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lulu7

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #15 on: 23 June 2016, 07:27:43 pm »
I get this all the time! Along with "You think you're so special" "You think you're so hot!"

Being me I actually answer yes to all these statements  and then point out that they're the ones trying to book me::). (I don't think this really and my profile is like 3 lines long and I don't even talk about my looks funnily enough)

I think a lot of it is sort of a lack of self awareness and sort of their way of dealing with rejection. Their view of themselves in their head is that they are lovely, polite, amazing, "NICE"  men so if you're rejecting them it obviously must be you and not them!

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #16 on: 23 June 2016, 08:21:11 pm »
I'd say it boils down to men not being able to comprehend the idea of being turned down by a prossie...
;D ;D  I love it!!! We dislike idiots, plain and simple.

Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #17 on: 23 June 2016, 09:24:19 pm »
I think the more you say "no", the more they see it as a challenge to get you to say "yes", I think it's best just to ignore.
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
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Emma_C

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #18 on: 24 June 2016, 08:25:35 am »
If I was actually working from my home I wouldn't see half the guys I entertain now. I'm quite lucky that I get a lot of professionals but the odd flinch inducer passes through on a weekly basis. Guy on the phone yesterday sounded very polite etc he turns up with rotten teeth, a head shaped like a Zika virus victim & is a bin man  :o I was too polite to send him away so it was a very standoffish affair on my part with intimacy. He was a nice guy but couldn't get it up so it was mostly massage, phew. Would be a difficult one to explain to the neighbours if working from home.

Embrace your high standards, saves psychological torment in the long run.

 


Kendra

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #19 on: 24 June 2016, 08:53:40 am »
I don't care what they look like though as long as they're respectful and clean. The rotting teeth would have meant kissing was off the menu though xx

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #20 on: 24 June 2016, 09:29:06 am »
Would be a difficult one to explain to the neighbours if working from home.

Embrace your high standards, saves psychological torment in the long run.

I agree.  There is nothing wrong to say, "you are selective".  Being selective does not directly mean "you are some kind of snob" which is a very jaded and negative way of looking at it. ("some" punters are negative and jaded, mind)  Some are really nice. 

Decent men will understand that you got to be.  I had indiscreet ones who walked all over me in my earlier when my price wasn't right (way too cheap). 

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #21 on: 24 June 2016, 09:36:02 am »
Bottom line is, even if you are up your own arse ... It's your business so it's your rules!
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
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newbieNW

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #22 on: 24 June 2016, 09:50:38 am »
 ;D ;D  Essentially.  You cannot please everybody.  You can't kiss everybody's asses all the time.  Just say, "tough luck, mate" and put the phone down.  :D

Kendra

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #23 on: 24 June 2016, 10:00:45 am »
I just had someone phone me there for a booking later today, he sounded like he was making an appointment to have himself put down rather than booking an escort. He asked where I was and I gave him the postcode and told him that I would be in touch closer to the time (not last minute, closer to the time....there's a difference), he paused and then disputed saying he has to plan his journey which I can understand but I already gave him the postcode. Anyway I put the phone down, didn't like the sound of him at all. Gut feeling that at the very best, it would have been a very awkward booking.

The feeling I get after a bad booking or someone I didn't click with in the slightest isn't worth the money to me.

I much prefer to be buzzing and happy with the money I've just made after entertaining a nice man regardless of what he looks like.

Kendra

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #24 on: 24 June 2016, 10:05:52 am »
And there's no doubt in my mind that he'll think I have a bad attitude.

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #25 on: 24 June 2016, 10:18:15 am »
Well, Kendra.  We / I have one of these men.  He got the postcode (that's generous).  I wouldn't have given mine at all full stop.  He was still acting like a toddler despite that.  You can't kiss asses of these miserable arrogant people, who would simply expect you to beg fo their custom!! !  Tell him that you are not a therapist and you can't help him.  You can't be nice to these people who aren't nice to you.  This is a two-way game.  I don't accept bookings from men who are completely arrogant expect me to kiss their asses and beg for their money.  Nobody is more important than yourself.  Your approach is absolutely correct.  Rely on your gut instinct. 

Willow Summers

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Re: You're up your own arse!
« Reply #26 on: 24 June 2016, 10:24:21 am »
I saw a client a couple of times, in my early days. He used to text and talk about his problems. anyway, he had been turned down by a couple of women so decided he wanted me to cheer him up. I told him i wasnt available. His response was ' even a whore turns me down'

There are guys that find being turned down by a 'whore' very humilating i guess