I'm on tour a lot of the time but when I'm home I occasionally do outcalls in hertfordshire and london. I maybe do 2 outcalls a month and these tend to be on weekends.
I always have at least two hours notice before any booking and I tend not to work past 11pm.
I'm happy to return the favour as well. If anyones interested please pm me.
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im willing to help out in any way since booking have gone down a lol
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Hello,
I am working in the Barnet /Herts/ London areas. Looking for a security buddy please and happy to return the favour also.
anyone interested please pm me for my number to discuss.
Thanks
L
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Hi, I'd make a very reliable buddy. I'm around the Ealing area, I'm able to travel all over London freely, if anyone needs me just send me a PM. I'll just require a little ?7 as a tribute for my help.
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I'm new to escorting, I have my first booking in a hotel just outside Oxford on Thursday. Would it be possibly for me to just let someone know where I will be and when? Not really sure how this works!
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I thought I'd put my name down on here as I am happy to help others whenever I can. I work mainly during school hours but usually around most evenings as well when the kids are in bed, after 8.30. Based in Derbyshire so know the surrounding areas as well as having knowledge of Reading and quite a bit of Yorkshire.
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hi am a new escort and i would love buddy for security and mentoring.
pls pm me thanks
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lCovering Croydon and South London mainly. Looking for security buddy and possible touring partner PM me
xx
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Hi lady's I am a male escort in London and the south,I am free in London lots would be happy to give security buddy help if free
J
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New here and in need of security buddy plus someone that can give me advice and tips...not yet started 'Work' also would be happy to be anyone's security buddy...I'm in sw London
:)
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Hi mitzi,
I am in a same situation like you.. New to profession and looking for buddy to share ideas and helping eachother.. Pls get back if interested.
Thanks
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Hoping to start work in the next week or two in Lincolnshire and plan on doing outcalls. If anyone is willing as security buddy, I'd ring at the start of the appointment and then ring after to say when I'm done that would be great. I'll be working mainly days, at this stage. Would return the favour if anyone needed it. Thanks.
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Looking for someone to buddy with who we can both call before and after clients to know each other is safe. I live in central London. If anyone is up for buddying message me. I check the site regularly x
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Hello ladies,
I am new to escort and only do out calls. I work on Tuesday and thursday and some weekends. I will leave my phone on on the working day between 10am and 10pm.
I am based in Cambridge. So I know Cambridge and st Neots well. So if you need security buddy, I am willing to help.
PM me for my number.
Amy
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Hi I'm new to escorting, based in East Sussex and looking for a security buddy/mentor, just to be able to call before and after appointments to make sure I'm safe, and to do the same in return,
Please pm me if you can help.
thanks xx
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Hi Ladies,
I'm looking for a buddy for security in the Buckinghamshire, Oxford and Milton Keynes area. I only do outcalls between 11am and 10pm
and just need someone to give the booking details to. Preferably someone with knowledge of the area. I'm also available to offer the
same security to someone else. Please pm or email me so we can discuss it. Cheers, Kate. kat6294@gmail.com ;)
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Hi
I am new to escorting and just starting out I am based in Ayrshire and work days mostly but planning where poss to take evening bookings (no set times/days) I am looking for someone to be a security buddy, I will of course return the favour
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Hi everyone,
I'm a newbie looking for a security buddy. I'm based in Manchester and work some evenings and on weekends. If you're interested I'd be very grateful and would do the same favour in return! Please PM me if interested!
Maddie x
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Hi everyone,
I am new in Belfast, so:
1. I am up and running Mon-Friday from 8 am to midnight; if anyone needs security buddy or buddy after hours - here I am, send me a private msg, we will arrange stuff.
2. Looking for work-buddy myself
- security back up - whereabouts and if all is OK, I don't want my family to know what is going on, have been a lot out anyway, so it will be natural, however you know yourselves....
- taxi services? I am not sure yet how I will work it out, but would love to have driver for outcalls; at least for drop off. I believe it can be worked out, however not sure yet how. I feel in need especially now, since crashed my car, have first cx tomorrow and over the whole weekend, hate telling them I am vulnerable; usually I am not drinking and feel safer if can get to my machine and do a runner lol
3. I am new.... any wise advise? pretty please...
Anyway, anybody interested - get in touch. Even if it is about only 1 topic I am about:)
Alex
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Hi everyone I am a new indie In Aberdeen and need a security buddy for fridays nights and saturday all day have a booking this weekend so quite urgent that I find someone. Would be more than happy to reciprocate within the same hours as I'm available
Thanks
Anna
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Hi I'm looking for a security buddy in birmingham for only outcalls. Please pm me if interested.
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I am in London. Looking for a security buddy.
