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northernstar

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #15 on: 09 September 2020, 02:46:11 pm »
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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #16 on: 09 September 2020, 06:09:01 pm »
Does anyone else get the overzealous types who act as though they’ve never bust a nut or seen another person naked in their entirety? I mean those guys that have a crazed state in their eye and sweating puddles the minute you take your bra off and literally pulling, grabbing and latching on to you in the most clingy way possible straight away. Such a fucking turn off. Biggest turn off. Clingy and overzealous just makes my skin crawl.

Yes and when they throw their head at your crotch beard and all and slam their face on your pussy. Ouch. I’m finding the more I tell them I need reverse oral to be gentle the less they seem to understand it. I mean the clitoris is so sensitive it does not need to be ripped sucked prodded and head butted lol

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #17 on: 09 September 2020, 07:34:40 pm »
CLAIM 1: "Tell that to HMRC!"
CLAIM 2: "And?"

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #18 on: 12 September 2020, 06:01:27 pm »
"Could you put a stranger's dick in your mouth?" I said to this client.  He was obsessed with the money aspect.

He said "No I would rather clean toilets".

"Yeah not everybody can do it" I said...

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #19 on: 12 September 2020, 10:23:10 pm »
I actually haven't  had anyone say to my face that it's not that hard. But if they did, I'd say to them why don't you do it then? I mean who doesn't want such easy money! Maybe you could even get your daughter and mum to do it as well, you know, as it's not hard!

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #20 on: 14 September 2020, 03:16:17 pm »
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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #21 on: 15 September 2020, 02:57:02 pm »
Just had a two hr booking cum 3 times fuck all the holes if he had his way would have wanted to fuck ears and nose with all positions thrown in used the whole two hr booking upto the last second so whoever thinks this job is easy then i really don't get it my whole body is bruised☹️☹️so there you go.

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #22 on: 15 September 2020, 03:58:13 pm »
Anyone who says sex work is easy should have to spend two days taking calls from Timewasters exclusively and see if their sanity is still intact afterwards and more importantly if they think this job is “easy”.

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #23 on: 15 September 2020, 04:26:56 pm »
It's funny because I've noticed a lot of times, the one's who claim this is so easy for us, tend to be erotic novelist wannabes, who sit on forums all day and scrutinize us on our appearance, face, body, personality, technique, how "deep" your DFK is *boak*, your dick/ball sucking ability, whether you boosted their ego to an acceptable level, where you were standing when you opened the door, the bloody decor of your house, the fluffiness of your towels... And then you've got the clients who, despite paying you for the service, are in some delusion that you really fancy them and want something serious because you had a "connection" apparently. I mostly find it to be the older and/or less attractive ones who do this as well. It's like they've never experienced "intimacy" or kindness from a female before and seem to forget that they just handed you a wad of cash in order for services! Then they send constant texts of "darling I really do care about you, you know!" "I miss you and think about you a lot" eeuurghh! That's usually the point where I tell them to find someone else, no matter if they were a "regular" or not.
I get that we are fulfilling a fantasy for men but I never realised how many of them would take it quite literally and end up expecting so much more from us.
So yeah, not an easy job. Can be draining as fuck. People who think otherwise need to try it for themselves and then come back with their opinions.
There's way more but I'd be here all day

Stress can cause major health issues in us sex workers, it’s even more stressful working for a boss and not yourself, add bitchy jealous girls on top of all that that you mentioned and bosses then the women are like pressure cookers! I could really see how easy it would be for one of the women to snap and do untold damage to a punter through provocation with their delusions, is it really all worth it in the end...

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #24 on: 15 September 2020, 04:57:03 pm »
Just had a two hr booking cum 3 times fuck all the holes if he had his way would have wanted to fuck ears and nose with all positions thrown in used the whole two hr booking upto the last second so whoever thinks this job is easy then i really don't get it my whole body is bruised☹️☹️so there you go.

This is why I won’t see anyone that I don’t know for more than an hour, that’s when my smile starts slipping. That must have been awful, you deserve a medal!

When a client says this job isn’t hard work I just smile and say I know cause non of you can hold yourself for more than 5 mins! That usually leads onto a mutual laugh about men being pretty useless. The only thing a client could say that would stress me right out is.. ‘you stink!’ Other than that I couldn’t care less.

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #25 on: 15 September 2020, 10:07:49 pm »
Clients that think this job is easy and we earn too much per hour have no bloody idea. Let them walk a week in our life, experience what we experience they would quit instantly.

There clueless and ignorant and mostly have this opinion because they have zero respect for us and the job we do.

But i will point out there is some clients that think we do a hard job and deserve a medal and they could never do this job.

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #26 on: 18 September 2020, 03:22:28 pm »
I had this conversation with a male friend not so long ago, I just asked him to try kneeling on his bed and bouncing up and down for 10mins with a smile on his face the entire time... xx

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #27 on: 14 February 2022, 09:03:19 pm »
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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #28 on: 14 February 2022, 09:30:38 pm »
There isn't much skill or talent working in macdonalds but it's still work. Work is anything that makes money I think .

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Re: You response to claim that sex work isn’t work and it’s not hard?
« Reply #29 on: 14 February 2022, 09:39:44 pm »
Tbh, I don't really care if people view sex work  as not being work. What does concerns me is once sex work is considered to be actual 'work', then the DWP can push sex work as a viable option and sanction those who refuse to pursue this path - I think sex work should only be undertaken by those who choose to do it, not those who have been pushed into it.