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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: nachos on 22 March 2015, 10:52:36 pm
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I know I'm being really weird and abnormal, but I absolutely hate it when a client turns up and he is really hot and young :o
I always end up feeling really awkward and tense and I can't even explain it what else.... It just feels totally wrong in a work environment, also I sometimes feel paranoid if we might know some people in common, or we might bump into each other socially or something.
I personally much prefer older gentlemen, this way I really relax into my role and enjoy providing them with a good service.
Am I the only weird one like that or does anyone else feel the same way?
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I don't like seeing the younger guys either for fear of bumping into someone I know and also, I find the younger ones (particularly if they are good looking) try to push boundaries and I don't like that becuase my boundaries are my boundaries regardless of what someone looks like.
I've said before many times that I don't care whether they are seriously good looking or pig ugly......only thing I am interested in is a good, clean, respectful client......looks are completely irrelevant.
I'm really fussy in my private life looks wise, infact I'm really quite shallow and have to be 100% really attracted to someone and get butterflies in my belly every time I look at them and also be really sexually attracted to them for me to be content in a relationship but when it comes to my work, looks are the last thing on my mind.
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Interesting how we all have fave things.
What age is an 'older' gentleman for you?
It's a rare day I get a client over 30!
My 'old' guys seem to be 40 upwards and less fun.
I usually don't book.
Younger guys seem better behaved and respectful.
It has made me a bit picky.
If he ain't cute and gym-fit I feel a bit let down. :o
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I know I'm being really weird and abnormal, but I absolutely hate it when a client turns up and he is really hot and young :o
I always end up feeling really awkward and tense and I can't even explain it what else.... It just feels totally wrong in a work environment, also I sometimes feel paranoid if we might know some people in common, or we might bump into each other socially or something.
I personally much prefer older gentlemen, this way I really relax into my role and enjoy providing them with a good service.
Am I the only weird one like that or does anyone else feel the same way?
You're not weird chick, it makes me feel the same way. It also makes me question myself with what I'm doing within the appointment, like am I doing it right? Etc, more so that than usual.
Half the time when they're really hot, im like 'why would he pay for me when you're that good looking'. For me it's my confidence and I know it is though, are you the same?
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i have a couple of guys i've seen a couple of times now that are both far younger than i am and both have been great clients. i did worry though if i fancied them would i have a problem though so i know there could be issues
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I know I'm being really weird and abnormal, but I absolutely hate it when a client turns up and he is really hot and young :o
I always end up feeling really awkward and tense and I can't even explain it what else.... It just feels totally wrong in a work environment, also I sometimes feel paranoid if we might know some people in common, or we might bump into each other socially or something.
I personally much prefer older gentlemen, this way I really relax into my role and enjoy providing them with a good service.
Am I the only weird one like that or does anyone else feel the same way?
You're not weird chick, it makes me feel the same way. It also makes me question myself with what I'm doing within the appointment, like am I doing it right? Etc, more so that than usual.
Half the time when they're really hot, im like 'why would he pay for me when you're that good looking'. For me it's my confidence and I know it is though, are you the same?
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Lol totally the same babe!! Its definitely a confidence issue! And then I feel I end up not giving them the best service, because I spend the entire time freaking out in my head :FF :FF :FF
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Interesting how we all have fave things.
What age is an 'older' gentleman for you?
It's a rare day I get a client over 30!
My 'old' guys seem to be 40 upwards and less fun.
I usually don't book.
Younger guys seem better behaved and respectful.
It has made me a bit picky.
If he ain't cute and gym-fit I feel a bit let down. :o
Hahaha babe well done!
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I hate when they're really fit and good looking aswell! Makes me feel nervous and uneasy!
I much prefer the old uglier overweight guys as its just so much easier to do the service and not worry about what I look like and if I'm doing it right!
A fit guy always makes me question my performance and if he fancies me and if I'm doing things good enough etc!
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Some of the young ones I think cor, when I was 20 I'd have given my right tit for a boyfriend like you! so yes I get a bit self conscious at the beginning when they're fit but mostly the young ones that I've seen have been very pleasant and haven't been too grabby or insist I cum so some of the bookings have been quite enjoyable once I get over the self conscious bit.