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Am new in London, also looking for a buddy for security...PM me if you can help? Thanks so much
arianna b
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Hi, I could really use a security buddy, if anyone would mind, I'm not in a position of being able to tell anyone in my day to day life. More than happy to do the same for someone else. Please pm me, thankyou x
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Hi, I'm looking for a security buddy in Nottingham. Happy to have a reciprocal arrangement. I usually work Mon-Fri midday-8pm, but sometimes later and weekends, but usually with regulars who I won't need a safe call for. I'm happy to provide security calls to someone any time between 8am and midnight Mon-Fri and may be able to help at the weekend sometimes.
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Hi I can only do outcall at the moment. Last week I had a difficult situation and for the first time realised how vulnerable I was not letting anyone ever know my arrangements. I'm in Cornwall so a bit out of the way here. Can anyone log where I am and me to follow up with call or text when I've left the place? Very willing to do the same for someone else. I work evenings and alternate weekends, never after 11pm.
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Ladies,
I am free anytime after 4 pm normally, however now for next 10 days round the clock. No kids/other stuff, which could be distracting, so PM me for numbers swap and I am happy to do security buddy for 1-2 girls and of course would be asking the same in return. Doing out-calls only myself.
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I am based in glasgow and I normally work between 11-7pm Mondays to Saturdays ~ I am quite happy to be a security buddy reciprocally :) just PM me x
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Looking for a security buddy in Kent and London area... Variable working hours, happy to provide mutual security. Thanks :)
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Hi ladies, I'm new to this site but have been working independently for 18 months now. I was hoping I can find someone to help me with security. I had a quite nerving experience earlier on today and it dawned on me that if I was ever in trouble again I have no one to help. The couple of friends that know I do this job have children so can't help. This is the first time this has happened to me but lucky I put on a front and acted tough.
I'm based in leicestershire if that helps at all.
Thanks xxx
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new to this as well here. based in edinburgh and would be happy to help out on a reciprocal basis, and also any advice etc would also be appreciated.
thanks
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Hi.
I'm looking for security buddy and happy to offer the same. Have been using my housemate as my security busy but it's getting complicated with her counting how much I make:(((
I'm based in London.
I'm up before 9am and mostly go to bed by 12:00. Very reliable. Please pm if interested.
Charlotte
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Hello ladies ;)
I'm looking for a buddy for about two - three weeks, as mine "bodyguard" is on holiday now. I offer to return a favour of course. Anyone interested? :)
I might have booking in two hours, so maybe from tonight?...
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Hi I am new to escorting, can only do outcalls and mainly daytimes due to childcare (husband works shifts, when he is available he will be my security buddy), but hoping to work from a hotel dayroom in Central Manchester soon. I am based North Manchester near Rochdale.
I am willing to be a security buddy in return, I am up most days before 8am and up til about 11pm, sometimes later.
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Please check them out first -Ive been messaged by Michelle Yates, shes actually a journalist from Hertfordshire. Not too difficult to check her out.
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Hi ladies
this is a fantastic site...recently new indie. My phone is on mon-thurs 9-430 pm if you need anyone to take security calls. Also fri/sat/mon il be working so may have clients of my own but if you fancy buddying up in birmingham city centre let me knoe xxx
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hello am ready to be a security for anyone who needs it, am base in birmingham and have been an independent sex worker for 1year now on and off.i go to bed by 12am to 1am and wake up by 11am, put my phone on silent when i go to sleep.my contact no is 07405152517.
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I'm also looking for a security buddy in London. I work late though, usually between 12-9 or 10pm. I do mainly incalls but don't have any friends in my private life who know about my job.
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Hi there,
Looking for security buddy in central London. Mine is unwell so do not want to bother her.
It is a bit urgent.
I mainly work part time- afternoon/ evenings, finish around 7pm.
Happy to be yours. I am very reliable.
Please pm if interested.
SB
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Hi there,
looking to buddy with someone for mainly weds-sats, will be saying in west london/central london x x
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Hi I work in the Stevenage area in Hertfordshire and would like a security buddy to call on outcalls and the occasional incall. I only go local and obviously feel a little bit more cautious as I am a female ts.
If anyone would help please pm me. I will happily return the favour.
Sam x
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Hi I'm new to this website however what I have seen of it is very handy picking up advise here and there. I've been escorting for 2 years just at the point when not having anybody to talk to or knowing anybody else who does it so I joined here to see if there were others who felt the same. It's nice to hear others stories and talking about each other's days where as at the minute I have nobody who knows what I do so feeling like an outcast pretty much like security but also having somebody to talk to as this sometimes is like a lonely world I suppose talking on here to others can help just don't want to annoy others haha x
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I've just joined Saafe & very pleased I did. I am starting work tomorrow from a hotel, I will be there for 3 nights. I'd really appreciate a buddy, someone I can check in with before & after clients, just sending a text after each one has left. I should know my timetable tomorrow by 4pm.
