if you pay and im not at normal job yes
I hope I don't owe everyone a bunch of money for the last London meetup I arranged.
Katie, sex workers can and should socialise if they want to do so, as it can help build community and therefore also the additional strength that community provides to the people within it. If you don't want to go to a meetup/social event, just don't go. Nobody needs to pay for anyone else to be there!