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MsDee

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You pay for my time...
« on: 20 August 2015, 08:34:34 am »
As we all know clients pay for our time and what happens during that time is between two consenting adults.

I am definately not a clock watcher and as most of my clients will attest they usually stay at least 15 minutes over their booked appointment time.  But  when you have the obnoxious, rude and downright "i paid for it, i can do what i want" types, that when his 30min or hour is up it is up buddy, get dressed and hasta la vista.

I am not sure if this is everybody's experience but more and more these days I tend to find that clients will book you for 30 minutes and then try and squeeze it for an hour or stay much longer than what they paid for.  People might call me cold hearted or too business orientated and although the sex can be good majority of the time are we not doing this for the money?  Are we not a business i.e service provider and service seeker?

It is down to us to ensure that our clients have a fabulous time during our appointment time but are they entitled to assume they can stay as long as they want? 

Unfortunately when we stick to the time routine we are labelled clock watchers or too mechanical or too cold and money orientated. 

Fabulassie

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #1 on: 20 August 2015, 08:44:04 am »
Yes, it's true. I don't have too much of a problem with this but I know that some clients feel that any reminder that they're only there because they've paid means you've let the mask slip and they resent that.

But it's their problem, not ours.

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #2 on: 20 August 2015, 08:51:54 am »
Some will respect our professional boundaries others will always try pushing them.
I get 15 min booking guys who have no concept of time whatsoever!

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #3 on: 20 August 2015, 08:53:53 am »
Some will respect our professional boundaries others will always try pushing them.
I get 15 min booking guys who have no concept of time whatsoever!

I find those that initially book a longer appointment then change it to be this type of boundary pusher

TheLittleMatchGirl

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #4 on: 20 August 2015, 09:00:15 am »
Yes it's an awkward part of the job I find. I'm not one for letting people stay any longer, mins over I can take but any more than that is only in the extremely rare case I'm enjoying their company

I think maybe being with an agency I have a ready made excuse as I only get 15 mins between apts so I set my alarm a few mins before time is up and I have to wrap up the booking if I want to be clean and room sorted before next booking.

I agree FB that we shouldn't feel bad. A genuine sports masseuse or physio practitioner doesn't give extra time bcos the customer has a fragile ego that they want stroking!
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TheLittleMatchGirl

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #5 on: 20 August 2015, 09:06:19 am »
I think we need to remember that all this "feedback" we hear about things like us girls being clock watchers or whatever comes from forums usually, so it's not really something we should actually take seriously I feel as they've got their agenda

Maybe it depends on the length of booking ie amount of money as well, I know that if I'm with the agency getting ?35 for half an hour no way am I giving extra time
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Mirror

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #6 on: 20 August 2015, 09:41:50 am »
As far as I'm concerned I am being paid for a service which is paid for in a particular amount of time.

I am clear in my advertising about the type of services and experience offered. I also guide clients in what I can/cannot do. Two hours of constant shagging away, with no breaks or orgasm for the man, that is not the sort of thing I'm offering. I have had someone do that but it's very rare.

When I offered half hour bookings I found many of them did want to cram things in, or saunter around making 30 minutes into 50 minutes.

I have however also had several men book 1 hour, over run, and then saunter around and when I've said something about their 1 hour becoming 90 minutes, they have taken offence. Interestingly enough several of these told me they considered me friend, and that they cared for me, often they'd be on a regular discount or old rates. It's not logical that they'd then test my hospitality, or perhaps that's the whole point!

Other times I have clients who book the time they know they will take up, and go bob on that time which is absolutely brilliant.


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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #7 on: 20 August 2015, 09:53:38 am »
I also have this , i realise that if you let them once stay just a 10 min overtime next time they take advantage of it and dont bother to leave. I had a client in Essex who always stay over time and everytime he want to come he tell me from before that we take it easy like before ( he pays for 1h but like to stay 2h) , i never let him stay so long(max15 min)  but he keep try his luck saying that we are friends now

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #8 on: 20 August 2015, 10:05:05 am »
Yes they abuse our 'politeness'.
It's a mistake to sit undressed, chatting, drinking or pottering
round the room because 'subtle' doesn't work with boundary pushers...

They've already taken control.
But we just didn't notice it yet!

5 minute's before time's up I'm out the room and
smile, 'I'll give you a minute to get dressed.'
No drama, no debate, polite and clear.
No one's ever naked when I got back.
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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #9 on: 20 August 2015, 10:18:26 am »
Yes they abuse our 'politeness'.
It's a mistake to sit undressed, chatting, drinking or pottering
round the room because 'subtle' doesn't work with boundary pushers...
they've already taken control.
But we just didn't notice it yet!

5 minute's before time's up I'm out the room and
smile, 'I'll give you a minute to get dressed.'
No drama or debate, polite and clear.

No one's ever naked when I got back.

When doing incall I would walk out the room to get a gown, sometimes if someone was really faffing I'd go and start tidying up the lounge, go get a drink, or even turn my phone on - never answer it with a client, but sometimes the ping of a text being received would remind the client that it was time to go.

Nia Hope

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #10 on: 20 August 2015, 11:42:54 am »
Yes they abuse our 'politeness'.
It's a mistake to sit undressed, chatting, drinking or pottering
round the room because 'subtle' doesn't work with boundary pushers...
they've already taken control.
But we just didn't notice it yet!

5 minute's before time's up I'm out the room and
smile, 'I'll give you a minute to get dressed.'
No drama or debate, polite and clear.

No one's ever naked when I got back.

When doing incall I would walk out the room to get a gown, sometimes if someone was really faffing I'd go and start tidying up the lounge, go get a drink, or even turn my phone on - never answer it with a client, but sometimes the ping of a text being received would remind the client that it was time to go.
I do this but some still don't get the message, I do start answering my phone if they're taking too long, x
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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #11 on: 20 August 2015, 12:20:27 pm »
Thankfully I get those types very rarely. Usually of the "but I haven't finished yet!" variety. Still though, I'm guessing it's more of an incall thing?

Fabulassie

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #12 on: 20 August 2015, 12:26:17 pm »
I literally just had a client who was going overtime and he needed to be told. I did it nicely, of course. It's just that I looked over his shoulder at the clock and saw that we'd reached 30 minutes and he was still fucking me so I said, "Would you like to cum in my mouth, or how would you like to finish?" And he said, "Oh, in your pussy but in a minute... can I stick it in your bum hole, first?" He hadn't paid extra for anal, I hadn't prepared for anal, and his time was up so I just said, "No, sweetie... we're out of time I'm afraid." He took it pretty well. As he was dressing I explained that if he'd read my profile he'd have seen that anal is extra and requires preparing.

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #13 on: 20 August 2015, 01:36:56 pm »
"can I stick it in your bum hole, first?"

Who said romance was dead, eh?

I had to laugh this week. My 30 minuter who always hangs around surprised me by booking for an hour. So of course, he ended up blathering on 10-15m past his time...

I find the vast majority of clients are fine and go within good time. If they don't then my policy varies depending on whether I like them!
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Midsstudent

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Re: You pay for my time...
« Reply #14 on: 20 August 2015, 04:34:59 pm »
I saw a review for a girl recently where it was commented was the only negative was that she didn't give any time for free... how is that to give a good service something for free is expected of us now?