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PoshTotty

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Your ideal man V ideal client
« on: 23 February 2013, 02:05:15 pm »
Are they one and the same? Only I'm not sure if it is for me because I feel far more comfortable with men I don't fancy; I can really be myself. I go so self-conscious with a tasty man unless he is seriously down to earth and obviously has the hots for me. So although I lust after handsome Afro-Carribean men, aged between about 30 and 45, with short back and sides hair cuts, goatee beards, who are about 6" tall and athletically built/ripped, I may find (and I say "may find" because I've never had the pleasure of an encounter with my ideal man) that I'm more relaxed with my usual type of client (over 55s, Caucasian, not in great shape, not handsome, pleasant but not charismatic, etc). Maybe it's because when I'm with a man who some would say are "punching above their weight" my self esteem is greater than if I was with someone who I found so attractive I'd wonder what he saw in me? Does anyone feel the same way or is it a dream come true to be booked by your ideal man? I so rarely find my clients sexy I really don't know :-\
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Dani

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Re: Your ideal man V ideal client
« Reply #1 on: 23 February 2013, 07:13:22 pm »
They can be the same and they can be totally different.  Im a bit weird though as I dont fancy men by their looks.  To me the looks really make no difference.  I only start to fancy a man when he can stimulate my brain.  It sounds silly as years ago I used to be a 6' tall with six pack guy type of girl but now they do nothing for me at all.  Brains over body any time

I can fancy overweight not conventionally attractive guys if they can get my brain working.  I have yet to find the six pack type who can do that. 
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Re: Your ideal man V ideal client
« Reply #2 on: 23 February 2013, 08:35:39 pm »
Quote from: Dani on 23 February 2013, 07:13:22 pm
...years ago I used to be a 6' tall with six pack guy type of girl but now they do nothing for me at all.  Brains over body any time...

I used to be like that but the other way around as my ex-BFs are a right motley crew of all shapes and sizes! I'd date men who looked interesting rather than gorgeous, but these days (after years of mainly having sex with men I don't fancy physically at work) I long to fuck men who get my juices flowing just looking at them. I've definitely gone from not at all fussy to pretty shallow in that respect; I want to feel the lust, to feel muscles rather than blubber when I fuck a man. I've never had sex with someone who has a great body and I want to change that!
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Re: Your ideal man V ideal client
« Reply #3 on: 24 February 2013, 03:34:57 am »
Hi,

I am a total sapiosexual in my personal life. I have been with a right old pick-a-mix of men over the years, their physical appearance made no odds to me. My current interest has been in porn, so he not only sports a monstrosity, but is ridiculously good looking. Yeah, it is 'nice' but his appeal is his eyes, his honey and sandpaper voice. Mostly the way he thinks is what gets me going.

With work so far, I only ever bother replying to those who can not only string a sentence together, but those who indicate they do not just want a straight fuck.

Looks fade but inner beauty never dies. So if you are looking for more than a fuck buddy I'd ignore the 'pretty' ones. Bar my current interest, I have found them to be two dimensional, egocentric twats that think their looks get them off of the hook with many things and crap fucks frankly.

H x
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Re: Your ideal man V ideal client
« Reply #4 on: 24 February 2013, 07:22:12 pm »
My ideal man is beautiful, kind, gentle, masculine and adoring.

My ideal client over pay and under delivers.
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Re: Your ideal man V ideal client
« Reply #5 on: 24 February 2013, 08:21:01 pm »
Quote from: PoshTotty on 23 February 2013, 02:05:15 pm
I go so self-conscious with a tasty man

I can definitely relate to this... Last night I had a second booking with a guy that is totally my type: late 30s Northern European, tall, athletic, very intelligent, runs his own internet business. A total alpha male but really down to earth and so funny. The first time we met I was SO nervous, and tried to hide it but failed miserably ha! I had never expected such a catch. Last night was better, but I was definitely still self-conscious. It's funny because in real life he's the type of guy I would probably flirt shamelessly with, but because of the way we met, the dynamic changes completely...
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