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Fabulassie

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #15 on: 20 August 2015, 05:23:05 pm »
I saw a review for a girl recently where it was commented was the only negative was that she didn't give any time for free... how is that to give a good service something for free is expected of us now?

That's why it's a good idea to not read reviews. (I admire those who actually do ignore them.) Those sorts of guys are just loopy fantasist idiots.

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #16 on: 20 August 2015, 05:44:22 pm »
It's a control mechanism by disempowered people.
It barely matters the subject is.
If it's not that...it would be something else.
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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #17 on: 20 August 2015, 05:46:52 pm »
I saw a review for a girl recently where it was commented was the only negative was that she didn't give any time for free... how is that to give a good service something for free is expected of us now?
I saw that too, I couldn't believe someone could be that out of order to give a negative for not getting free time.
Luckily not all clients are like that and I would guess the genuine ones would see past the stupidity!

I do outcalls only so it can be harder to clock watch! But I have had a few piss takers who book me say for 10pm for two hours and then when 12am comes, they will be like "you can stay over if you like" and I bet if I went "Yeah that's an extra ?500 for an overnight" they wouldn't be so keen!

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #18 on: 20 August 2015, 06:22:23 pm »
I'm obviously a bitch, as I don't have this problem.

I give them a 10 minute 'warning' if they haven't cum and if they don't cum, I tell them time is up (although granted, this hasn't happened often).

I just won't tolerate it. If I go to my local spa for a massage the appointment ends when time is up. It's the same thing.


 

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #19 on: 20 August 2015, 08:13:16 pm »
I think a lot of agencies and massage parlours advertise an 'unrushed' service and maybe are somewhat to blame for clients pushing the limits were time is concerned?

I recently worked for a short time in a parlour and the 'unrushed service' was always quoted and impressed upon a potential client. Also there wasn't a clock in the room although I got rather good at knowing when the half hour was up.

If I did go over, sometimes by 10 or 15 mins if the client was taking his time, the receptionist(usually the owner, a previous wg) wouldn't knock on the door unless another client was waiting!

Funny how quickly she changed her tune when she wasn't the one lying  on her back for free :FF

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #20 on: 20 August 2015, 08:49:53 pm »
Ah 'unrushed', that was repeated back to me when someone who took a lot of messaging to set up bookings, short changed me with the fee, overstayed said when I told him he was pushing it a bit.

He said "But you offer an unrushed service which means no clocks".

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #21 on: 20 August 2015, 08:52:37 pm »
 ??? wtf
Some people shouldn't be let out.

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #22 on: 20 August 2015, 11:43:07 pm »
I say something about never trying to rush them out or short change them in my profile, but I say them together so that it makes it clear that they are only getting the time they pay for lol I just won't kick them out early.

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #23 on: 21 August 2015, 02:44:59 am »
I have no mercy and I've been flamed for it by clients before but I could care less. I leave bang on time and if they haven't finished that is their problem. I often get the ones who pop once and then think they can go again so they end up still wanking their flaccid cocks as I'm getting dressed. I will walk out on them mid-wank if their time is up as well.

They get the time they paid for why should we feel guilty for not giving them extra FREE time? As has been said if I go to a proper massage place and pay for an hour I don't rudely say to the masseuse I want free extra time because I've paid a lot of money! Some clients just want to take advantage and they get butthurt when I don't play their little games.
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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #24 on: 21 August 2015, 02:40:32 pm »
Ah 'unrushed', that was repeated back to me when someone who took a lot of messaging to set up bookings, short changed me with the fee, overstayed said when I told him he was pushing it a bit.

He said "But you offer an unrushed service which means no clocks".

To me, unrushed should mean you won't be ushered out of the door early, not extra free time!

Midsstudent

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #25 on: 21 August 2015, 02:56:38 pm »
Ah 'unrushed', that was repeated back to me when someone who took a lot of messaging to set up bookings, short changed me with the fee, overstayed said when I told him he was pushing it a bit.

He said "But you offer an unrushed service which means no clocks".

To me, unrushed should mean you won't be ushered out of the door early, not extra free time!

That's what I think too, that's why I worded it very carefully when writing my profile. As I knew just writing 'unrushed' would be read as 'free time'.

Lucie268

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #26 on: 21 August 2015, 03:44:47 pm »
Ah 'unrushed', that was repeated back to me when someone who took a lot of messaging to set up bookings, short changed me with the fee, overstayed said when I told him he was pushing it a bit.

He said "But you offer an unrushed service which means no clocks".

To me, unrushed should mean you won't be ushered out of the door early, not extra free time!

Obviously they just read what they want to read!

That's what I think too, that's why I worded it very carefully when writing my profile. As I knew just writing 'unrushed' would be read as 'free time'.

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #27 on: 21 August 2015, 05:54:34 pm »
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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #28 on: 21 August 2015, 09:15:02 pm »
I don't know about other girls here, but how the client looks doesn't affect when the booking finishes. Some run over by a few minutes if I don't notice of have difficulty getting them out of the door but other than that I keep professional lines in place for everyone, I wouldn't give free time to the fit ones.

Some clients I'd love to see again outside of work, but I can only do this job by keeping the boundaries there across the board and detaching personally.

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