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DawnPA

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Your Objectives in Escorting
« on: 13 June 2011, 03:19:08 am »
Alright! I'm new here, name is Dawn, only been in escorting for a few weeks but I'm starting to get the hang of it. Was reading the material here at SAAFE again - always good to brush up on, I say! Anywho, I ran across this section in the "Quick 10 Point Guide to Escorting":

"Think about what you really want from escorting and plan to review your objectives so you don?t end up bitter and twisted by doing and hating such a personal job - think of life beyond escorting."

First time I read that section it was before I was actually working - now that I'm working, I get a sense of what it's saying. BUT as I'm young in both the business and in general (22 years old) I'm just going to be getting out of school soon. And as many of you may be aware, school teaches you nothing about money. Except how to spend it on their classes. Ugh.

SO! The question! What does that segment up there mean to you? Do you have a "life beyond escorting" plan? Care to explain it so I can get an idea of what to aim for?

Thanks all!

~Dawn~

Dionne

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Re: Your Objectives in Escorting
« Reply #1 on: 13 June 2011, 11:38:45 am »
I quit my fulll time job last year august to go and study, after being out of work for 1 month I was feeling the pinch (bad I know! Lol) I uses to bits of stripping/extras etc when I was younger so I figured 'what the hell'. But I I'd put a (quite :-p) bit of weight on so decided to do escorting instead.
I'm only doing it to support my self through studying. I finished my college course last week so I'll be escorting full time and touring like crazy (hopefully) until I start university in January. Then hopefully I will quit doing this work and concentrate 100% on my degree. Xx

ElleCouture

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Re: Your Objectives in Escorting
« Reply #2 on: 13 June 2011, 11:55:47 am »
I started escorting because of all the debt I got into being at university. Only 3months into the job and I've already paid off my overdraft and credit card and now have enough money to move to a lovely flat in London. The ultimate objective for me is to have my own place in London and a career in my chosen field. Escorting right now for me is a great way of supporting myself and achieving the objective of my own place, and helping me live comfortably until the career bit all falls into place.

Nikkita

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Re: Your Objectives in Escorting
« Reply #3 on: 14 June 2011, 06:41:59 pm »
I was  in my 1st year at Uni  studying for my degree whilst working part time, got introduced to escorting and 4 years on still doing it :)

Helped me buy a lovely house which I rent out, once the recession is over hopefully in a couple of years when I have achieved what I want to do I will start my own business.

Lorelei

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Re: Your Objectives in Escorting
« Reply #4 on: 14 June 2011, 10:34:00 pm »
I got into escorting because I wanted to be able to afford a car. Not just the car itself, but the  insurance as a young new driver and then getting my full licence. But after this, I think I 'll just keep escorting with the nice flow of money as an objective in itself...

I don't have long term objectives. Am quite happy to go along with the flow of events in my life and to make new decisions and reconsider old ones when I've had a change of heart.

1Lilly1

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Re: Your Objectives in Escorting
« Reply #5 on: 14 June 2011, 11:50:03 pm »
I started escorting in order to afford the internship I'm doing. I've gone for a complete career change and the only way to get the job of my dreams is through experience and connections. So, whilst I do that for free, I do this job because it gives me a good amount of money and isn't time-intensive.

I do enjoy escorting. Virtually all the clients and girls I've worked with have been wonderful and I don't have to destroy myself slaving at two jobs to survive, which I've done in the past.

I intend to do this job for another year or two. I will also probably continue doing it when I start out in my new career, as the wages most likely won't cut it where my expenses are concerned.

It's interesting reading other people's reasons for escorting and what they're working towards. But, somewhat similar to Alexandra_23, I'll continue going with the flow, rather than having a set date to stop.