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HotPotato

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Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« on: 07 August 2016, 10:42:05 pm »
Hello ladies,

I am an independent elite escort in my mid 30s looking for high end independent escorts (?250/350 bracket) with natural appearance to go out with for drinks, meals, opera, spa, walks, sports? anything really. I am slowly decreasing my escorting and find myself to have a lot of time on my hands. It would be great to have new girlfriends to do things with. All of my friends don't know what I do and have day jobs and or kids. This results in them having little time for me who on the other had have all this time? madness! I am flexible time wise as I understand some of you needs to be available most of the time. Ideally I would find a few ladies/girls to meet up with when possible for the both of us for new fun experiences.

If you are interested please PM me with some info about you like age ect. Thanks so much in advance. I can't wait!

C x

Nova

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #1 on: 08 August 2016, 02:41:46 pm »
Why can can you only be friends with someone who charges a specific rate?

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #2 on: 09 August 2016, 01:05:43 am »
Why can can you only be friends with someone who charges a specific rate?

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Kendall

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #3 on: 09 August 2016, 03:27:17 pm »
Doesn't want to fratenise with the commoners  ;D

Nia Hope

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #4 on: 09 August 2016, 06:31:28 pm »
Shame, I was hoping to apply.
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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #5 on: 09 August 2016, 07:38:27 pm »
I think that's enough, folks. This is a Buddy thread and the OP has come here looking for friendship, not to have people poke fun at her. If her 'conditions' put people off then she's the only person who's going to miss out, after all :).

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #6 on: 10 August 2016, 03:39:45 pm »
Hello to everyone and thanks for your honesty.

My intention was not to offend anyone or to play the "superior part" in any way.

I have met some people from the website and at first I never specified anything when seeking to make friends.

However, experience has told me that things get in the way of potential friendship when meeting the wrong people. I wish to go to very nice places and some ladies at lower rates who were not that busy simply could not afford to go and the busy one? well, were too busy to go. Now, I have friends outside the business who have no idea what I do. They are wonderful. Yet they don't have the money or much time like me to enjoy places I like to go to. This is why I am looking for something specific in here. It is not about better or worst or anything negative you may be thinking and I am sorry if some ladies felt offended by my post. Yet I also wish not to be attacked for expressing perhaps in a direct manner what I am looking for.

I wrote my post the way I did because I met a few ladies from safe who turned out not to be compatible with me at all (nice ladies, just not what I was and am looking for) and learned from other ladies who were more specific with requirements when posting themselves (and who turned out to be more compatible with me), that by being specific chances are that more suitable people will contact me.

I agree with Amy that I might as well be missing out on the opportunity to meet some amazing ladies, and it will be indeed my loss and not yours.

However, it is also not nice to be left waiting at a train station for an hour for someone who never showed up after I spent 3 hrs on the phone with her! You may wonder what that has to do with price range ? long story, but it does trust me. She did not even bother to cancel on me. Also, I did not appreciate being for the first time, being treated poorly at my fav restaurant because the lady I agreed to meet there showed up in such a state I can't tell you. I did not have the heart to turn around and walk out before she would see me in case you wonder.

I guess what I am trying to say is please don't be offended as it was never my intention and it is not a nice feeling to experiense for sure. Also please do not have a go at me for simply sharing what I am actually looking for. I would like to continue to feel welcome here and I do not wish for any pointless conflict or negativity. I am sure we all have our fair share of stress in our lives without creating more of it for no reason.

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if you wonder why also ruling out higher charging girls the answer is simple really. I am not a model and therefore the assumption is that they might prefer associating with ladies more like them . See, it goes both ways. btw this is all my assumption of course. Then again Iam human like all of you.

Also, thanks for making me think about my post. I read it again to make sure I did not mistakingly write something to offend anyone .I read it and can't see anything wrong with it and therefore I am ok with it.

Thank you for reading this and take care you all. And for does who do wish to meet just drop me a message. I am open to friendship not drama :)

Enjoy summer!

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #7 on: 10 August 2016, 03:54:31 pm »
Shame, I was hoping to apply.

Hi Nia

Thanks for your comment.

The post is a guidance to give an idea as to the type I am and what I think would be compatible. If fees are somewhat slightly different but you are a well taken care of lady and natural looking and wish to enjoy a few nice things/places then of course you are most welcome.

Ladies, the post was to give a not too general idea about what I am looking for. Aproximate is fine.

Just think of it this way then -

Forget price range and think:

Natural looking

Presentable

Good mannered, and appropriate at all times

no mental health involved. (I had a bad experience with one particular lady sorry)

Financially able to do nice things and go to very nice places

When people look at her, do not assume she is an escort.

Thats it! This ultimately all i am looking for. I hope this clarifies things for everybody.

Take care x

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #8 on: 10 August 2016, 05:24:20 pm »
'No mental health involved' - what does that mean? (I mean, I think I know exactly what it means, I'd just like to hear you try and explain that.)

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #9 on: 10 August 2016, 06:21:41 pm »
I had an unusual experience.

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #10 on: 10 August 2016, 06:27:36 pm »
'No mental health involved' - what does that mean? (I mean, I think I know exactly what it means, I'd just like to hear you try and explain that.)

She doesn't want anyone who is mentally healthy.
Still don't know what price range has got to do with behaviour - some of the most well-behaved people I've met have amongst the poorest and vice versa but never mind.

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #11 on: 10 August 2016, 06:44:16 pm »
'No mental health involved' - what does that mean? (I mean, I think I know exactly what it means, I'd just like to hear you try and explain that.)

Well what you'd like is by the by, because the OP doesn't have to explain herself to anybody and it has no bearing at all on this thread.

If you're genuinely unable to deduce from her post that she'd prefer to be friends with drama free people who aren't going to constantly ring her at 3am in a mad panic because they've got themselves into some self induced crisis (for example) or make a public show of themselves when they go out together and so on (which lots of other people don't mind and that's fine too), then perhaps you'd do well to avoid the thread. That also goes for everybody else who is struggling with it.

In case anybody had forgotten, not everybody here has English as a first language and any more snide, trollish posts will be removed. If you're not interested in buddying up with the OP there is no reason for you to be here when there's plenty of other threads to post on.

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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #12 on: 10 August 2016, 09:21:46 pm »
HotPotato, I do understand where you're coming from. I recently spent a miserable time with a hot mess of a train wreck and it would be impossible for me to explain some of my issues with that person without sounding like an awful snob.

But I think you'd do better to screen for stability and good manners over the phone. And then make your first meeting somewhere a bit more middle-brow, like a Starbucks.


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Re: Looking for high end escort friends in London :)
« Reply #13 on: 10 August 2016, 09:33:16 pm »
Yep, I think Fabs has it. I do see where you're coming from HP, but a). don't think price bands are really related to decorum or appearance, and b). would always suggest just meeting for a quick coffee or drink somewhere first so you can suss each other out.
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