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I'm the same, and judging by the replies you've got here Chance you seem to be part of the majority, not the minority!
For me, it's partly a confidence thing and partly because most of the cocky clients I've seen have tended to be the younger ones.
I also get quite a few texts and emails from guys enquiring about a booking that include a phrase along the lines of "I'm attractive, like to give pleasure and I'm 20 something so I'm sure you'll enjoy yourself" as though they expect me to be flattered by a young stud wanting to book me. I've even had guys asking for discounts because they're "fit, young, and you'll enjoy yourself babe"...
I do have a couple of young regulars who are polite and respectful and I get on with them great. However the majority are older guys, and I wouldn't swap them for younger clients any day of the week!
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No, assuming they're not a twat, I love them! I've always been a bit of a cougar in my private life, so young clients are usually a treat for me - especially when you find one who's fit AND knows what to do in bed. I gave up questioning why they wanted to be with me a long time before I started escorting.
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I know I'm being really weird and abnormal, but I absolutely hate it when a client turns up and he is really hot and young :o
I always end up feeling really awkward and tense and I can't even explain it what else.... It just feels totally wrong in a work environment, also I sometimes feel paranoid if we might know some people in common, or we might bump into each other socially or something.
I personally much prefer older gentlemen, this way I really relax into my role and enjoy providing them with a good service.
Am I the only weird one like that or does anyone else feel the same way?
I feel the same way.....i feel a bit self consious when they are young and good looking and when i'm working in my home town do worry they might know people i know. Young attractive clients can some times be cocky as well and hard work as they feel the need to try to 'perform' well.
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I'm the same, and judging by the replies you've got here Chance you seem to be part of the majority, not the minority!
For me, it's partly a confidence thing and partly because most of the cocky clients I've seen have tended to be the younger ones.
I also get quite a few texts and emails from guys enquiring about a booking that include a phrase along the lines of "I'm attractive, like to give pleasure and I'm 20 something so I'm sure you'll enjoy yourself" as though they expect me to be flattered by a young stud wanting to book me. I've even had guys asking for discounts because they're "fit, young, and you'll enjoy yourself babe"...
I do have a couple of young regulars who are polite and respectful and I get on with them great. However the majority are older guys, and I wouldn't swap them for younger clients any day of the week!
Hahaha those types, who send this kinds of messages usually dont come up to scratch in my opinion! Even if they are quite attractive when they show up (usually not), Im totally immune to them and their looks or whatever dont bother me at all.
Just goes to prove once again how much of a turn off all this cocky bullshit is lol.
The guys who make me self conscious are those totally on the same wavelength as I am and not only hot, but cool as a person thats when I really think to myself like 'what is he doing here?!!!' :-)
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I'm the same, and judging by the replies you've got here Chance you seem to be part of the majority, not the minority!
For me, it's partly a confidence thing and partly because most of the cocky clients I've seen have tended to be the younger ones.
I also get quite a few texts and emails from guys enquiring about a booking that include a phrase along the lines of "I'm attractive, like to give pleasure and I'm 20 something so I'm sure you'll enjoy yourself" as though they expect me to be flattered by a young stud wanting to book me. I've even had guys asking for discounts because they're "fit, young, and you'll enjoy yourself babe"...
I do have a couple of young regulars who are polite and respectful and I get on with them great. However the majority are older guys, and I wouldn't swap them for younger clients any day of the week!
When I refuse to see a younger guy, I ALWAYS get a stupid response such as......it's your loss!
Don't know how many times I've been told by younger guys to fuck off and enjoy being fucked by old wrinklies lol!
They always get so defensive when being refused a booking even if I tell them it's for discretion purposes.
I think I attract the horrible ones tbh, I seem to get a lot more hassle than most ladies.
