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ilovedots

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Re: You know you're spending too much time on saafe when...
« Reply #15 on: 04 June 2012, 04:21:06 pm »
Do you think most guys 'expect' stockings and suspenders, out of interest????

I think most of them don't really care, as long as you look good and feel good (confident). I normally wear dresses/skirts, heels, stockings or hold ups for the in-calls, because they make me feel attractive and I think guys can sense my confidence. My friend on the other hand, NEVER wears anything of that sort, she does her hair, make-up and nails but always dresses in jeans, a t-shirt or shirt and a pair of converse sneakers :D She turns down requests for stockings, heels etc... And although there have been a few walk-outs, ultimately she's always been very busy.

So there's no rule...
Yes, I'd risk it for a biscuit, as I said, you know me.

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Re: You know you're spending too much time on saafe when...
« Reply #16 on: 04 June 2012, 07:58:42 pm »
I also look at girls and wonder if they are escorts or maybe see someone on the till in the supermarket and want to say to them....don't you realise how much you could be making going self employed and working as an escort instead of working your guts out here for minimum wage?

I'm guilty of this too. There's one girl who's been working at a Tesco close to my place for quite a while and every time I see her I think she'd make the perfect escort. All that untapped potential ;) Sometimes I feel sorry for people I see working for minimum wage, I hate myself for it. Then again lots of people would probably feel sorry for me if they knew what I did for my above-minimum wage :D

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Re: You know you're spending too much time on saafe when...
« Reply #17 on: 05 June 2012, 02:19:24 am »
I'm guilty of this too. There's one girl who's been working at a Tesco close to my place for quite a while and every time I see her I think she'd make the perfect escort. All that untapped potential ;) Sometimes I feel sorry for people I see working for minimum wage, I hate myself for it. Then again lots of people would probably feel sorry for me if they knew what I did for my above-minimum wage :D

That's true. When I was a mini cab driver 5 years ago I once spent a whole night taking a young girl from hotel to hotel. She never spoke a word to me, just to her agency/pimp on the phone so it was obvious what she was doing. I wanted to hug her and tell her she didn't need to be doing that...and I cried later on thinking about her!
OMG....how the tables have turned lol

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Re: You know you're spending too much time on saafe when...
« Reply #18 on: 05 June 2012, 09:56:01 am »
It's so interesting isn't it.

At one time, years ago, my attitude to someone who was a prostitute would have been total disdain. Not so now.

I guess in a lot of cases, it just simply takes the right set of circumstances to make you 1. first start actually even considering it (in my case divorce and wondering how I'd survive financially) and 2. actually start thinking positively about it, and then 3. begin to think, you know, I think I could actually get a lot of enjoyment out of this (idiots/TWs etc notwithstanding).

And I wish SOOO badly that I had done this then, 5 years ago, instead of getting together with a man ten yrs my junior who was a total, utter waste of every second of that time. I tell you what, recession notwithstanding, I'd be in a much more favourable financial position now if I had done.


casey_kisses

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Re: You know you're spending too much time on saafe when...
« Reply #19 on: 05 June 2012, 10:28:31 am »
It's so interesting isn't it.

At one time, years ago, my attitude to someone who was a prostitute would have been total disdain. Not so now.

I guess in a lot of cases, it just simply takes the right set of circumstances to make you 1. first start actually even considering it (in my case divorce and wondering how I'd survive financially) and 2. actually start thinking positively about it, and then 3. begin to think, you know, I think I could actually get a lot of enjoyment out of this (idiots/TWs etc notwithstanding).

And I wish SOOO badly that I had done this then, 5 years ago, instead of getting together with a man ten yrs my junior who was a total, utter waste of every second of that time. I tell you what, recession notwithstanding, I'd be in a much more favourable financial position now if I had done.



This wasn't the case with me, I never had any disdain for the industry. From my mid-teens it was always something I was very curious about, and at 17 I had my first appointment (I lied and said I was 18). I just wanted to know what it was like, well I didn't like it, and didn't do it again. A year and a half later I had moved to uni, and again the curiosity of it crept in. This time I went for an agency, and did the whole thing properly, and I loved it.

I don't know what draws me to this industry, and yes some parts are not so great. But being an escort suits me down to the ground. I never bought into that whole belle-du-jour shit and knew that it was not as glamourous as it might seem. I think maybe it was because it was so taboo, and the idea of it turned me on.

I have no intention on doing it for the rest of my life- just as long as I enjoy it and it helps me along my path to world domination  ;D. No matter how much I love it, I want a 'normal' life when I get a bit older.

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