It's funny because I've noticed a lot of times, the one's who claim this is so easy for us, tend to be erotic novelist wannabes, who sit on forums all day and scrutinize us on our appearance, face, body, personality, technique, how "deep" your DFK is *boak*, your dick/ball sucking ability, whether you boosted their ego to an acceptable level, where you were standing when you opened the door, the bloody decor of your house, the fluffiness of your towels... And then you've got the clients who, despite paying you for the service, are in some delusion that you really fancy them and want something serious because you had a "connection" apparently. I mostly find it to be the older and/or less attractive ones who do this as well. It's like they've never experienced "intimacy" or kindness from a female before and seem to forget that they just handed you a wad of cash in order for services! Then they send constant texts of "darling I really do care about you, you know!" "I miss you and think about you a lot" eeuurghh! That's usually the point where I tell them to find someone else, no matter if they were a "regular" or not.
I get that we are fulfilling a fantasy for men but I never realised how many of them would take it quite literally and end up expecting so much more from us.
So yeah, not an easy job. Can be draining as fuck. People who think otherwise need to try it for themselves and then come back with their opinions.
There's way more but I'd be here all day