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If we're talking early 20s the ones I see are just ridiculous. Hammering away and grabbing and pinching, I hate them
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I used to get nervous with hot younger clients too, but that has disappeared now for some reason. If they are as polite as most of my clientele and are also young and hot, I'm very excited to see them when I open the door. I saw an absolutely beautiful man last week on an outcall and felt like I was on cloud nine after, like an extra amount to when I've seen someone who is really lovely and happy but not my type.
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I know I'm being really weird and abnormal, but I absolutely hate it when a client turns up and he is really hot and young :o
I always end up feeling really awkward and tense and I can't even explain it what else.... It just feels totally wrong in a work environment, also I sometimes feel paranoid if we might know some people in common, or we might bump into each other socially or something.
I personally much prefer older gentlemen, this way I really relax into my role and enjoy providing them with a good service.
Am I the only weird one like that or does anyone else feel the same way?
You're not weird chick, it makes me feel the same way. It also makes me question myself with what I'm doing within the appointment, like am I doing it right? Etc, more so that than usual.
Half the time when they're really hot, im like 'why would he pay for me when you're that good looking'. For me it's my confidence and I know it is though, are you the same?
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I'm exactly like this... I much prefer the older gents because then I'm the sexy young pretty one in the room ;D which makes me feel attractive and horny and so then I have fun!
With the really hot young ones I sometimes feel a bit insecure and worry inside that they might be disappointed xx
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So would it be fair to say that the majority of escorts appear to be insecure? Lol!
As I said, I don't care what they look like good or bad.....it makes no difference to me, it's their hygiene and attitude towards me that I'm bothered about.
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So would it be fair to say that the majority of escorts appear to be insecure? Lol!
As I said, I don't care what they look like good or bad.....it makes no difference to me, it's their hygiene and attitude towards me that I'm bothered about.
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Haha I reckon that's probably correct!
The ones that get me nervous as hell are usually mid thirties, I'm mid twenties myself but guys in their twenties are just not attractive at all to me, like weedy little Justin biebers mostly (of course there's exceptions but this seems to be demographic in my area at least)
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So would it be fair to say that the majority of escorts appear to be insecure? Lol!
As I said, I don't care what they look like good or bad.....it makes no difference to me, it's their hygiene and attitude towards me that I'm bothered about.
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You'd think so reading this thread.
As long as the hygiene is up to scratch and they cum quickly I don't take much notice what they look like. Sometimes I enjoy the moment, but that is all and don't dwell on it.
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I usually get flustered too when I open the door and it's a guy my age or (god forbid) younger! Especially if they're attractive, my "role" is totally thrown off and it takes me a few minutes to warm up. I'm kind of shy in real life and the real me starts to come through. I can shake it off pretty quickly, but I do wonder if they think I'm attractive enough to be paying or are judging my looks for whatever reason. Even if they're not someone I'd find attractive, if they're young (20's) it's just a different game for me and I have to think about it so much more. I have a specific/target client (95% of my clients are mid 40's to mid 50's) and everything I do from the way I dress to the makeup I wear to the stories I entertain them with and the music I play is geared to please that client. With the young ones I feel more exposed and like I have to work harder and it's also a little too close for comfort.
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In a sharp suit...choke...
The younger guys are great. I'm in my late 30's and they go ga-ga for the combo of polished hair/clothes/apartment plus squishy thighs. Lol! They're all "I love older women." and want to show off their knowledge of wine or jazz, you know, old lady things. :)
It's kind of fun to be fetishized since it isn't a regular thing for me.
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I think there's been a similar thread about this before, and it turned out a lot of us prefer older clients to younger
ones, and a lot of girls even say on their profile they won't see anyone under 25 0r 30 or whatever..
Personally I prefer older client as well, as they tend to be more respectful, easier to get along with/have a conversation
with (I've had young ones that didn't say more than 2 words, made me feel like a piece of meat rather than a human
being providing a service, and they also tend to be a lot rougher and more selfish).
Having said all that, I definitely don't ant to tar them all with the same brush..!!!
I've had, and still have, some lovely young guys, respectful, hot, just totally nice and decent, and at the other side of the
coin I've also had some older guys who were the complete opposite..!!
But in general, I prefer older clients, as they do tend to be the most pleasant bookings.
