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Lushblossom

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Re: Why do I always feel ashamed?
« Reply #15 on: 05 February 2018, 05:36:33 am »
I do not see the need to tell any professionals at least I haven't.  I keep it to myself.

I only tell a very few friends and they are few and far between.  Once out in the open it cannot be unsaid. 
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Rosesugar

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Re: Why do I always feel ashamed?
« Reply #16 on: 05 February 2018, 09:00:30 am »
I don't want my home hairdresser to find out
I cover everything up carefully .
She looks after my animal when I tour I just say I'm visiting family or goimg to a wedding or just a break .
Everything is in closed cupboards or suitcases put away I'm ultra careful .
She's the loveliest person but I just don't need her to ever know .
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Pandora Diamond

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Re: Why do I always feel ashamed?
« Reply #17 on: 07 February 2018, 09:38:50 pm »
Quote from: Justine on 01 February 2018, 07:46:14 pm
Nothing to be ashamed of at all and no I have never felt like the way you describe.  Stop making excuses and enjoy.

Very few people know I do this job and I choose not to tell all and sundry not because I am ashamed (never have been and never will be) but because they will be embarrassed/lost for words/feel uncomfortable etc and I am not about shocking folk or gloating at reactions if they know what I get up to etc.

When you say "professional" do you mean doctors etc or anyone who is up their own arse and think they are better than others because  I think we all must meet a fair few of those.

Some men who visit me obviously look down on service providers in the sex industry and while they are polite they give off a vibe which indicates to me they think they are better than me. I just inwardly laugh at them because they are no better than me or you or anyone else, they are most likely cheating and paying for sex with money their wives or children could benefit from.

I am not out and proud but I am certainly proud because I do a damn good job of making men happy (for a short while anyway!  :)
Wow excellent response !!!
I completely agree with you ..
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MissMagnifique

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Re: Why do I always feel ashamed?
« Reply #18 on: 08 February 2018, 11:07:27 am »
Oh shame is a big one!! it literally is like living in a closet and being embarrassed for something that you actually enjoy!
for years I kept it secret and thought its shameful and promised to end one day, but then I got more comfortable with myself and decided to stop apologising for who I am.

I still dont say my job to everyone, I gauge their level of openness or their need to know. my sexual health clinic, my therapist, my sexological bodyworker - people who I've chosen to be part of my mental and physical health support system - they know everything. inner circle friends also.
but for the rest - I am  "health coach".
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