When you are so bored of having sex that you can't imagine having the energy to seek casual flings any more - what's the point of having mediocre sex for free when you can get paid for it?

(I am aware this isn't the case for everyone, re libido, but it certainly has been for me - and I was insatiable before I started escorting. A few months of spending every day catering to Authentic Pleasure Man has killed my sex drive)

You start to look at random guys and wonder if they pay for sex. Anyone else do this?

I do it all the time unless I am pre-occupied with something else. I would have thought it is normal in this line of work.

With one partner I had I resented it whether it was a work day or not, and when that happens you know the relationship is definitely over.

You might well be So right. 

Yup..yup..I hate to say this but who has a "healthy" relationship (a textbook "model" case) these days when instant gratification is more important than self-sacrifice?  LTR has its own sell-by date.  Some LTR had gone way past its S-BD ages ago but you stay because you "love" him (like an old blanket with little holes and bits of tears in that you got so used to and would feel bad about discarding..lol) whilst you are not in love.... Some of these wg + males could well be "co-dependent" in some ways whilst some may not be (built on a solid foundation whilst it is "unorthodox").  It's hard to tell.    After a while, it's well possible to lose sexual "freshness" with your old partner / hubby no matter what you try no matter how hard you try.  Nothing beats new love but it may not last - whilst LTR, your deeper emotions get involved along with a long history of being together whilst sex side has gone" comatose" since ages ago..  Escorting is less complicated.

Good to hear it, Lynx.  A man with no inflated ego.   

Quote from: trashbaby on 28 May 2016, 05:25:47 pm

When you are so bored of having sex that you can't imagine having the energy to seek casual flings any more - what's the point of having mediocre sex for free when you can get paid for it?

(I am aware this isn't the case for everyone, re libido, but it certainly has been for me - and I was insatiable before I started escorting. A few months of spending every day catering to Authentic Pleasure Man has killed my sex drive)

This + 1.i was always horny before doing this. Now I really have no sex drive at all. I think that would be the case for most people who make their hobby their job. Once it's work it loses the appeal!! Lol

lol exactly! For me it goes as far as actually getting annoyed when fuckbuddies text me for a hookup.  I have such a strong urge to surround myself with male friends who care about me propery, and platonically, rather than just looking for a shag.  There's NOTHING wrong with that, and I certainly enjoyed that arrangement before, but I just can't be arsed to give it away for free now.  It would have to be pretty fucking special, and lets face it, it usually isn't!

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Quote from: trashbaby on 28 May 2016, 05:25:47 pm

When you are so bored of having sex that you can't imagine having the energy to seek casual flings any more - what's the point of having mediocre sex for free when you can get paid for it?

(I am aware this isn't the case for everyone, re libido, but it certainly has been for me - and I was insatiable before I started escorting. A few months of spending every day catering to Authentic Pleasure Man has killed my sex drive)

This + 1.i was always horny before doing this. Now I really have no sex drive at all. I think that would be the case for most people who make their hobby their job. Once it's work it loses the appeal!! Lol

lol exactly! For me it goes as far as actually getting annoyed when fuckbuddies text me for a hookup.  I have such a strong urge to surround myself with male friends who care about me propery, and platonically, rather than just looking for a shag.  There's NOTHING wrong with that, and I certainly enjoyed that arrangement before, but I just can't be arsed to give it away for free now.  It would have to be pretty fucking special, and lets face it, it usually isn't!

Yeah, my fuck buddies have all become my platonic friends/therapists who listen to me rant! Lol!
And agree also with the not being able to just be off without thinking of the money you could/should be earning!  If I have a week with no booking pencilled in it makes me feel panicky instead of happy!

When you constantly use male deodorant xx