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I think there's been a similar thread about this before, and it turned out a lot of us prefer older clients to younger
ones, and a lot of girls even say on their profile they won't see anyone under 25 0r 30 or whatever..
Personally I prefer older client as well, as they tend to be more respectful, easier to get along with/have a conversation
with (I've had young ones that didn't say more than 2 words, made me feel like a piece of meat rather than a human
being providing a service, and they also tend to be a lot rougher and more selfish).
Having said all that, I definitely don't ant to tar them all with the same brush..!!!
I've had, and still have, some lovely young guys, respectful, hot, just totally nice and decent, and at the other side of the
coin I've also had some older guys who were the complete opposite..!!
But in general, I prefer older clients, as they do tend to be the most pleasant bookings.
I have a very detailed profile and one thing that I don't have on my profile is age restriction purely for the simple fact (as you just said) I don't like to tar all with the same brush as I DO have some really lovely young clients as young as 20 but they are a rare thing. I just judge each and every potential client based on how they sound/come across on the phone.
If I hear a really young voice on the other end of the phone who's well spoken and decent sounding then I will see him but if I hear a young voice on the phone who sounds a bit cheeky or whatever then I will try and avoid it like the plague x
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I've just had a wonderfully lovely 70ish year old but the one before who I've seen before was trying to make me do anal throughout. That rarely happens and he's late 50s. IME the most disrespectful ones have been 50s and early 60s, more 50s though, plus them trying to go over time, request bb etc.
One of my young regs who's really young and fit, I've now got over the nerves and can enjoy my time with him now, at last.
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I find the best looking men the ones in their 40's and if he is a good kisser "phwoaaaaaaar" but personally I do not see men under 30 as it does not turn me on and I hate ending up with a concussion after an appointment.
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For me there's definitely a sweet spot age-wise, at 35-45; sadly, this seems to be the age group that punts the least!
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I find the best looking men the ones in their 40's and if he is a good kisser "phwoaaaaaaar" but personally I do not see men under 30 as it does not turn me on and I hate ending up with a concussion after an appointment.
concussion? :o How?
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I find the best looking men the ones in their 40's and if he is a good kisser "phwoaaaaaaar" but personally I do not see men under 30 as it does not turn me on and I hate ending up with a concussion after an appointment.
concussion? :o How?
Head board banging from over enthusiastic young guys "bunny fucking"?
Why do young ones often want to pound away till your heads in the wall and the beds knackered? Aside from the fact younger clients seem to have the opinion they are gods gift to women and entitlement issues, the rampant pounding is the main reason I dint (often) see under thirties. Saying that they do turn up sometimes and some have been rather sweet and ill see again despite my no under 26s rule.
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Please send all young fit ones to me in Kent - pretty please!
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The young anf fit ones do nothing for me, I can definitely admire their body and beauty, but never feel awkward or nervous. However, when they in the 38-45 age group and gorgeous, then I getvery very shy and nervous :-[ but they seem to love a shy girl and it always always always turns into a steaming hot time, and I'm like HELL YEAH I LOVE THIS JOB ;D
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I find the best looking men the ones in their 40's and if he is a good kisser "phwoaaaaaaar" but personally I do not see men under 30 as it does not turn me on and I hate ending up with a concussion after an appointment.
concussion? :o How?
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Head board banging from over enthusiastic young guys "bunny fucking"?
Why do young ones often want to pound away till your heads in the wall and the beds knackered? Aside from the fact younger clients seem to have the opinion they are gods gift to women and entitlement issues, the rampant pounding is the main reason I dint (often) see under thirties. Saying that they do turn up sometimes and some have been rather sweet and ill see again despite my no under 26s rule.
They watch too much shit porn :D (again; NOT all of them..!!)
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thehappyhooker: bunny fucking...lol ;D
Too crazy-ass furious is annoying I agree.
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Young old fat or thin,as long as clean all get treated the same...
Work is work end of,I never look at a client and think 'boyfriend material'
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as an older woman i find young clients the easiest by far. Maybe its just because Im older but they are so much easier than some of the old pervs