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MissyNatalie

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Just need someone to talk to
« on: 08 September 2011, 11:35:21 am »
I'm 18 and being escorting for a good few months now but it feels like years. Im a student so to be honest I do like having a bit extra cash but it's all getting on top of me now and some days I just cry and cry. My boyfriend is the only one that knows but I dont feel like I can talk to him. :(

EmilyJones

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Re: Just need someone to talk to
« Reply #1 on: 08 September 2011, 01:28:34 pm »
I'm so sorry to hear you're feeling bad at the moment. Have you tried asking at your doctor's or GUM clinic whether they have someone you could chat to? It sounds terribly serious but it's honestly not: if they have a counsellor their job will definitely involve talking to anyone who is having problems related to sex or sex work - you don't have to have "the worst problem EVER!" to talk to them, is what I'm getting at. :) It might be particularly useful to you if you were thinking of getting out of the industry, or if you're just not sure, because they can also pass lots of advice on to you from other related parts of the health service.

There is also the option of contacting a local sex work outreach group - we could maybe recommend one if you let us know your general location?

And of course sometimes all you need is a friend so I hope you do find someone on here to provide support if that's what you would prefer right now. Forgive me if this comes across as patronising - I don't mean it that way! - but I must remind you (and anyone else reading if they're in the same sort of situation) to be very careful about who you talk to online. Don't share any personal information; remember that, online, you can never properly verify someone's identity. We've had many cases of escorts using SAAFE finding that stalky/obsessive/annoying/weird clients were following them around and reading everything they wrote, so they had to change their name and/or stop writing publicly on here altogether. It's a real shame but the most important thing is to protect yourself, especially if you are feeling vulnerable or going through a difficult time.

((Hugs)) Definitely let us know here (you can PM any mod at any time, or post in one of the more private areas like the Bilge bit) if you feel you're struggling - this forum can be a godsend sometimes!
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AngelaManchester

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Re: Just need someone to talk to
« Reply #2 on: 08 September 2011, 02:05:41 pm »
I can't add to Emily's excellent advice, but just wanted to say so sorry you're feeling so low and you're always welcome to pm me or I can give you my number and we can chat on the phone if you prefer.

(((Hugs)))

AngelEyes

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Re: Just need someone to talk to
« Reply #3 on: 08 September 2011, 06:05:55 pm »
hello ,

Sorry to hear that you are having a tough time of it. Please feel free to pm me any time . If you want to exchange numbers by pm to have a proper chat then that's fine by me.  As Emily said there are lots of places that can offer counselling.

Some of them actually have specific projects/ help for sex workers.

Hope that helps and big hugs
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Re: Just need someone to talk to
« Reply #4 on: 08 September 2011, 06:20:26 pm »
Hiya,

Just to add that there is a topic board on here called  sex work projects. If you go the very first post and click here then you will find a directory for services in your area.

Hope that helps
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« Last Edit: 09 September 2011, 12:06:25 am by Lorissa »

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Re: Just need someone to talk to
« Reply #5 on: 09 September 2011, 09:58:35 am »
Hey missy so sorry to hear. Many of us have been in that position at some point so we all understand. Please feel free to pm me if u wish
Big hugs
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MissyNatalie

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Re: Just need someone to talk to
« Reply #6 on: 11 September 2011, 04:16:22 pm »
Thankyou all for your kind replies. I am going back to college tomorrow so maybe that will take the edge off. I will deffo have a look for a group in my area on sex work projects.
Again, thankyou. It is good to know that I have people around me who understand.
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Coty

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Re: Just need someone to talk to
« Reply #7 on: 11 September 2011, 04:18:22 pm »
Good luck back at college, and come and talk here any time.
HUGS
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