And if someone would be able to do that for me I would happily do the same. I'm quite a nocturnal person so happy to be there as a buddy til early hours of the morning.
Please message me if you are looking for a buddy and could also be a buddy for me this week Monday 8th to Thursday 11th June & we can swap mobile numbers in private message.
Thank you for your support <3
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hi im looking for someone in cambridge/ ely /chatteris area for a buddy either at my house (can both work from there ) or a hotel
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Hi guys was just wondering if there is any security buddies in york?
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I am in Swindon Wiltshire and need a security buddy I work evenings and weekends please pm me if you can help x
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Need a security buddy in London. I do outcalls only, please PM.
Happy to reciprocate!
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I need a security buddy - I am in London / Kent, and do outcalls only. Can reciprocate.
Also if you need one-off security help, I can help, feel free to PM me.
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I'm very much in need of a security buddy - just someone I can let know about where I'm going at what time when doing outcalls, and send a quick text afterwards saying everything is okay.
I only escort part-time and don't do more than 2-3 outcalls a week. Of course, I'm happy to reciprocate, and I don't mind if you do more bookings.
I'm based in London but don't mind if you're not, although it would be nice to meet up at some point. Please PM me!
B x
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Hey lovelies,
I'm in need of a lovely and reliable buddy for security. I'm situated in Central London and I don't work much with new clients so no endless texts/calls from me.
I'm more than happy to reciprocate and always be vigilant!:)
Please do get in touch if you are also looking to buddy up!
xx
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Hi guys,
Im a newbie as well and im based in London, I dont mind helping... If someone need a security buddy just to check on them after bookings Im happy to do that! PM me for more details.
Xxx
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anyone in the north west area need a buddyxx
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Hi all
I'm based in west midlands looking for someone as a buddy / friend / security / work mate
if anyone is interested please get in touch would be great to hear from you
Thank You !
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First post here :)
I'm an escort newbie and currently in an alright arrangement.
I would love to have friends who do this work. It's difficult to talk to people about this obviously. It would be great in that we could help each other out with security.
Based in east and north London, am often in central
Colette x
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Hi all,
I'm in urgent need of a security buddy as my previous buddy has disappeared. I'm 24 and based in London, but I don't mind your age or where you are - it's really just about helping each other out with security.
Please PM me. Thank you xxx
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I've cut and paste this from another page as it seems to fit better here. Thanks
I'm on my first tour and in Liverpool from 28th Feb until 4th march. I was wondering if there was anyone that would be a security buddy. Someone I can let know when I have appointments and if needed someone that could call me if needed etc.
You don't have to be based in Liverpool but just for my peace of mind that someone is looking out for me if that makes sense
Thanks in advance xx
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Hi everyone :) only found this forum last night, it'd be great to have some Buddy chats to ease the pressure of (double life) sometimes it feels like my head is going to explode :P
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I need a buddy. No one knows I'm doing this. I start tomorrow as a massage girl and I'm so nervous :o
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Hi,
I would like to assist anyone looking for a buddy to check in with and will make sure your safe when you go on out calls. I'm based in London. and I'm available Mon-Fri and Sun 5pm - 2am. Please PM me for number and further info. :)
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I volunteer as a security buddy for ladies in Central London, PM me!
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I am looking for a buddy and also happy to be a buddy to other girls. PM for details. London based.
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I need a buddy, going to start work as an escort. I live in Lewisham.
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Hi, Im based in Brighton and am new to escorting. It would be great to find a buddy for security and possible mentoring.
Please pm
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I am looking for a security buddy as well, new to escorting, kindly pm me and i could be a buddy in return. thanks
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based in northwest looking 4 buddy in nw or ham area and mentor
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Hi,
I'm also in need of a SECURITY buddy urgently...I've been let down once to often, It would be nice to have someone who understands the importance of a buddy and is reliable, we would buddy for each other. I would love to have more friends in the business to chat share and go out and have fun with. Please PM me if your still intrested I'm in central London too. :D
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Hello,
I'm going to start escorting work in September doing out call to hotel and looking for a security buddy to check in and out with. I'm planning to see no more than 3 clients a day and I cover anywhere along the M5 from north Bristol to Exeter. I'm 37, live alone and don't have other job so I can do the same for you. Also I can't tell anyone about this work so would be nice to meet up with someone for a chat or maybe a meal out?
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Hi guys!
I'm in London and do occasional out calls a few times a week. Is it possible for someone to help me out and be a security buddy? obviously I shall return the favour!
Thanks heaps,
Amber xxx
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Hiya,
I do outcall only and not a lot of bookings but, when I do, it would be good to have somewhere/someone I could drop the details to, check in when arrived and paid and again when done and left (and naturally would be willing to reciprocate).
My obvious thought has been whether it would be worth having a Kik / WhatsApp type chat group as, if there were a few folks involved then no-one would have to be reliant on any one other person (since nobody can guarantee to always be able to check their messages etc and people are available different times of day and night).
I doubt this is an original idea though so I wondered if there's anything like that already that I can join?
Or, if not, if there's anyone would be interested in it?
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Hi.
Looking for a security buddy in Manchester. PM me if interested x
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I'm looking for a security buddy in Edinburgh. Happy to reciprocate.
Pm if interested.
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Hiya,
I do outcall only and not a lot of bookings but, when I do, it would be good to have somewhere/someone I could drop the details to, check in when arrived and paid and again when done and left (and naturally would be willing to reciprocate).
My obvious thought has been whether it would be worth having a Kik / WhatsApp type chat group as, if there were a few folks involved then no-one would have to be reliant on any one other person (since nobody can guarantee to always be able to check their messages etc and people are available different times of day and night).
I doubt this is an original idea though so I wondered if there's anything like that already that I can join?
Or, if not, if there's anyone would be interested in it?
Hi, I'm new to this and I'd love to be part of this if it happened.
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Hi,
I'm looking for a security buddy. Just someone to text before and after a meetingl
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Pm me your AW link or website and I'll send you my number x
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Hi,
I'm looking for a security buddy! Willing to offer the same in return. I can be available at anytime (unless working myself of course!) on the end of the phone to check in with on arrival and once time is up and send help if God forbid it's needed!
PM if interested!
Leanne xxx
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I am a newbie! Looking for a security buddy for outcalls and in calls.
I am covering the west midlands area - mainly bham.
Please PM me as I am hoping to get go live on AW from tomorrow, and will only be doing outcalls for the first week.
THANKS :D xx
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I'm looking for a security buddy in London. :angel:
Happy to reciprocate.
Starting doing escort from april this year, at the moment I'm working completely alone.
I'm 100% independent incalls and outcalls.
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Hi I'm happy to be and also looking for a security buddy I'm based around London and Heathrow xxx
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Hello I am a touring escort and I am looking for a buddy for security, ideally through whatsapp, just to let someone know where I am etc...
I will of course return the favour :-* Please pm if interested in shared security
Thank you
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Hiya, I'm a newbie based in London, doing outcalls only to start with but plan to do incalls from hotels hopefully soon, too. Looking for a security buddy and of course happy to reciprocate!
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Hi all, I'm returning to this work after a few years out. Doing incalls in Nottingham and looking for a security buddy to check in with. Happy to reciprocate. If you're interested, get in touch and we can see whether times etc work out! :) Thanks
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Hi do you have a buddy I've only been doing this fir a few weeks and would also like a buddy x
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Hi I'm in West London and happy to be a security buddy for anyone asking that I also check in with them too.
I'm also looking for friends in the industry
Pm me if your interested. Thanks xx
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I'm very interesting in joining a WhatsApp group xx
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Would love to find a buddy/mentor. I am also good at screening.
Touring but mostly in London / Europe xx
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Hiya. Able to be a security buddy for London and would also like one to. PM to get in touch x
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Looks like it's been a long time since this was updated, but I'm in Manchester and would appreciate a security buddy (so I can let my civ friend off the hook!) Thanks :)
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I'm pretty new to escorting and am doing outcalls in London. If anyone who posted previously is still working here and can be a security buddy that would be great. I'm more than happy to reciprocate, too. Just send me a PM :)
Thanks x
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Hi girls! I’m also new, based in Fife and looking for a buddy who can help me in the beginning, how to start, where etc
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Hi everyone!
Returning FSSW/Domme looking for a security buddy - also happy to have someone to chat to. Midlands based but work up north and london. PM if interested :)
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Hi everyone! I’ve just found this site and would like to buddy up with someone. I am Leeds based and I can reciprocate of course :) xx
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Based in Brighton I'm genderqueer and non binary, presenting femme about 70% of the time these days, but 100% of my work.
I'm looking for a buddy for security / tour buddy. Please DM me if this is of interest.
Check in buddies also welcome!
Main places I'm keen to tour are London, Southampton, Bristol, Milton Keynes, Birmingham, Liverpool, Leeds, Manchester, Newcastle, Cardiff, Edinburgh and Glasgow.
I make music for fun in my spare time playing guitar and building out projects using GenAI and I've a dry sense of humour. I like the company of people but also value my downtime. Professionally I most value those who can communicate and understand shared values and rules with respect to that work.
I've been escorting for about 6 months now, but feel I have a lot to learn. Happy to work with cisgendered or trans women / genderqueer folk. Please get in touch.
Thanks!
Sally x